Guys and girls anybody i need help with masturbating (christians plz come)?!


Question: well look i dont know when i first masturbated in my life probably around 10 or 11 and now im going to turn 13 in 3 months. Im a christian and ik i shouldnt be masturbating or watching porn (which i basically never do) HOW DO I STOP IT!!?!??! i dont want to go to my pastor and tell this to him even though when he was young he had the exact same problem as me im too scared AND THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM IN MY LIFE!!! i feel like im going away from God each time i do this im seriously mad and sad


Answers: well look i dont know when i first masturbated in my life probably around 10 or 11 and now im going to turn 13 in 3 months. Im a christian and ik i shouldnt be masturbating or watching porn (which i basically never do) HOW DO I STOP IT!!?!??! i dont want to go to my pastor and tell this to him even though when he was young he had the exact same problem as me im too scared AND THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM IN MY LIFE!!! i feel like im going away from God each time i do this im seriously mad and sad

i know how you feel man, it's a big problem for a majority of young male Christians. My advice would be to spend more time reading the Bible, praying, church activities, ect. the more you can get your mind off of those things and train yourself to be able to turn your self away from that kind of activity the easier it gets.

good luck man

wow...just to let u know, about 98% of the human population masturbates, so its not bad, and if the christian god doesnt want u doing it, y the hell did he make u want it so bad?

man its ok
you dont have to go to your pastor
your not going to go to hell for doing it
i had the same problem
it is lustful but it isnt that bad
just take a breather and enjoy yourself

I am a religious person but do not believe masturbation is bad. If you didn't you would have nocturnal emissions and spill the same seed on the ground the bible tells you not to. It is part of being human and I am sure the lord has better things to do than worry about you pleasuring yourself.

I'm christian and i think that masturbation in itself is not s sin, it is a natural urge that everyone has. Letting it become a problem (sexual promiscuity, pervertedness, etc) is the problem. Porn, on the other hand, IS wrong. Pray to God to give you the strength to say no and have restraint. If it becomes a problem, you probably should go to your pastor for guidance, even though it may be awkward. Think of him as your spiritual doctor ;)

Whoa guy, calm down. You're 13, and your hormones are going crazy. Despite what your Christian faith tells you, it's perfectly normal to masturbate. There is nothing sinful about it, and it's a natural thing to do. When you get older, you'll understand. God isn't going to punish you for it, and you're not hurting anyone by doing it.

It's very unhealthy to let yourself get worked up about this. You can still be a wonderful, caring and Christian human being and masturbate as long as you're doing it privately. I'm Catholic, by the way.

I think god has better things to worry about, masturbation is NOT a sin. If it says so in the bible, disregard it becuase the bible was written by loveless tyrants who could use it as a way to control people. The Lord certainly didnt dictate its contents. And Jesus himself, a human with human urges would have masturbated & done all the things we do.

God will love you even if you masturbate I love God and God loves me I masturbate not as much now that I'm married but I still find me time>>>Don't worry Just do it in the privacy of your room or something

When I was younger, (around 13), I felt guilty too. I thought I was the only one who did it. Boy was I wrong! EVERYONE masturbates, trust me, even your pastor does probably.

Anyways, it's not going against God, they say it is but anything natural isn't gonna hurt!

Also, you want to stop? Impossible. Once you masturbate, you can never really stop.

honestly it is the hardest thing you will ever do...i didnt become a serious christian until about 17 (I started probably around 10) you basically have to hate it realize how it can degrade women and overall destroy relationships with women...my youth pastor taught me how to not fall into my traps. Meaning I'd leave my computer in the living room rather than my bedroom and i would spend more time out of the house or with my family rather than in my room alone...i hope this helps you can do it

Now look 97.8% of males **** and its thought the rest may be liars. So dont worry about gods and all that stuff. Enjoy ur self and carry on wanking Its good 4u and its a stress reliever.Ur pastor probably wanked to at ur age.

You should know that your body will eventually have nocturnal emissions (wet dreams) if you do not masturbate. Your body "flushes" out old sperm, which is actually a good thing, for testicular health.

It sounds like you have both health and religious questions that you need answered. Perhaps you should speak to both your physician / pediatrician and your pastor about these issues.

Have somebody cuff your hands behind you.

Sorry, I just think it's funny though how in your title you wrote: "christians plz come"- just think about it.

rofl

though i do the same almost everyday for the past 4 years, but now im starting to motivate ny self to stop at it...well this is the ninth day of new life...i stopped doing it since april 1...well i can easily avoid masturbating coz i used to remind my self of the side effects of it!try to check the net for more effects of it and you will be afraid!

its your life do what u want!

masturbation is nothing wrong.and you are not going away from god.this myth was created by man(refer to the da vinci code book -its a fact).god didnt come down and tell us this.if god had wanted us not to enjoy exual activities then he wouldnt have given us pleasing nevers and maybe those organs even.pls dont stop it.its actually a good way to relive yourself from stress and tension.its adviceable nto to watch porn but masturbating is okay.see by thinking this way you are actually adding to your worry and stress.pls belive me.you should not abuse or harm your body like that.

please,please read about the da vinci code since you are thinking like this.

if youd rather stick to harsh christianity im sorry i said all this.

every male masturbates so do not worry - just enjoy the sensation of c*mming





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