Im 13 can you help me?!
Question: im 13 and not circumsized. should i get surgery to be circumsized? how long does the surgery take? does it hurt and how long does it hurt for? i have these questions cuz i can see my future and its me about to have my first time and then my gf sees my uncircumsized and goes ew and runs away. :( please help
Answers: im 13 and not circumsized. should i get surgery to be circumsized? how long does the surgery take? does it hurt and how long does it hurt for? i have these questions cuz i can see my future and its me about to have my first time and then my gf sees my uncircumsized and goes ew and runs away. :( please help
Leave it be! Stop listening to the people who say girls will gross out when they see an uncircumcised man. If a girl does do that, she's EXTREMELY shallow and probably has never felt a natural penis in her before. Remember, America is accustomed to circumcised men. The rest of the world is smart enough to know that uncircumcised is best. Why else is America the ONLY country in the entire world still practicing circumsision on kids? Because, to be honest, us Americans are uneducated on circumcision.
Sex has been proven BEST with a natural man. I would give you a link, but the content is a bit...crude, so I'll keep it to myself. Just be PROUD that you have are uncircumcised.
But if you do get circumcised, it'll be EXTREMELY extremely extremely extremely painful. And you'll feel it for about 2-3 months, plus the sensitivity of your glans will go away. All this, plus it's not even sure that the circumcision will go right. Sometimes skin bridges form between some left over foreskin and the glans. It's very unattractive and can cause a lot of problems.
Basically...stay uncircumcised until you die.
please leave it man.....
any girl that goes "eeeww" ... you dont want her anywhere near you anyway man.
honest.
circumcism has its goods and bads. Its kinda old skool now..but ppl still do it.
sometimes i wish i wasnt but thats just cuz i am and i wonder what itd be like...???
.... works both ways..... but im happy with what i have and who i am.
surgury hurts bad at 13.... its not worth it. Unless you gots medical problems from it ...
ITS N O T W O R T H it dude.
yer peter is yours... god gave it to ya... play with it.. keep it safe... clean it... and have fun.
you got what you got.... DONT EVER BE ASHAMED by it.
and dont hang with people who make you think you should be.
just be you man.
I was thinking of changing to circumcized, but then I read that you can actually make your penis less sensitive by doing so, so I didn't get circumcized.
Yes it hurts a great deal, for a few weeks when you become erect. If you are really concerned about your g/f -- then read the linked articles before going through the process -- please.
You do not see your future, you see what you believe is socially normative, which may or may not be true. Before you remove something that every male should have though -- at least know what other effects you will have on yourself and future partners.
A final note -- I am cut, it wasn't a decision I had any part of, my parents made it while I was a child -- though old enough to remember. If you decide it is what you really want, then when you are 18, have it done. I would have it undone if I possibly could, but of course, there is no way to get it back. I think you are over weighting what you are hearing from limited sources. I am gay -- but I have mostly straight friends, and my straight male friends have no problem finding women who love uncut dick and want to have sex with them. Likewise, I know several women who prefer it -- so while some may not, others prefer--- its more complex on that side than you think.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
No!
It is a painful procedure, and the aftermath is even worse.
Honestly, dude. The majority of girls DO NOT CARE whether you're circumsized or not. And if one does, then she's so shallow that she doesnt deserve you.
And your future girlfriend, who has never had sex before, knows what a penis is "supposed" to look like and has formed an opinion on the subject...how?
The majority of men in the world are not circumcised and all manage to get married and have babies. If you want to get circumcised in the future, do it because YOU want to, not because of some future s****'s possible reaction.
Don't get circumcised just to please a girl who might not care anyway. There's no benefit to being circumcised. Would you want a girl to get a boob job just to make YOU happy? That wouldn't be nice of you, would it? Stay the way you are.
Believe me dude, most girls actually do not care whether you are circumcised or not. The procedure (and subsequent recovery) are very painful without taking high-power pain medication like Vicodin (which messes with your stomach, makes you drowsy/nauseous, etc...). Be happy with what you have.
Adult males lose 15 square inches (40 square centimetres) of skin in circumcision, over half the skin of your penis. You lose the gliding action as it slides on itself during masturbation and sex. You will suffer bruising, perhaps some bleeding, and the swelling from the disruption to the lymph system goes on for up to six months. Removing the foreskin turns the surface of the glans from an inner mucosal membrane to outside skin. Newly circumcised adults usually go through some weeks of intense discomfort as the glans is constantly exposed to rubbing on clothing, until it develops a thicker keratin layer and becomes less sensitive. You must abstain from ALL sexual activity for an average of six weeks. Some men like the final result but others complain of loss of sensation and miss being able to slide their foreskin over the glans. Circumcised guys often have little or no movable skin left and are forced to masturbate using lube or rubbing dry, without the loose skin. There is no going back if you don