I've recently started masturbating, and I have a question.?!
Question: I've recently started masturbating for the first time, and when I do so I can't help but think of my mother. I'm unsure if this is normal because I'm new to this. So, is it normal?
Answers: I've recently started masturbating for the first time, and when I do so I can't help but think of my mother. I'm unsure if this is normal because I'm new to this. So, is it normal?
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It is ok REALLY! think about it who is the only woman in your life all the time and, the one you love the most. As you get older you will move past that to some real woman and even fantsey to pleasure yourself too. But in the meanwhile, no worries your actions weird but very normal.
best wishes
Just go watch pornography or memorize the picture and go have your happy time.
I'm sure it has happened to other guys before but it is not common.
Are you think of your mother because you feel guilty about masturbating? Do you think she would not be happy about what you're doing and that's why your thinking about her?
Masturbation is very normal so don't worry about parents with old school beliefs.
It is very normal and sought the doctors advice . He stated its very normal . Try to enjoy with the means you thought of and do not have any guilty feelings. You think about the gal you like utmost , and with closing eyes, you dream and do it . You will be satisfied and would not have any guilty feelings.
This is called an Oedipus Complex in pyschology terms. It's not unusual for a young man to focus on his mother or a sister because that's what he sees every day. Chances are, you will grow out of it.
If your mother is especially good looking to you or has large breasts, it's natural to assign sexual feelings to her and much more common than you might think. But incest, which is having sex with someone related to you, is wrong, so you don't want to go there.
I would try to think about girls you go to school with. If you like the mature woman, you might fantasize about a teacher or an actress. Porn, like someone else mentioned, might help, too.
Don't be to down on yourself for this, but I would try to move away from it.
Son- What's normal? We don't really know because everybody is different.
What I do know is that when it is new to you and uncharted territory any number of things could be causing this. While its not something I remember experiencing it doesn't sound too crazy (afterall our mothers are our first source of comfort) not like your gonna be an axe murderer or anything!
Advice: Get a little porn internet or otherwise or maybe just fantasize about the cutest chick in school. Don't freak out- just anytime it happens just refocus by thinking about something you do want to imagine.
No you should not be thinking of your mother no matter how pretty she is, while it understandable as you mother is the first female figure in your life, you need to masturbate to other women or even girls your own age. this will give you a normal sex life in the future.
No, not normal at all, you are likely worried about getting caught, but you should just think about the sensation itself, and enjoy it (making love to yourself-- which is what many guys enjoy) or fantasize some fictional character--best not to focus on someone you know, especially very well. Can lead to obsession.