Couldn't climax from oral stimulation?!
Question: so two nights ago my new girlfriend and i were fooling around and one thing led to another and we began to give each other "oral pleasure" lol. It felt amazing. but after half an hour i still hadnt climaxed and just gave up. i am sooo attracted to her and i was HIGHLY aroused. I just for the life of me couldn't get off. she really felt bad. i explained that it wasnt her and that it was me. but if i enjoyed it so much ( as i really did) why couldn't I "Express" that enjoyment.. Im really confused.. its never happened to me before and honestly it was the best B J ive ever had. Im a 22/m whos never had a problem preforming before. any personal experiences or theories out there? lol leave the gay jokes and obnoxious comments to someone who wants to hear it please.. im embarrassed enough.
Answers: so two nights ago my new girlfriend and i were fooling around and one thing led to another and we began to give each other "oral pleasure" lol. It felt amazing. but after half an hour i still hadnt climaxed and just gave up. i am sooo attracted to her and i was HIGHLY aroused. I just for the life of me couldn't get off. she really felt bad. i explained that it wasnt her and that it was me. but if i enjoyed it so much ( as i really did) why couldn't I "Express" that enjoyment.. Im really confused.. its never happened to me before and honestly it was the best B J ive ever had. Im a 22/m whos never had a problem preforming before. any personal experiences or theories out there? lol leave the gay jokes and obnoxious comments to someone who wants to hear it please.. im embarrassed enough.
First if you ever have a sensation of near climax and then nothing happens
You will have one hard time to make anything happen
Cause the body thinks it has already happen and the hormone levels have dropped back to normal
This is the most common cause of inability to have a climax
I usually can't climax from oral stimulation either. I like it as foreplay though.
I'd just give it another try. Maybe it takes a different technique for you or you need to adjust. Maybe you were stressed or nervous. I wouldn't give up so easily. ;-)
I've had that experience too sometimes. It could honestly be a psycological thing. Or just you didnt get enough stimulation to achieve orgasm for the oral stimulation. If you have the same problem with sex or hand stimulation then id say you may have a problem.
This is a good thing. You won't finish fast when you move on to sex. Don't worry about not finishing everytime. It's not a big deal. The orgasm's a lot better if it takes longer to get you there, anyways.
Not everyone feels the same. I only like deep penetration as deep as possible. Oral sex would turn me off
Lots of guys don't climax from oral. For many it's just the appetizer, not the main course.
maybe she gives bad dome
It is possible to be "over aroused", you get so tense that your body will not react. So relax and enjoy.
Sometimes with a new partner it is difficult to "let yourself go" in that way regardless of how good it feels. As you spend more time with her it may get easier. Don't worry about this episode....and if it bothers her...kick her *** to the curb!!
it doenst matter
if it happens next time cover it up.. so wen u feel that maybe u could get there move her away, n start to toss finish yourself off n then jsut *** on her haid so atleast she feels that she played a role.. I did that with my girlfriend becuase i ahd the same problem.. eventually i jsut had to stick it into her because i couldnt stand having to finish off by my self all the time
i would say most dont