Sex is painful for my boyfriend - it feels like his foreskin is ripping?!
Question: Me and my boyfriend are having problems having sex because my boyfriend can't put his penis all the way in.
He describes it as feeling as if his foreskin is ripping.
At first we thought we thought it might just be rushing into it a bit quickly, but the last few times i am literally dripping wet and its still the same thing.
It happened with my last boyfriend too so i don't know if i am particularly small down there - but i genuinely don't think so.
My boyfriends foreskin doesn't cover his whole penis, so maybe that is the problem?
I'm really just guessing.
We can't go on like this... does anyone suffer from the same issue? Maybe you sorted it some how?
We have talked about circumcision but he is diabetic and he really doesn't heal very well at all. Any scars he has look really bad.
Help!
Answers: Me and my boyfriend are having problems having sex because my boyfriend can't put his penis all the way in.
He describes it as feeling as if his foreskin is ripping.
At first we thought we thought it might just be rushing into it a bit quickly, but the last few times i am literally dripping wet and its still the same thing.
It happened with my last boyfriend too so i don't know if i am particularly small down there - but i genuinely don't think so.
My boyfriends foreskin doesn't cover his whole penis, so maybe that is the problem?
I'm really just guessing.
We can't go on like this... does anyone suffer from the same issue? Maybe you sorted it some how?
We have talked about circumcision but he is diabetic and he really doesn't heal very well at all. Any scars he has look really bad.
Help!
if he tries to pull it back slowly every day, alittle each day or even week it should come back sooner or later.
I think you should talk to a doctor.
,uh-uh... someone needs to be circumcised!!
(check out the answer before mine, "go see a doctor" u fekin genius!! why do they bother answering?)
Has he had sex before? 2 things here. You are probably small and he has a tight skin which is a normal problem in man. It should have been detected when he was young, because now its a bit painful to sort out. but once done he will have a healthier sexual life
He (or they) may not still be able to retract their foreskins all the way. They may also feel the frenulum tugging; that's not uncommon.
Go to a doctor, that could help, and maybe you guys do it too often, and its putting a lot of stress down there, you guys may be going kinda hard, to the point where it gives him pain. Remember: Guys have their limits...
he shouldn't be worried about the scars. He would have a scar after being circumcised wether he was a diabetic or not. He should get it done, much cleaner and as soon as its healed, you too could go for it, deep penetration whenever you are both feeling hot.
He should really talk to his doctor. In the meantime, have him try a lubricated condom.
get him to see a doctor soon, it maybe he needs a circumcision