Sex problems suddenly?!


Question: My long-time boyfriend and I have always had amazing sex. Everytime for the last 7 years it's been mind-blowing. We both just turned 30 this year and suddenly we'v had some issues. He doesn't get fully erect - not quite as hard as before and he has gotten soft prior to ejaculation. This has never happened to us/him. He doesn't mastubate as much as he used to and tends to be really sensitive. He used to be all over me any chance he had and now he still takes the opportunity it just doesn't work out like it used to. We went from a 10 to a 2...


Answers: My long-time boyfriend and I have always had amazing sex. Everytime for the last 7 years it's been mind-blowing. We both just turned 30 this year and suddenly we'v had some issues. He doesn't get fully erect - not quite as hard as before and he has gotten soft prior to ejaculation. This has never happened to us/him. He doesn't mastubate as much as he used to and tends to be really sensitive. He used to be all over me any chance he had and now he still takes the opportunity it just doesn't work out like it used to. We went from a 10 to a 2...

That tends to happen with age, but 30 is too young for this!
I can be mental or emotional, and maybe you guys need to do stuff to spice it up some, like push the envelope further out, in the types of variety and kinkiness you engage in.

However, it can also be physical things, and it can also be a sign of heart disease, so first of all, get him a physical!

Other thing to look for; stress, being worn out, working long hours, etc. How about his diet? Does he exercise?

What other things are going on in his life?
How is your relationship with him? Do you nag him lately? Because stuff like that will certainly affect his sex drive.
I'm not saying that's happening, but you need to look at EVERYTHING as a possible source.

whats the question?

he may needs to go to the dr. he may not be getting the proper amount of blood flow through the penis which might be erectile disfunction so his best bet would probably go to the dr. which may give him viagra or some other type of medicine

See a Urologist, probably best not to see a
GP, some times the solution is quite simple, in any case go and get help. No reason to suffer.

maybe he has someone else on the side to pleasure him

you need to just spend an evening alone and try and recreate how it was then
you also need to think that it could be mental s forget about age and enjoy it
if that doesnt work then it could be physical so go to the doctors and see whats wrong

He could be cheating so he is not as attracted, but i hope not.
gaining wait could be a problem to.





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