Am I too small or is he too big?!
Question: Me and my boyfriend have been having sex lately and it just hurts way too mad. He has a 7.5 inch long penis and its 5 inches around. I dont know if that helps but I am really worried... will I grow into it?
Answers: Me and my boyfriend have been having sex lately and it just hurts way too mad. He has a 7.5 inch long penis and its 5 inches around. I dont know if that helps but I am really worried... will I grow into it?
When you are experiencing a problem like this there are really 3 points to consider.......
1. Relaxation
2. Lubrication
3. Time
Lets start with relaxation, now if you have experienced pain in previous sexual activity with your partner you may feel a little worried about it hurting again. In turn your body will not respond appropriately and you will be tense and stressed. You must feel comfortable to 'get in the mood' or the pressure that you put on yourself will only make it harder and will make you time less enjoyable. Spend time just holding and caressing each other until you feel more comfortable and relaxed. Men can also have problems with premature ejaculation if they worry about it as well.
Next is the lubricant. With stimulation and the right mood a lady will produce her own lubrication secretions but sometimes it is just not enough. If this is the case then get a good water based personal lubricant. You should find that using it should reduce friction between you and your partner and that means less pain for you, but as an added bonus when you reduce the friction between yourself and your partner he may even last longer during intercourse.
Last but not least is time. Sure a 'quickie' may be appropriate at times but most find it a lot less fulfilling. Take lots of time with foreplay and making out, not only should this set the mood but should make you more relaxed with your partner and it gets the 'juices' flowing. The more you spend time just enjoying each others bodies will also make you experience more sensual and brings you closer to your partner both mentally and physically.
Take your time and enjoy your sexual activities and if your partner just wants to rush in then it will not be as satisfying for you or your partner. Being 10" and 5" around i know the problems you guys face especially when you start having sex.
If the pain during intercourse continues then I would definitely suggest you see your physician about the matter.
Uh...i have no idea...
he is not too big
may be u too small
You are not to small and 7.5" is hardly big (compared to my 11 incher)...he just doesn't know how to make love and sounds like he is boning you like a caveman on speed. Dump him and get a better lover.
perhaps your too dry nad not relaxed enough thaats why it hurts let him lick you and then youll be all wet and it shoulndt hurt you ,it dosent sound like hes too big too me xxx
try some lubricant
Did it just start hurting or has it hurt EVERY time you've had sex? If it just started hurting, then you might want to see your doc and get checked. If it's been hurting ever since you started having sex with your boyfriend, you may want to consider using a condom with more lube. More foreplay may help you relax your vaginal muscles, allowing them to stretch enough to accomodate your boyfriend. Good luck.
GET lube!!!
tell him 2 be gentle. relax, take it e-e-say