Well this is pretty embarassing...but i still want some help/tips/advice?!


Question: a few months ago me and my boyfriend did anal. it was a traumatic experience, because...well...i poo'd. and i didnt even know it was coming which made it even more embarassing. and for a while he was understanding, but for whatever reason he wants to do it again!! and i really dont want to, because first of all. i poo'd. second of all, that was probly the most pain i have EVER felt. no joke. haha. so i dont know if i should let him or not. because i like to please him. but it deffinatley scares me.

does this stuff happen to girls often when they do anal?
is there anything i should be concerned about that anal may cause? anything at all helps!

p.s. i would like this to be a mature convo. no making fun of me =[. haha


Answers: a few months ago me and my boyfriend did anal. it was a traumatic experience, because...well...i poo'd. and i didnt even know it was coming which made it even more embarassing. and for a while he was understanding, but for whatever reason he wants to do it again!! and i really dont want to, because first of all. i poo'd. second of all, that was probly the most pain i have EVER felt. no joke. haha. so i dont know if i should let him or not. because i like to please him. but it deffinatley scares me.

does this stuff happen to girls often when they do anal?
is there anything i should be concerned about that anal may cause? anything at all helps!

p.s. i would like this to be a mature convo. no making fun of me =[. haha

Most folks who know that they are going to do anal empty their bowels prior to doing it .....

IF you are in pain when doing anal ... one of three things ... Your boyfriend did not use enough lube ...
or ... He is just to large to do anal with you ....
or .. he is being too rough and going too fast , too quick ...

LOOK: NEVER do anything sexually that YOU are not comfortable doing to begin with ..... If it hurts you and makes you uncomfortable and in pain .... FORGET IT !!

IF this guy really cares about YOU ... he will respect your wishes and NOT press the issue . IF he continues to press the matter ; tell him ok ... BUT only if YOU can get a Strap On that is similar to his penis size and do him also ......

NOTE: Only about 7% of females will do anal ..... You can have SERIOUS damage done to the anus and rectum IF anal is done improperly ...

:P I bet it's happened tons of times.
Make sure you 'poo' before you do this... and about the pain.. tell him to work his way up. like 1 finger, 2 finger, etc.
use a condom as well.
good luck :D

don't be pressured into doing something that hurts you or that you don't like...he should understand.

you were not well prepared the first time. you might consider enema before and get very good lube and condom. it is not the easiest thing to if you are unable to relax.

be very careful about getting cross contamination by going vaginal or oral after anal. like anyone would want to.

anyway, tell him to let you penetrate his back door and see how he likes it.

Anal, like all sex should be enjoyable. If it hurt that bad, why would you want to do it again? Just to please your boyfriend is not a good reason. Tell him if he does it to you again that you want to use a strap-on penis and do it to him so he knows how if feels. If you must do anal sex, use a enema prior to the act and clean out your rectum so that you don't poo'd again. Anal sex can cause the rectum to rip and tear and require surgery to repair the damage. I would think twice about the anal sex thing but if you really want to, use plenty of lube and relax so that your anal muscles don't close so much.





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