Is he lying to me? does he want something/someone else? Guys, could you help me !
Question: so my boyfriend and i have been dating for just about 7 months. and i can definatley say we are in love. i took his virginity, and even though were young and its only been 7 months, we both say we want to be with eachother forever. (which may sound stupid) But sometimes i really worry that he's gonna get tired of me and want somethign new. I see most guys want to be with a lot of women in their life, relationship wise and sexually. is that a cliche? ive had 3 different guys i had sex with before my boyfriend now. And as far as im concerned i dont need any more sexual partners. When i ask him if he's gonna want other women he says no. and of course he wont tell me he does. but can i believe him? or is it impossible for a guy to want to be with the same woman all his life?
Answers: so my boyfriend and i have been dating for just about 7 months. and i can definatley say we are in love. i took his virginity, and even though were young and its only been 7 months, we both say we want to be with eachother forever. (which may sound stupid) But sometimes i really worry that he's gonna get tired of me and want somethign new. I see most guys want to be with a lot of women in their life, relationship wise and sexually. is that a cliche? ive had 3 different guys i had sex with before my boyfriend now. And as far as im concerned i dont need any more sexual partners. When i ask him if he's gonna want other women he says no. and of course he wont tell me he does. but can i believe him? or is it impossible for a guy to want to be with the same woman all his life?
'I took his virginity..' : wow, girls say it so much more polite than a guy would!
Anyway, we guys hate to talk about commitment. We either a-plan on leaving sometime in the future or b-want to have an exit strategy incase things go bad. We're not necessarily planning on leaving, but we do like to know there is a fire-exit.
The worst thing you can do is talk about it, because you'll just put ideas in his head and then he might decide that leaving would be best.
You are together now, enjoy it and don't worry about tomorrow.
Worry about the breakup when you or him is ready to breakup, but until then ignore it. (You might stay together and feel silly for wasting time worrying about What Ifs.)
if u keep giving him SEXX then he will stay ..go pick up a cosmo and read the sex tipss YAY USE THEM AND HE WILL NEVER LEAVE
You want a answer to the future and no one can give that to you. Some people are together for years and end up in divorce. There isn't any guarantees in life. You just have to jump in and hope for the best. Work at the relationship but always remember, if it doesn't work, its not the end of the world. Life will go on. But Good Luck
It's very possible, although statistically it's rare. Most men, especially in today's society, has it burned into their mind that they have to 'spread their seed' with more women as a lot of guys, especially the younger crowd (25-) judge your manliness status by how many women you have been with.
In regards to whether or not you can believe him, it's all about whether or not you trust him. If you do, then believe him, otherwise don't. It is possible for someone to be with the same woman for their rest of their lives, they just gotta find that one woman to make them feel that way. :)
YOU seem like a pretty fantastic woman, what a shame more are not like you.
No, he just needs space.
and jsut look your best all the time.
keep on having sex and he going to stay forever
if you feel like he could leave you and feel like all he wants is sex, talk to him about it. be direct and honest with your feelings, dont point any fingers and be understanding as possible.most younger men do want a lot of sex partners and its effin sick!i dont see why they do it and i hate the ones who do!they are jerks! but like i said just comfront him,no one of us can answer your question except for him. and your right he's not going to tell you he wants something different, most men wont.
Doesn't really matter... you already ruined your life by having sex, so do what ever you want, you probably have some type of STD by now, so toooo bad for you!