This is really emberassing. i walked in on my dad. what should i do?!
Question: i know its normal for guys to masturbate, but i feel really emberassed about walking in on him. i havent talked to him in like 2 days. and every time he trys to talk to me i just dont feel comfortable. what should i do? should i talk to him? im really emberassed and ashamed, please help me!
btw im 15 and im a guy, i also masturbate.
Answers: i know its normal for guys to masturbate, but i feel really emberassed about walking in on him. i havent talked to him in like 2 days. and every time he trys to talk to me i just dont feel comfortable. what should i do? should i talk to him? im really emberassed and ashamed, please help me!
btw im 15 and im a guy, i also masturbate.
I assume you walked in and saw him erect and masturbating..
Does he know?
If so, then next time he says morning or hi to you simply reply with a big "hi" and follow with "glad to know I am not the only one in the house who enjoy masturbating". Yes, that's a bit dramatic to think about doing but it willl clear the air completely. Besides there's nothgin wrong at all with seeing another guy masturbating. It happens to brothers or sons or fathers or friends. No big deal unless you make it into one.
Well maybe you should have knocked first. That's your fault.
Yes, you need to talk to him as you are both embarrassed by the sound of what you are saying.
Bah humbug. Everyone does it. Talk to him about it -- as hard as it may be, it will be a fun conversation in the end, I bet. If you do it too, how can you hold it against him? :P
Why are you ashamed? you didn't do anything wrong! And neither did he.
It is more embarrassing for you then for him that you saw it:he knows you do it too.So just act normal around him and just talk like nothing happened:you create a wrong atmosphere now.
Dude, thats why they tech you
knock b4 u enter a room
LMFAO i feel sorry 4 u
you gotta let it go dude. it happens. let him talk to you like everyything is normal becuase he probabaly wants to make u comfortable then he wll probably talk to you about it. im sure hes more embarrased about it. dont ignore him cause he thinks your probably all freaked. it is normal for all guys to masturbate and as weird as it is to kno and then see ur dad doin it it happens.
you should talk to him and just let it go. Act like it never happened. If it helps you when i was nine years old i walked in on my mom and my dad when they were "wrestling", (having sex) and we never talked about it we just moved on with our lives. and besides what you dad was doing is completely natural, so just relax.
Hope this helped.
yeah, its going to be embarrasing but dont you think it would have been more if he had walked in on YOU? you are both guys and you both are going to give a lil love below, just talk to him and get it over with. im sure that he is just as embarrassed as you are
sometimes you have to totally ignore what happened.. thats what i do when my dad does something retarded.. i cought him like... 4 times!?!? and i just ignore the fact that he did and every thing goes normally.. but u probably took too long.. 2 days.. but try.. it works
You need to forget about your embarrassment and shame, and go on having a relationship with the man who brought you to this point.
HE'S YOUR FATHER, DUDE!!!
hehe, can't be worse then walking in on your parents going at it. I'd say just forget about it and you 2 will joke about it later in life I bet.
Talk to your dad and get past it. It will be embarrassing for both, but to get past it you are going to have to talk about it. I knew my dad masturbated, but also knew it was something private