I need guys to give me their opinions and view points on this one?!
Question: me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 7 months now. Things are going good. But there is One thing that pisses me off more than anything..and that is when he watches porn. He tells me that ever since we started dating he hasnt watched porn once. but i think thats B.S. I also get the feeling that he wants to do otehr chicks. because, well, sometimes he tells me who he thinks is sexy and who he would like to put his weiner in. (he usually tells me this stuff when he is upset) He is typically not very popular with the ladies and a lot of people say he is lucky to be with me. so i wonder why he spends so much time thinknig about other girls, watching porn and jacking off when he has me? especially when we have sex probly 5 times a week. i feel like im not good enough, or i cant satisfy him. i often feel like when we have sex he thinks about other women. i worry that he is using me. Is this something i should worry about? is there anythign i can do to excite him in the bedroom?
Answers: me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 7 months now. Things are going good. But there is One thing that pisses me off more than anything..and that is when he watches porn. He tells me that ever since we started dating he hasnt watched porn once. but i think thats B.S. I also get the feeling that he wants to do otehr chicks. because, well, sometimes he tells me who he thinks is sexy and who he would like to put his weiner in. (he usually tells me this stuff when he is upset) He is typically not very popular with the ladies and a lot of people say he is lucky to be with me. so i wonder why he spends so much time thinknig about other girls, watching porn and jacking off when he has me? especially when we have sex probly 5 times a week. i feel like im not good enough, or i cant satisfy him. i often feel like when we have sex he thinks about other women. i worry that he is using me. Is this something i should worry about? is there anythign i can do to excite him in the bedroom?
Girl, you are with a guy who has conditioned himself to OBJECTIFY women.
In other words, he really and truly doesn't respect women, including you. He looks at women as sexual toys for his amusement.
There is really nothing you can do about this. You either have to accept him the way he is, or dump him.
I know I'm not a guy, but he is a jerk and you need to dump him! It sounds like he is VERY lucky to have you, but he doesn't realize how lucky he is and doesn't respect that. Get a good guy, not this loser.
dump him
all he wants is just free sex, dump him.
dump him, hes a perve, u dont want to poop out babies for a perve, Nah Mean
I'm going to have to dissent from the popular opinion here. It's not uncommon for a man to still indulge in pornography while in a relationship. In a man's brain it doesn't equate to a rejection of you personally, and it's entirely possible he doesn't understand your concerns.
I think the way to approach is to assume ignorance before malice. If he's willing to discuss it, it's worth explaining to him your fear that you aren't satisfying him. It may end up being a part of the package of being in a relationship with him, that's largely up to him. It is important to explain your position, and look for a compromise.
dump his jerk-***! NOW!