I need a man's opinion?!
Question: My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for about a year now, but recently in the last two months, he has become like a sex addict! At first it was okay, but now he wants to have sex AT LEAST 3-4 times a day, and he doesn't seem to care if it's inconveniencing me or if I'm busy. He has become completely obsessed and my real question is, is this normal? Is this some sort of stage he's going through? It's becoming a real problem and I can't figure it out and he refuses to talk about it with me.
Answers: My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for about a year now, but recently in the last two months, he has become like a sex addict! At first it was okay, but now he wants to have sex AT LEAST 3-4 times a day, and he doesn't seem to care if it's inconveniencing me or if I'm busy. He has become completely obsessed and my real question is, is this normal? Is this some sort of stage he's going through? It's becoming a real problem and I can't figure it out and he refuses to talk about it with me.
Well, first of all, I wouldn't say it's normal to be completely obsessed.
Secondly, if he actually refuses to talk to you about it, your relationship has a major problem.
If you have voiced your concerns, and he refuses to consider your position, he is being inappropriate.
You two definitely have problems, and it's quite likely these aren't your only concerns.
maybe he;s insecure, maybe hes a nympho, maybe its something new to him, when i got laid the 1st time thats all i thought about for like a month...
he addicted to that cuddi
If he lost your virginity to you, then yeah i can imagine him doing this.
personally its seems like he is just using you to get his jollys all the time. So maybe you ought to kick his *** to the curb and find you a real man that appreciates you for more than just what you can do for him.
it's a stage or you're his first sexual gf and needs to get some let him do it for a while and eventually he'll stop
if he's a teen or early 20's guy he may well be experiencing two things that make him seme like a horn-dog. One of course is th eusual hormones that race erratically through young guys. The other is undoubtedly that he has all of a sudeen discovered the joy of sex and just cannot seme to get enough. but liek the kid with the new toy, the novelty will wear off (hopefully befor ehe wears you out) and thing will settle down.
One thign to keep in mind is that a guy who needs it that often shoudl be a regular visitor to the site below to discover all the ways to derive pleasure in the absence of sex. And if he won;t check them out himself, why not study up and teach him how to look afte rhis needs during those times when you cannot provide him with an orgasm.
if is is sex where you get little pleasure (foreplay, hugs etc, orgasms)then tell him to piss of. god once a day is too much for me.
i have the same problem (cept i am the addict lol) and its just my penis kinda wants sex like it might want smokes or drugs if its addicted to it. its like a want that happens sometimes. (i would also check up if he is looking at porn...). mabe i can relate it to coocolate. one u start eating it, u cant stop! but sometimes u must eat som befour this happens.
if he always wants it don't give it to him do it when you wanna do it he sound a bit obsessive but if he try's it on twist his balls as hard as you can lol
Normal?????? NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sex should be a joint enjoyment. he's inconveniencing you for his own satisfaction.. You are NOT a receptacle. tell him to cool it. You have to live your life, and sometimes life happens outside the bedroom.
Sex should be shared. Good Luck