Hubby was masturbating to porn?!
Question: Ok.. so we have been married over a year.. and we have sex ALL the time.. and we are kinky and experiment.. He always tells me how much he loves sex with me.. But I found out.. he has been watching porn and masturbating some. Why? I mean we just had sex the night before.. Is this normal? Am I not satisfying him? Please dont be mean. I just want to know if this is normal.. We have sex 4-8 times a week.. And it is always great. I am just confused on why he would have to do that when I am always willing. THanks
Answers: Ok.. so we have been married over a year.. and we have sex ALL the time.. and we are kinky and experiment.. He always tells me how much he loves sex with me.. But I found out.. he has been watching porn and masturbating some. Why? I mean we just had sex the night before.. Is this normal? Am I not satisfying him? Please dont be mean. I just want to know if this is normal.. We have sex 4-8 times a week.. And it is always great. I am just confused on why he would have to do that when I am always willing. THanks
I would say it's pretty normal. As long as he's still having sex with you regularly, I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe he just felt like having some alone time. lol. I'm pretty sure it's not that he's not satisfied, just that he wanted something a bit different. No worries. =)
sounds like he has a very high sex drive. i masturbate a lot too and i have a steady gf who also has a high sex drive and we do it a lot too. i don't watch a lot of porn but sometimes its very stimulating in a different way than my gf, i do masturbate a lot even though we have a lot of sex. hes normal, sometimes i just have to masturbate, its nothing against my gf coz she does satisfy me
it's completely normal. the reasons why can vary. he may feel the need to more often than you can possible have sex. he may just be use to a routine he's been in since he was young. masterbation and sex feel different and he may like both. whatever the reason i believe it is in no way a reflection of your relationship sexual or otherwise.
So the man enjoys porn. So what... give him a break. Maybe his sex drive is higher than yours.
it is okay to yet him masterbate. it is just our way of variety in our lifes
He was probably doing it before you were married and as the saying goes, old habits die hard (ha!). It doesn't reflect on you, it is just something he enjoys doing.
Sure whay not, ask him what he is watching, most guys choose to watch fantasies they really don't have the guts to do in real life.
Ok if you two are having frequent sex than he should know that he's getting it tonight so why go and masturbate. But don't freak it's normal but being married and knowing he's doing that gives you a reason to wonder if you aren't pleasing him.
It could be that he just needs it 9 to 12 times a week. It's nothing to worry about. He gets excited but he's having sex with you. Masturbation is normal. NORMAL!
It's also entirely possible he wants to last longer with you. This is a technique men have used for ages.
Dont worry your HB is just a normal male, Not many women realise that males do have a biological drive much stronger then females. Dont be offended or anything its just a normal part of being male.
It's definitly normal. NO he is not unsatisfied with you. Your sex life sounds great!
Whats wrong with that? Better porn than SOMEONE else! Sometimes we need our alone time. Next time you CATCH him, ask if you can join him or "HELP" him. You may be pleasntly surprised.
its normal you know i wouldnt worry about it k
ah its all good , he is just a high maint. man lol
I can understand your concern, but in all honesty it is highly unlikely that your hubby's masturbating to porn is a form of rejection of you. Yet, there is of course the possibility that you don't satisfy all of your hubby's needs and fulfill all of your hubby's fantasies. There is really nothing that you can do here: If you confront your hubby, your hubby may just become more secretive about things and could end up being truly addicted to porn. My suggestion is this: Suggest to hubby that the two of you masturbate together to his porn.