How do i get my girlfriend to go further with me?!
Question: im 15 years old, my girlfriend and i have been going out since december last year and i'd like to take it to the next step. i have only fingered her, she seemed to like it...but i want to get more out of her, a handyy at least?? the problem is we are never alone, always with her parents or something, id like to know a good place, and if she feels comfortable, please help :)
Answers: im 15 years old, my girlfriend and i have been going out since december last year and i'd like to take it to the next step. i have only fingered her, she seemed to like it...but i want to get more out of her, a handyy at least?? the problem is we are never alone, always with her parents or something, id like to know a good place, and if she feels comfortable, please help :)
Typical 15 year old...its sounds like if ur gf wanted to go further she would, if u got time to do stuff to her alone then she has time to do stuff to you. id wait until she feels comfortable and ready. Dont worry young 'un it will happen soon enough.
howd u get to finger her then... u fingered her, so ask her to return the favor next time ur alone
Your name is "Sex Getter" ??? You sound so typically 15, and how sad for your girlfriend. I know you'll more than likely develop some sensitivity eventually, but it's kind of depressing to read this now. I hope your girlfriend sods off with someone nicer and leaves you with your box of kleenex and some smutty magazines, I really think that's as much as you can cope with emotionally right now.
Sex is not all about YOU getting your rocks off. Sorry.
considering your display name it doesn't look like you need any advice.
BURN!!!!
oh i'm sorry...it just kinda slipped outta my mouth XD
lol you changed your display name...
Ask her if she wants to go further, im pretty sure she will want to too, if shes not ready, then i guess your not going further. But she probably will.
Is there ever a time when your parents are at work? Or a time when hers are at work? Or a time when everyone leaves the house? this is a good time....
you must wait until your of the legal age.....it's crap in the slammer.
yes i agree with the last anwser if you have sex with her and get caught that is rape, even is she wants it its classed as rape and you will go to jail and be put on the sex offenders list...wait till she is 16 !!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's not rape if their both underage
Agree with most answers above. It's sad there's no love there, just immaturity. The girls who keep you waiting may make you angry at this time but they are the girls that people marry, or have long time relationships with. Anyway, you're only 15 so safest to do it yourself for the time being.
Well you must have been alone long enough to have done what you describe
You are still quite young and you should take these things slowly , and perhaps your parents presence is just that they are trying to slow down your racing hormones
Opportunities are sure to present themselves along the line , but do not just push her into anything she is not comfortable with
In case you do get a bit further , you must always have some condoms available as the last thing you both want is an unwanted pregnancy
If you haven't already you should practise a couple of times putting one on so that you will be confident when the opportunity comes along
Just be patient , the chances for taking your relationship further will present themselves , and just make the most of them when they do , but always stay within the bounds that you are both comfortable with
try the cinema and make sure she want to give you a hand job
you know she either wants to or she doesn't - and a little bit of fingering may not be worth a whole handjob! specially when you're probably doin it wrong and only hoping to make her do more! anyway, you make it sound like she's a car or something - you wanna get more out of her. wait til you're ready to actually give a crap about your girlfriend.
She's probably nervous.
Most girls are!
The best way to find out is by talking to her, find out what she likes. She'll do what she does in her own time.
Also, she'd probably feel more comfortable if you were alone. Don't go to the park or public toilets or whatever else you think of. Invite her to your house, spend sometime getting to know each other sexually. Talk about it first!
Forcing her will not make you like you.
Sex is all about love. Not about what you can get out of it.
And for heavens sake, do not force her into anything!
Use a condom, respect the legal age.
next time you are alone together whisper the words "sunstone" into her ear. That should get you the whole damn thing matey.
try taking her on a bus you can go all the way!
Awwww...what a shame!
First of all - GROW UP. If you have to ask this sort of question you show all the maturity of a 4 year old. You obviously are not mature enough to embark on any sexual relationship with anyone (and I include your "right hand") in this. Time to look at things from another point of view. Wait till you've grown up or at least left the playground.