Is one time a month good for a husband?!
Question: is one time a month for sex good for a husband? what do male consider to be a "good wife" what traits? TY.
Answers: is one time a month for sex good for a husband? what do male consider to be a "good wife" what traits? TY.
My question would be your ages and the length of the marriage. Also who is the one wanting to have sex only once a month. Normally I would say that it would not be enough. Some couples find it hard to get the time to squeeze in a little sex, but it is an important part of being together and time should be made for it. Once a week would be better.
once a week would be best
one time a month is not good for a relationship. you should really step it up.
not enough by a long shot!!!
You should intiate at least once a day
Once a week..pending on you and your husbands age. However, if you aren't enjoying it, perhaps you should get him to do things in bed that you want to do..
I've heard that the average is roughly 1.5 times a week
seriously?
you only want it once a month?
dont plan it, that takes the romance and hotness out of it :(
just do it whenever you both feel like it :)
Once every 2 days.
Unless you want to force him into .... relieving himself using other means. ... if ya know what i meaaaaaaaan ;-)
only if he is 60 + years old. if he is twenty then it should be once in the moring, once in the afternoon and once in the evening.
wow i feel sorry for your husband...
two times a week is better :)
Uhm.
No.
Husbands like pussy
And alot of it.
Just ask my loops
:D:D:D
*seisure*
If you want a short marriage, yes.
If you want a cheating husband, yes.
You must be kidding. I hope so.
lol every night would be accetable your married however if you don't more than a month you add truth to why you should not get married
7-10 times a week, at least. Seriously, I'm not kidding.
Once a month? Are you kidding?
That's good enough for an affair, or divorce.
Hopefully, as newlyweds you'll be having more sex than once a month.
I'd die if I was married and only having sex once a month.
um.....how 'bout once a day...........or more =)
Most people I know say twice a week. I myself would say once a night. Minus the period week.
i think you should talk about it. i mean you need to know what each other wants and if you have differences then come up with a good solutiuon or compremise.
Wow. I out sex my husband. I can't even imagine wanting to only have sex once a month. But ultimately, it's a decision you and your partner need to come to. I know it sounds like a novel concept, but ask your partner how often he'd like to have sex. Then come to some sort of agreement.
That's something you need to talk about with your husband. Some men don't mind having sex infrequently, but others might expect it more often. Come to a compromise of what he might want and what you want. Of course, you should be comfortable with the frequency of sexual activity as well.
If you want to be a good wife to him, talk to him. Good marriages are built on communication and trust. Every marriage is unique, no one can tell you exactly how to live yours. If you're unsure about how to talk to him, you can try seeing a one-time marriage therapist/counselor. He or she can give you some tips or books to read about how to talk to your husband.
Good luck! Just remember, both of you have to make the marriage work, not just you!
once a week at least, but I would say it would be best two or even three times a week. No matter what happens, the more the better! But i think you need to increase sex with your husband a little bit. Ask him what he wants, you may be suprised!
not enough, if its was good and your bored with it now, SPICE it up! if its always sucked, fake it till you make it! if your worried about your sex drive; see a doc... could be an underlying cause
It all depends on the couple, but MOST men want it every day (or just as often as they can get it). Most women could care less. It's a compromise between you two.
It is whatever both people feel comfortable with. though 600 in a fifty year message doesn't sound like a lot to me.
no atleast once or twice a week
good wifey
got to be idenpendent but at the same time let her man handle somethings
loving caring all that
understanding
and the basic stuff that anyone is lookin for in a relationship
but sex once a month can get a man thinking about finding it elsewhere.
on avarage its 2 times a week
Once a month doesn't sound like a good thing but sounds like a chore. I think you should sit down with your husband and discuss whether he finds that as enough and if he is pleased with what is happening once a month. Try and spice things up so sex becomes less of a chore and more of something you look forward to, maybe at the end of a long working week you have a night of romance or something along those lines. Hope this helps XD
"Once a month is enough" was my ex-husband's favorite quote. In fact, he said it a LOT--even in front of his "friends" who were more than willing to take up the slack in my love life.
If you want, I can get you his number.
i was watching oprah and dr. oz said that it will extend your husbands life have sex at least 4 times a week. So the more the better. think about like this. not having sex with him is killing him.
Not at all. I have been married now for 4 years and a lack of closeness between us had nearly torn us apart.
We have had two children, before the first we were going fairly smoothly, having sex a few times a week. when the first was born it was more irregular more like 2 to 3 times a fortnight till we had the second child. i started to lose interest in sex and she started to find me boring, sex had become monotonous.
We started to feel negative tension between us resulting in arguments and eventually our separation. after about three months she found out I wasn't exactly as boring as she thought after finally realizing i was a little more than she thought, we have now started to rekindle our marriage because of our desire to try new things and keep things interesting.
Because of this we are more open with each other and we are getting on much better. I guess what I am trying to say is that there should be no limit to the amount of sex you and your partner should have together as long as you understand each others needs both emotionally and physically when it comes to sex and don't be afraid to try something new every now and then.