What can i do to please my girl during sex, and does size really matter?!
Question: ok...im 17 and a virgin and the girl that i am currently talking to is not. so i just want to know what positions or "tricks" i can use in order to make sure that i return the favor. Its my first time but i dont want to be terrible, i want to make sure that she enjoys it as much as i do...
And also, does size "really" matter? im almost 6 inches. is that good enough to please a girl?
Answers: ok...im 17 and a virgin and the girl that i am currently talking to is not. so i just want to know what positions or "tricks" i can use in order to make sure that i return the favor. Its my first time but i dont want to be terrible, i want to make sure that she enjoys it as much as i do...
And also, does size "really" matter? im almost 6 inches. is that good enough to please a girl?
Alright bro so its your first time and trust me its the hardest time but there is ways to please her to be border line from her orgasm. heres what you do first start with deep kisses mostly focusing on her eyes when your kissing her all over women love it if you run your hands all over them softly while focusing on kissing her on sensitive spots ex. neck, stomach, chest, shoulder... once she starts to be getting into it you got to go down on her trust me they love it! but dont go straight for her clit lick around it first it builds her up for it so when you do be prepared to here her moan next you start fingering her but slowly then faster when your doing that you can continuing eating her out she'll go through the roof! when your fingering her move your fingers up when your in her towards her stomach and fast. after you get her border line from her o out it in but you'll need to go slow because your first time is really quick so warm her up for a while. my fav. position is being on top and have her legs on your shoulders. woman love a man who takes control. but during all this remember to kiss her especially the neck i guarantee this should work good luck bro!!!
6" is big enough. Don't forget to use your hands to feel the girl up, and maybe roll over so she is on top and can do the work. If not, just rub her over with your hands, ask her to help put your penis in her hole and start to thrust, keeping yourself held up with your arms straight, resting on the bed and as it will be your first time, don't go too hard or fast and kiss her while you'e doin it. Hope this helps :)
Don't worry...it's for the best that your first time isn't with a virgin. Otherwise most of the time you'd be ******* a dead fish xD
Mmm and the penis thing is average i believe.
Just don't worry yourself about it, I was in the same position as you are and when we finally went through with it I picked up quick. After only a few times I went from being ok to better than her previous boyfriend. The best tip i can give you is to simply know the female body, as in know where the most nerves are and know where the sensitive spots are. After knowing that just make it up as you go along.
6 is fine, its what you do with it that will please her. Give her heaps of foreplay, kisses, touching, the lot dont just dive in. Use a lube if you must, pay attention to her, if she doesnt like what you are doing she will pull away from you, if she likes it she will move closer. Enter her slowly so you dont hurt her, vary your techniques & positions. iuf you think you might orgasm too soon, stop & do something else, wait for the heat to go away & resume. Just give it a go, Im sure you will be fine, just dont think too much.
Love and commitment is what makes it good for me. Size is not an issue, when your doing it for the right reason.
Be attentive to her needs and sugestions - make her feel like gold
dude use your natural instincts ;)
Size does matter, but it's generally MUCH LESS important to a woman than, as they say, what you do with it--also how you treat her. That's huge. If you treat her with respect, good chance that will be more important to her than anything you do in bed.
Also, 5-6 inches is about average for length. 4? inches in circumference is average girth, if I remember right. So your size is just fine. The phrase "Don't believe everything you see" applies double to pornography.
Chances are that she will take your virginity strongly into consideration, and won't expect you to be a stud on your first try. In fact she will *probably* enjoy teaching you a few things. A lot of women think that's a sexy idea. Don't pretend to know anything you don't. Ask questions where necessary (I know that sounds weird, but it really is the way to go). One thing almost for sure: you won't find your target without her help, so asking for it at the right time (usually after you've tried a little) is entirely appropriate.
Also, you may find that rubbing her to a climax before sex is helpful. Some women prefer this. Follow her lead on that though; if she wants you to get on with it (or do something different), don't persist. Rubbing around gently is the way to start; sooner or later you home in on the nub toward the top.
oral her well=)
and dotn worry first times always suck LOL
so make it up the second and third times =)
ask her what positions she likes and how she wants it done
that way you wont get it wrong =)
um... size does matter, but dont get me wrong, bigger dosn't mean better, LOL i've had friends been with men who's like 9 LOL and ya know wht? sex wasn't good for them b/c they get hurt!!!!
anyways six inch is good size
ps. when girls say size matters, usually mean width not the length (only guys think we are talking abou the length)
Yes size does matter but your OK!
Try doggie
or you get on your knee's and she lays on her back you get between her legs and thrust
Your size sounds average. And if you are concerned (and what young man these days is not concerned about his size?), then you may benefit from shifting the focus on just you to toward a focus on whether you are a fair match for the woman who mate with. Your penis has two dimensions: the length you provide but the girth you do not provide. The first two inches of what I call the barrel or opening of the vagina has some nerve endings and feeling but the back end of the vagina has few if any nerve endings. Some females prefer good girth over length which quickly becomes a liability due to hitting the cervix during hard and/or fast thrusts. In any event, your length is average. Here are the figures.
The average length of a man is 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches, with an average girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches. Ansel Research Lifestyles 2001 study on penis size: Ansell, makers of LifeStyles Condoms, has conducted research into average penis size. The survey found that the average length of the erect penis is 5.877 inches (14.928cm), with the majority ranging between the small 5.5 inch penis size (14cm) and the large 6.3 inch penises (16cm).
The average girth is 4.972 inches (12.63cm), with the majority ranging between 4.7 inches (12cm) and 5.1 inches (13cm). This indicates that the difference between small penis size and large is not very big. I had to grow up with the nearly one inch of self reporting bias: all of the original studies before say 1990 suffered from allowing guys to self report the size of their penis. The guys with larger penises tended to report their sizes and even then added an inch on the average to their actual size.
There is no way to safely and reliably increase the size of your penis. But if I were you I would not want a large one as noted later.
A key to good sex is match because vagina sizes vary just as penis sizes vary. Length of the average unaroused vagina according to several textbooks I've read, the length of the vagina should be 3-4 inches long (7-10cm) (ref: Tim Chard, Basic Sciences for Obstetrics and Gynecology)Golfcrazie 03:32, 23 August 2007 (UTC)
Other studies and articles I've read the unaroused and unpenetrated vagina is from 2-4 inches long (3" on average). Measurements are slightly different depending on whether you're measuring across the anterior or posterior wall, and position women is in (e.g. sitting, standing, etc...). (Comment: if 3" and increases 100% that gives only 6" max (but showers/growers may apply here and that being smaller vaginas may be able to increase a bit more percentage wise than large ones; clearly a 6-7" capacity would easily accommodate the average penis). But the average vagina may be stretched (and I do not mean permanently) by a large penis causing perhaps for the very beginning a "desirable feeling of fullness" but quickly becoming sore during even the regular duration of intercourse. Very large ones can hardly get it in without difficulty. Then women get real mad when you hit the cervix. And the news is out there are more complaints about the large penises than the small ones.
As one lady put it: "If the guy is big enough and I