My best friend asked about masturbation?!


Question: see my best friend asked what masturbation was and i didn't know how to explain it to him with out like making him feel awkward or making me and him feel weird. so i said i would tell him tomorrow.

Can anyone tell me how to explain it to him with out making him feel like im a weird-o or like make him feel awkward?

no dumb answers please! serious question!


Answers: see my best friend asked what masturbation was and i didn't know how to explain it to him with out like making him feel awkward or making me and him feel weird. so i said i would tell him tomorrow.

Can anyone tell me how to explain it to him with out making him feel like im a weird-o or like make him feel awkward?

no dumb answers please! serious question!

It's not unusual for a guy to learn about masturbation from a friend. Nor is it unusual even for the two to do it in front of each other or even for each other. I'm not suggesting that you do that; I'm just saying it's common. It doesn't mean you're gay, either.

I would start by asking him if he ever gets an erection. If he says yes, then I would tell him that masturbation is when you play with your erection. That's really all there is to it.

Depending on your age and development, if you play with it enough, it may produce an orgasm and may ejaculate, which is the expelling of a white fluid, usually in spurts. If he doesn't know what that is, you can explain that it contains sperm, which is what gets girls pregnant.

If he asks what "playing" with it means, you can explain that guys use different methods, but basically, it's using your hand to pull or stroke on your penis. Some guys use lubrication and some don't.

If he's not circumcised, he can use the foreskin to pump up and down over the head of the penis.

You get the idea. Just be nice like you have asked us to be. It might be a little awkward, but it's good that he has a friend he can talk to who won't make fun of him for asking the question.

I hope this helps.

hmm just tell him it has 2 do with sex

you guys have to much time on your hands.

Tell him that masturbation is self stimulation of the penis and that almost 99% of all males do it. For techniques and stuff go to
http://www.jackinworld.com/ they have a ton of information.

Masturbation is the act of touching yourself to bring upon orgasm... that's the best way that I can think of to put it.

is when you explore yourself

If your friend feels comfortable enough to ask you about masturbation ; then tell him the truth ... That masturbation is a sexual outlet for guys by allowing them to make themselves orgasam ....

Explain to him , that a guy will get an erction .. and use his hand to stroke his penis until he orgasams ...... and that there is NOTHING wrong with doing it in the privacy of his room or in the bathroom etc ......

Then just fill in the blanks and answere his questions as you would about any other topic .....

well id find a quiet place and tell him its just when a guy plays with himself and rubs your dick be straight up with him dont feel acward its normal.

well just tell him it hast to do with sex and about ur penis down there and thats all i can help u on.

Stroke your dick up and down until you ***.

Simple.

tell him to watch porn!!. or explain what you do like a joke and say WaNkErRrR and do the movement, or explain it properly and try make a joke out if it so yous both laff

just dont make him eel stupid, i think hes just winding u up meself!! haha

he wouldnt fee weird but i think you do. I really recommend for you to say exactly what high shaman said. to me it seems like the best answer of all given. but you have to relax, and be happy enough that someones looks up to you for guidance.

tell him the dictionary def. it is the stiimulating of one genitals until one reaches a climax. hes gonna say"huh?' then u say i dunno. then ur problems solved!

tell him it stimulates sex an more than 70% of men do it and is naturall so just tell him the truth

when you go to your grandmas and eat lepricons

tell him that its "playing with" your penis to achieve sexual pleasure or orgasm

tell him Masturbation is the act of touching yourself to bring upon orgasm... like play with your penis or for a woman fingering her fanny it is all part of having sex

dude, if you masturbate and you know how to do it simply show him (not necessarily with pants off though - hehe) how to masturbate. You do it, I do it and mos tevery guy with a penis does it so there;s not a thing to be weirded out about in talkign to a friend about masturbating. Sure parents have troubles dealign with their embarassment when tryign to explain sex to their kids but kids talking to each other should not carry all those adult hangups.

Besides being young is suppose dto be a good part of life, masturbation is a fun thing so share it with your friend and help him enjoy life more.

tell him its something really nothing to get hyped about its just something people do t get rid of stress or thier sexual wants and desires

Just be honest and tell him, I doubt that he is that uninformed but just tell him.





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