Double standards about permissive and prude society...............?!
Question: In the media it would seem we are freer and open our sexual being, people can no longer shock, although the media lives on shock.
Yet, for several year snow men have worn baggier underwear, clothes in saunas, all to disguise what is underneath. Terrible fear of being seen in the raw wherever we were not so bothered once.
Has obsesseive permissiveness caused gross prudishness?
Answers: In the media it would seem we are freer and open our sexual being, people can no longer shock, although the media lives on shock.
Yet, for several year snow men have worn baggier underwear, clothes in saunas, all to disguise what is underneath. Terrible fear of being seen in the raw wherever we were not so bothered once.
Has obsesseive permissiveness caused gross prudishness?
Snowmen made me laugh!
Nude is best always especially in saunas and pools; but Britons have always been too strait laced
Surely snowmen would melt in saunas?
I believe that we live in a world that fears what it does not understand but insists we should be accepting of all types of people. We are told that we MUST accept gays because they are normal but I feel we are told that by more gays than non gays. And then those of us who do not understand the gay way of life think that all gays want to get into each others pants and convert the remaining str8 people to being gay. If I am gay I must want to convert you. People are afraid of the gay guy standing next to them at the urinal or the guy in the sauna might be gay and want to convert him. If he converts me I will get aids. All gays have aids and I don't want to get it. All gays are just weird. I don't want to be weird. It's this kind of fear that I believe drives us to be prudes and keep ourselves covered and hidden from the next guy. It's this kind of fear that prevents men and women from allowing their selves to be friendly and non sexually intimate with members of their own sex. I see myself as 95 % gay and do enjoy seeing naked men or just their penis as they pee but I assure all men that just because I enjoy looking it does not mean I want to convert you or jump your bones. I may and most times do think about how much fun you might be in bed or wonder how you look inside those pants but I would never do anything that would cause you to fear me. Just because I like what I see does not mean I want to persue you. It is all of this that I believe causes the worlds society to be prudish even though it preaches openess and acceptance