Is this normal! please help!!!! Please answer!!!!!!?!
Question: ok so i find my self fantasizing about others guys when i masturbate, is this normal? i have never thought i was gay but now i realize that i might. how do you know if your gay? i use to think that this was a phase but this feelings i have for other guys seem to grow and now they dont seem to be just curiosity. please help me, im i gay?
Answers: ok so i find my self fantasizing about others guys when i masturbate, is this normal? i have never thought i was gay but now i realize that i might. how do you know if your gay? i use to think that this was a phase but this feelings i have for other guys seem to grow and now they dont seem to be just curiosity. please help me, im i gay?
don't worry sweetie.
it takes guys until they're around 17, sometimes older, sometimes MUCH older to discover their true sexuality.
there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi. most guys, and most girls, have moments when they tink something un-straight. this is normal, its exploring and its ok. like some girls might find themselves looking at other women. not neccessarily because they have feelings but because they are curious as to wether they are normal or not. it's the same for guys, your mind wanders and ends up thinking about guys. possibly because you've got a huge reminder of a guy staring you in the face.
it's normal. nothing is set in stone as to what sexuality you are. experiment, find what feels right and eventually you'll settle. or stay bi your whole life, who knows.
good luck sweetie
I think you might be bi.
well how old are you? its okay if you fantasize about guys if your youger, because its most likely a phase. but if your like 14+, you may be bi, or even gay.
there is nothing wrong with being gay.
you're not gay
you have a fetish
Ask yourself this. Do you want to eat a penis? If the answer is yes, you're gay. If its no, you're straight. I hope this helps.
if you like boys only then maybe your gay but if u just curious then maybe not. tell me the truth would u kiss a boy? if so then u are probably gay
OMG its the same thing as me
but i think u mite b bi curious
Don't panic! Everyone has fantasies. They don't dictate sexual orientation. Emotions are normal to have towards human beings. In time you will figure out what they are and what they mean. In the process you will discover what direction your orientation will take. Be true to yourself first and foremost.
you are probably just fantasizing like you say....having feelings for men and falling in love with other men is part of being gay....being aroused from your fantasies is a whole other story. You are probably just curious....go get with a guy and see how that feels...if it feels normal to you....more so than with girls, then you might very well be gay.
OK I know how to help you find out. Answer this quick question:
Are You Gay?
Not uncommon at your age. Don't worry about it you are normal. It doesn't matter what you are, you will find out soon enough.
if you kissed a guy then you are either gay or bi
fantasies are weird and don't always mean anything. you could just be curious. whatever you do, be true to yourself and see what happens when you get older. your still young and figuring out who you are
you are gay but dont worrie i am too!!! i heard theres this place full of people like us what was that name?
oh yeah san francisco
e mail me and ask me more questions if you want
its earthier a fetish or ur bi
U PROLLY GAY
maybe, maybe not. depends on how far your fantasies infiltrate your reality. but why worry about it. nothign wrong with having a bf is he is a good person and there's mutual interest and attraction.
u could be BI
its not that bad bein bi
i am still tryin to figure out if i am or not if that helps i kinda doutb it does but im juss sayin
No it's not normal for straight guys. Sorry dude you are gay!
No doubt about it. its now your decision to follow this kind of behavior or struggle to it. Ask God to help you coz Hes the only one who can change a person.Seek spiritual THINGS and come near to God. Read the bible, pray and be close to spiritual friends.I believe this will deviate your attention to guys. God Bless!
Yep, Your gay.
i don't think so...
i have read in an article that during early puberty,boys sometimes have anxiety when thinking about the opposite sex...so it means that your fantasies maybe normal....if your age is maybe 11-15 or so...
but then ,if you are an adult and you are still self-fantacizing about guys,then maybe you are bi-curious...you are just curious....hahaha...
i hope it will help you...
mckeoz
p.s.
i disagree that you maybe are gay...there are many factors regarding homosexuality...like the environment and the society that you live in...
but if you are really sure that you are gay,set yourself free.i hope everyone will accept you.but if you still think that you are a man...show it and be proud...