Why does my boyfriend do this after sex?!


Question: well im 17 so is my bf and we started having sex a few months ago and it wasnt good at first but now we both love it and we are very careful i am on birth control and he uses a condom everytime..... after we have sex EVERYTIME right after he finishes like a minute after hell get out of bed and take 10 mintues in the bathroom taking off the condom? is it uncomfortable or gross to wear it after the deed? do most guys do that?


Answers: well im 17 so is my bf and we started having sex a few months ago and it wasnt good at first but now we both love it and we are very careful i am on birth control and he uses a condom everytime..... after we have sex EVERYTIME right after he finishes like a minute after hell get out of bed and take 10 mintues in the bathroom taking off the condom? is it uncomfortable or gross to wear it after the deed? do most guys do that?

well i like to have a clean penis. when you pull out of a condom theres oily stuff and semen, which i like to wash off thoroughly. he probably just has a huge mess to clean up and is sparing your sheets by going into the bathroom to take it off.

i have never heard of anyone taking 10 minutes just to take it off. Maybe he is just extra cautious when removing it.

well its full of semen....maybe he doesnt want you to see?

Maybe he thinks it's gross and he doesn't want you to see it, idk it might be his version of common courtesy.

maybe he doesnt want you to see him going soft, or he wants to take the proper precatiouns for your and his sake

Well, a very tight peice of plastic on your member can be very discomforting, and having it liquidy and disgusting can make it that much more, usually it would only take a few seconds or a minute at most to take it off, maybe he's washing himself?

Nah, it's normal.

he is probably cleaning up a little no matter how great the sex is it usally pretty messy

Just wanted to say, good for you for using both bc and a condom. I think young people don't realize how prevalent STD's are.

maybe he is washing up. and often i have to pee after sex, but it is a little hard to do when erect...

maybe he's trying to pee afterwards. It can be hard to pee immediately after ejaculation.

yes my hubby does exactly the same and most men do it co when there dick goes down it ll fall off if he leaves it on .and ii would go everwhere .

maybe he doesnt like touching those fluids

maybe he needs your help or some pointers on how to take it off. it just takes a few seconds so i don't know what the problem is. it sounds like he might get a little aroused after taking it off and is in there whacking off instead of asking you for seconds.

maby hes wanking?

It might be that he does not want you to see the *** in the condom. Or maybe he is going to the loo or freshening up. Just ask him, if you share sex you can ask him this.

No if he is smart he is washin the unit and nut area and taking off the condom washing his unit incase you do it again there is little chance that youll get a swimmer up into you. You never use a condom twice you clean up and put on a new one

curtdude

He sounds like he is finishing the transaction in the bathroom. It does not take 10 minutes to pull off a condom and toss it.

Sure he is not whacking off again

prolly washin his cock...

He is "finishing" off .He is not having an
orgasm with you.

he hates you. :( sorry hun

hi heres my email jeralega@yahoo.com.i'll wait for your email now.thnx!





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