Guys..how can dry humping hurt u..?!
Question: i am 19.5 n my bf is 23..both virgins..we went to chicago to attend a marriage ..stayed in a hotel for 8 days..the first day while we were cuddling things got really hot..we madeout like hell and ended up grinding eachother with clothes on..
to me it felt really good.. honestly i hated when he used to stop lol.. i have heard guys hate dry sex coz it is painfull for them :S but he ll hump me each nite..several times per nite..but it only lasted for few minutes coz he just suddenly used to get over me and ran to drink water..i guess he didnt want to ejaculate..then he ll come back and hold me tight and kiss me until we fell asleep..
i am going to see him after that trip..tonite.. he hasnt talked abt how much he liked it n stuff.. but do u think he ll like to do it again?? i want to know how this humping thing can hurt him..we had our clothes on..m thining of doing it in bikini and him in boxer.. will that work better..any ideas?
thx
Answers: i am 19.5 n my bf is 23..both virgins..we went to chicago to attend a marriage ..stayed in a hotel for 8 days..the first day while we were cuddling things got really hot..we madeout like hell and ended up grinding eachother with clothes on..
to me it felt really good.. honestly i hated when he used to stop lol.. i have heard guys hate dry sex coz it is painfull for them :S but he ll hump me each nite..several times per nite..but it only lasted for few minutes coz he just suddenly used to get over me and ran to drink water..i guess he didnt want to ejaculate..then he ll come back and hold me tight and kiss me until we fell asleep..
i am going to see him after that trip..tonite.. he hasnt talked abt how much he liked it n stuff.. but do u think he ll like to do it again?? i want to know how this humping thing can hurt him..we had our clothes on..m thining of doing it in bikini and him in boxer.. will that work better..any ideas?
thx
the only problem is he may get irritaeted if his unit rubs the same spot. If you guys are only doing that and he doesnt ejaculate then he may get a case of blue balls where his junk gets all primed and ready to go and doesnt so it aches until he releases. i woulnt do the underware thing cause it will lead to actual sex. a par of boxers is a lot eayser to get out of than pants
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the term is 'blue balls.' getting that excited and not finishing can cause some pain in the testicles.
I won't hurt unless you fail to stop at dry humping. My experience tells me you will go farther. Wearing thin undies will increase the likely-hood that you will.
I dont know you need to ask him but that sounds fun =]
thats kind of weird, but im glad yall havent had sex! i dont think yall should do it wile you wear a bikini and him boxers, just because that will soon lead to actual sex. but if you do have sex just remember to use protection!
When I was 16 my girl and I used to do this, mostly in the pool in our bathing suits, and with our clothes on on the couch. We both would come, though. Not sure why he doesn't want to. That's the best part!