Can't feel anything with a condom?!
Question: If my boyfriend says he can't feel anything at all with a condom, even an ultra-sensitive one, is he telling the truth? He says it's like humping air. I'm on birth control. And we haven't actually started doing it yet. He says he's been tested for STDs but has no proof, but he says he'll get tested again for me. So anyway, I want to know guys' opinions about this? Did you find a way to help you have more sensation if you had this problem or what did you do?
Answers: If my boyfriend says he can't feel anything at all with a condom, even an ultra-sensitive one, is he telling the truth? He says it's like humping air. I'm on birth control. And we haven't actually started doing it yet. He says he's been tested for STDs but has no proof, but he says he'll get tested again for me. So anyway, I want to know guys' opinions about this? Did you find a way to help you have more sensation if you had this problem or what did you do?
If the two of you are in love you should go have the test together. (Unless you're a virgin.) If he's clean, and if you trust him completely, then get on the pill or get a diaphragm when you're ready. Use your good judgement. He sounds like a good guy, and he says hel'll get tested again for you. He sounds pretty trustworthy to me.
Bless you both and good luck! :)
thats true for some guys... have him get tested, make sure to be consistent in taking your birth control, and make sure he pulls out to ***. not 100%, nothing is, but you should be fine.
I think they decrease the sensation, but if he can't feel "anything", then he didn't have much sensation to begin with. Don't give in to him. He just wants it all!!
Yes condoms do decrease sensation especially if he has had other partners and is used to not using one, or if he masturbates to much that would cause the sensation to be lower. If you are both in a serious committed relationship BOTH of you should go get tested for STD and the proceed from there. During foreplay use your hand and mouth on him a lot more so he is very aroused and that may help it feel better as well. Then cook him a nice meal afterwards he will appreciate that.
i masturbate everyday and it does not effect the feeling of a woman. condoms are never the same but be careful you may want to feel him.
He is telling the truth. I can't feel much wearing a condom either. For a female imagine wrapping your clitoris in a plastic bag. You say your on birth control so if you are in a commited relationship its not unreasonable for him to not want to use a condom. Condoms are for single guys. Its the Players penalty or should be. OTOH your request that he be tested and have proof is fair also. But its how you go about asking. Do it in a polite and compassionate manner.
Sounds like he is "circumcised" like me, I have never been able to feel enough with a condom to reach orgasm during intercourse, could hardly make it without the condom. Foreskin "restoration" (non-surgical) has helped us greatly.