Locker room problem?!
Question: ok so i was changing in the locker room for basketball and it was just me and my friend and this other kid in there, and my friend just walks up to me and grabs my cock, he says, wow, u actually hae something down there (i kno it was a joke but still) but when he grabbed my cock he was kinda like massaging it almost (at least thats what it felt like) and i want to kno that if i should like drop him as a friend because this was kina wierd and he wants me to sleep over his house too so im wondering what i should do, please help, this is serious.
Answers: ok so i was changing in the locker room for basketball and it was just me and my friend and this other kid in there, and my friend just walks up to me and grabs my cock, he says, wow, u actually hae something down there (i kno it was a joke but still) but when he grabbed my cock he was kinda like massaging it almost (at least thats what it felt like) and i want to kno that if i should like drop him as a friend because this was kina wierd and he wants me to sleep over his house too so im wondering what i should do, please help, this is serious.
if he's your friend it should not be a big deal if some contact happens when fooling around. Too many people seme to think everything is gay now a days but really what's the biggie if he gave you a feel. He's probably seen it so many times already he figured it was time to liven things up a little.
I wouldn't drop him as a friend just for that incident. He wasn't proposing sex or marriage, just having a bit of fun at yoru expense. And probably trying to embarass you in the process.
As for sleeping over, why not go. Just have fun and don;t get all weirded out about anythign that happens. Instead be good friends and enjoy some horse play or wrestling or porn or whatever you guys get up to.
If you really prefer he not handle yrou manhood again though politely ask him to refrain from feeling any penis other than his own when you are around. That shoud make him think a little then smile.
But really, all told he's a good friend so relax and enjoy th etimes together whethe rnaked or dressed. All too many guys grow up with no one they can be as open with. Heck some of my freinds never even have a chance to be naked with others as showers after gym in their schools are considered too gay.
Talk to him about it. He's your friend, trust him. If it made you uncomfortable, tell him, and if he's a good friend he won't do it again.
kick him in the balls.
ignore it if doesnt do it again he was just kidding...
he's gay don't do it, unless his cock grabbing bemuses you.
At your age mutual masturbation is not uncommon!
It was just a joke. I GES? yeah idk but dont drop him as a friend for something stupid. i dont know watch for it again
that does sound serious if you still want to be his friend just doen't go over to his house or try not to be in the locker room at the same time he is or just dont be his friends.
choose one.
Have you asked this before? I think I remember it.
Stay away from him.
wow if someone did that to me friend or not I'd beat the sh*t outta them...I don't know about spending the night he might try something...i don't know good luck though
That's crazy. Let him know that was uncomfortable. If he is a true friend he would understand. I've heard of slapping guys in the butt after a game. But grabbing one's "piece" is a whole other story.
he is gayyyyyy
If you and this guy are really good friends ..maybe he was just horsing around a litle and went too far for you ...
You need to have a discussion with him and tell him that having anothr guy touching you in the groin makes you very uncomfortable and that he should not do it again .....
If he is your friend ; he will honor your request .... IF not; then drop this guy as your friend ... UNLESS you are ok with his actions .... and that would be ok also ...
i had a similar problem like this. but my friend asked whether we should get naked... but that's not the point.
i think you should take him aside and talk to him. you shouldn't drop him as a friend. just say "No!" if he tries to start anything with you. going over can also be a big issue, not feeling safe just in case he does this again; right? well i say talk to him. if you sort everything out. go over to his. if he starts anything you don't want to happen tell him what you think, and if it is that bad phone your parents and ask them to come and pick you up.
no, theres a limit to every "guy thing" but this crosses them wayyyyy beyond!!! if hes u'r "friend" tell him NEVEr to do that again , or the consequences might not be in his favor lol
btw dont sleep over at his place.
