23 male, lost sex drive.. help?!


Question: im a female asking questions about my other half..
we have been together now 2 years and everything has been fine for our sex life its been very normal.. but for the past few months, say since about christmas its been lacking alot.. like we have had several speical occasions since christmas for us, like val day, our annivsary and both of our birthdays, days that u think some action would take place.. but it hasnt..

and i do the right thing, im ultra affectionate (without goin into details) but it takes me ages to get him an erection and it doesnt last long, not long enough to do something with.

so thinking there was something majorly wrong, i had a dummy spit last night asking him what i need to do to get sex. and then while he was at work he sent me a txt saying that he hasnt had any sex drive, and that he hasnt even 'rubbed' himself for ages and everytime he has tried to he has been forcing himself which isnt working anyway.

should we b worried? is there anything i can do?


Answers: im a female asking questions about my other half..
we have been together now 2 years and everything has been fine for our sex life its been very normal.. but for the past few months, say since about christmas its been lacking alot.. like we have had several speical occasions since christmas for us, like val day, our annivsary and both of our birthdays, days that u think some action would take place.. but it hasnt..

and i do the right thing, im ultra affectionate (without goin into details) but it takes me ages to get him an erection and it doesnt last long, not long enough to do something with.

so thinking there was something majorly wrong, i had a dummy spit last night asking him what i need to do to get sex. and then while he was at work he sent me a txt saying that he hasnt had any sex drive, and that he hasnt even 'rubbed' himself for ages and everytime he has tried to he has been forcing himself which isnt working anyway.

should we b worried? is there anything i can do?

Here's a few tips:

He needs to get healthy (ie excises, good diet and sleep).

You need to completely ignore him in terms of sexual advancement for one month - unless he comes onto you - but even then make him work to arouse you. My ex used to come onto me for sex far too often, while all my mates said I was crazy, I found it was actually a bit of a turn-off.

Lastly, you need to be fit and healthy as well, in order for him to be sexually attracted to you. It doesn't matter what you think you look like - you will rarely find a fit an healthy person who is ugly.

Good luck.

Lots of guys deal with E.D. Check with a doctor, or maybe have him take some viagra.

Is he under a lot of stress??? That's usually what causes this kind of problem. He should definitely see his Dr. for a Physical & possibly a Urologist. He is WAY TOO YOUNG to be losing his sex drive. Good Luck!

please dont be offended but take this wholeheartedly. IS sex the reason why you've been dating/married with him? Isnt it that you're with him because you love him and you're not only after sex?

Well it certainly shouldn't be ignored, that won't resolve the issue. Theres several possibilities, the common ones are stress, illness, vitimin imbalance or poor diet. Hopefully you'll know enough about his lifestyle to see if hes likely to be effected by any of these things. Getting to a doctor for a physical including blood test will help confirm that theres no illness and hes not lacking anything from his diet. The doc can hopefully give more insight based upon your specific circumstances.





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