Coping with depression?!
Question: i cant cope anymore. i am sick of being unemployed but i cant get a job. im not in a relationship, i am still a virgin (mainly my fualt want to wait till its right), im gay and in the closet, im always arguing with my family, my uncle has killed himself, i have found a lump on my nut and i never see my mates cause there to busy at uni. i am getting that stressed i have developed a rash that has become really itchy. i am actually crying now while writing this, my tears are rolling down my face and onto my laptop. i wake up in the morning and keep my eyes closed for an extra few mintues hoping to day is the day i awake from the nightmare that is my life.
Answers: i cant cope anymore. i am sick of being unemployed but i cant get a job. im not in a relationship, i am still a virgin (mainly my fualt want to wait till its right), im gay and in the closet, im always arguing with my family, my uncle has killed himself, i have found a lump on my nut and i never see my mates cause there to busy at uni. i am getting that stressed i have developed a rash that has become really itchy. i am actually crying now while writing this, my tears are rolling down my face and onto my laptop. i wake up in the morning and keep my eyes closed for an extra few mintues hoping to day is the day i awake from the nightmare that is my life.
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry for you. But i think the thing you have to remember is you are in control of your own life. It's nobody elses fault that you are going though a depressing time. You have the control to change your life. If you would like talk more I am available though yahoo messenger. Maybe I can help you get a job. I am a professional when it comes to getting people jobs and finding them too! I hope that one day you can be secure enough to come out of the closet..i think that is something that is making more stressed then need be. If you ask most guys and girls that have come out of the closet they will say they have never been more happy! Good luck to you! Oh and like I said I am available via yahoo messenger if you would like to chat.
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aww.. i really hope you feel better. you really need to talk to someone about this. call one of your friends up and tell them you seriously need to talk to someone... even if they're busy, try to get them to listen to what you have to say.
just whatever you do, DONT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF
look at these links real quick
http://www.wikihow.com/Cope-with-Depress...
http://www.committment.com/depression.ht...
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/mentalhea...
feel better sweatheart :)
depression is not good as anyone who,s been there knows, its an illness that needs to be sorted out, until you go to a doctor to sort it out it will only get worse, excercise is usualy pretty good at getting endorphines going, the bodys own happy drug. i wouldnt worry about the virgin/gay thing at the mo..when you go to docsabout depression mentio the lump you,v got..if your not fussy about what kinda job you get then you can get a live in job at a hotel or somewhere, that way you,l meet new people to befriend..you only live this life once so you need to get your life sorted as youl wake up one day and it will be gone................i hope this helps and good luck x
wow, that sucks. U have made me more depressed just listening to this story. I would be depressed as hell to if i was gay and my uncle killed himself. Just thinkin here, but what if ur uncle killed himself because he found out u were gay? HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!! : )
I know how you feel my friend. I have depression and have been at that piont in your life when u ask "why". i actually went to the hospital cause i wanted to kill myself. the one thing that i did was i accepted that i needed help. i wanted help. i have a psychologist and psychiatrist. i take medication everynight. people say it doesn't work and you shouldn't do it. i say shut up becuase if i didn't then i wouldn't be so happy right now. after everything i've been through i just prayed that god would help me when it was really me to help me. don't wait, do something. when u show urself you can, u built up soemthing that makes you stronger in the inside. talk to someone. don't be afraid. you can't wait for osmeone to walk through ur door and help you. be your own hero. its possible i have done it. now i am the happiest i ever been and you would never of thought i was a person u wanted out on life. i'll pray you find strength. =]