I would not hang around with him anymore. I can't imagine any of my friends ever doing something like that to me. I'm thinking he's trying to send you a message.
no one has the right to touch you, even if they are a "friend." if it made you feel threatened or uncomfortable, you can speak to him directly, refuse to speak to him at all, or report the incident. do what you feel is right.
often times boys are led to believe that these situations are the kinds in which they should shrug it off because that is what "guys" do. but don't feel disappointed in yourself if you are upset and want to confide in some one.
no you should sleep over it is prolly because you r a boy and when you are a boy u get weird feelings and it prolly just felt good but weird he's your friend it was just a joke
Hmmm. It could be that he's interested in touching it again, or it may be that he just likes to horse around and doesn't think it's bad to do that. I've seen guys do that just playing around.
If you don't want him to do it, you might need to tell him to stop. Just say, "Hey, dude, I like you fine, but not in that way. If you want us to be friends, you need to leave junior alone." That way, you're kind of joking about it, too. Whether he was just playing or seriously wants more of it, he'll get the drift.
If he does it again after that, then I'd probably stay away from him. You might even have to get serious with him and say something like this, "Dude, seriously, that's a sexual assault. If you try to touch me there again, I will report you." That will probably make him mad, but at that point, you don't care. Hopefully, it will scare him enough to stop.
You're entitled to your sexual privacy and entitled to not have another guy touch you there.
You didn't say if you were naked when he touched you or grabbed you through your shorts. If you were naked and he grabbed your penis in the flesh, then that seems a little more on the gay side to me.
We all have different experiences, though. He might have engaged in circle jerks with other friends to where he thinks it's OK to touch another guy's penis. Or maybe he's just socially inept.
I'd try the lighthearted joking approach first to get your point across, then get tough with him. You have to stand up for yourself.
tell him that you are not a real man, tell him the cock he felt was actually a dildo! then tell him your mother allowed you to get a sex change when you were younger cuz she wanted to have a SON instead of a woman!
ask y he did it, and if your not to worried about stay at his house but take a sleeping bag so he can't get your balls
just grab his cock that will stop him
watch out because if that was just a joke he shouldnt do it again. if he does do it again, thats a little wierd and then you should tell him about it. dont drop him as a friend just yet.
i know hes your friend and all but thats like messed up. i wouldn't grab my friends wiener thats just messed up maybe he has a thing for you.
Man dude I guess you got more self control than me.
If some guy grabbed my cock like that I would knocked the crap outta him right there on the spot....friend or not.
You're not supposed to touch a guy or girl's private parts AT ALL!
woah i smell fish
you don't need to dump him as a friend if you're not homophobic..just draw some borders.
good luck!
eff that, i wouldve blasted him
you sound like you were totally uncomfortable with this. and, joke or not, that wasn't cool.
I'll say a couple of things here--sounds like he was trying to come on to you. And he probably was massaging it. If he's gonna sleep over, I could almost bet that he's gonna want to try something with you.
So, I guess what needs to happen is that YOU have to decide what, if anything, is gonna happen if he does try anthing at the sleepover. It's your body; YOU set the limits. And those limits include not allowing him to do anything, if you don't want it to happen.
I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. You should express to him that you didn't like his little 'joke' in the locker room. And, if he tries anything at the sleepover, you can always just ask him to leave or ask your parents to take him home.
You need to be comfortable with what happens to your body. It's YOUR body. No one has he right to invade it without your consent.
Normal stupid guy stuff, he was showing off for the other kid and is so comfortable with you he felt he could grab you that way. Not unusual, frankly for guys to cup another guy and comment. Some guys are just not that hung up on nudity or sexuality, so it is no big deal.
Sleep over, you have nothing to fear, he won't rape you assuming his parents will be there. Might talk about sex and penis size and stuff, but that is how guys talk and learn about that. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do, and can say no when you want.
dude just dont go on the sleepover its for girls or for boys under 12 or 13...watch outdont go he might be gay and even rape u =o watch out bro next time he do dat kik him in the blas if hehas any.....do it bfore its to late or u might star enjoying it if he does it at least 4 times