What's wrong with me? :(?!
Question: I have a hard time finding someone to be with. I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. I have 'never' annoyed anyone, especially girls. I don't even look at a random woman/girl and think about anything sexual since i think that she might not like me thinking about her in that way.
It looks like all the annoying so called cool guys find girlfriends very easily and I who value family and kids can't be with anyone. And i always plan ahead, such as for university, job, and ... .
Is there something wrong with todays girls or is it just me?! I've been feeling very stupid and depressed lately. My appearance isn't that bad either(according to my friends). I just want to have someone to hold and love...... the romantic stuff.
Answers: I have a hard time finding someone to be with. I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. I have 'never' annoyed anyone, especially girls. I don't even look at a random woman/girl and think about anything sexual since i think that she might not like me thinking about her in that way.
It looks like all the annoying so called cool guys find girlfriends very easily and I who value family and kids can't be with anyone. And i always plan ahead, such as for university, job, and ... .
Is there something wrong with todays girls or is it just me?! I've been feeling very stupid and depressed lately. My appearance isn't that bad either(according to my friends). I just want to have someone to hold and love...... the romantic stuff.
Oh poor you! Look, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It just hasn't happened for you yet. You sound like a lovely person with their head screwed on. Believe me, the romance etc will come, and you will find a person to woo! Most girls love it. I'm afraid its one of those things where you can't go out looking for it, it will come when you least expect it! Don't get too fixated - carry on enjoying life and having new and interesting experiences! A person who loves their life to the full and is kind and warm hearted is so so attractive. Just remember, there is nothing wrong with you, and there is nothing wrong with girls today. Just be patient. I know you feel as if you are too old to be in your situation etc, but you are very young in real terms. I'm a 24 year old woman and I had boyfriends like you when I was younger. When the women you know start hitting 30, trust me, I think you'll be a catch :-)
Good luck. x
I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all!!!
I'm sure that you will find the right person for you to love so just be patient.
You are a very sensible lad planning for the future, it's good to hear that you do that.
Don't get yourself stressed about not finding the right person yet, she will come along soon.
Best wishes
dang if i was a girl id want u. im not ready to setle down yet im just in hs but i cant find a girl that is cool and romantic. im sorta like you and i feel like im invisible. if u aint loud and obnoxios and a jock forget it. i dont do drugs or drink so that kills me but i dont wanna girl like that. i cant give u advice realy but i think like the other dude said be patient. youll find a super girl for sure. i hope i do
i can guarantee that you will find a girlfriend if you follow my advice and she will respect you for who you are and accept your choices of future planning.
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