How to quit porn and masturbation (please...religious answers because im that ty!
Question: How to quit porn and masturbation (please!.!.!.religious answers because im that type of person)!?
i started a year or two ago and its just gotten worse!. ive tried almost everything and i just cant stop!. (well!.!.!. yeah i can get rid of the computer you can say!.!.!.but then i have the masturbation problem!.!.!.how can i get the courage to actually quit!. it has ruined me because ive overdone it too far!. and please no (oh well its normal and do it) yes i KNOW ITS NORMAL, BUT I DONT WANT TO DO IT BECAUSE ITS WRONG, AS I SAID I AM A RELIGIOUS PERSON AND I WANT RELIGIOUS PEOPLE TO ANSWER!!! and even if you have quit please help me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Hey buddy, I just wanted to say - Hang in there! First of all, don't listen to the people who tell you not to worry, or that it's impossible to quit - that's a lie, and it won't help you!. I know people who have quit!. That doesn't mean temptation will cease, but it is possible to overcome addictions to pornography and masturbation - WITH God's help!I myself am currently on the road to quit!. It's tough, and there are relapses, and slip ups!. One of the hardest parts is the guilt and self loathing that can often come after giving into temptation!. But remember these things: God loves you, and when you turn to him with a sincere heart and ask for forgiveness, he forgives you 100% of the time!. If you pray to Him, and ask Him for help, have faith, because He will surely help you!. Believe me, God is happy that you are considering how to rid yourself of these addictions, and genuinely wants to help you!.
The road to quitting is hard, and it will never come instantly!. It is an ongoing process, and will require faith, trust, and patience!. I am currently part of a Men's Sexual Purity group, where a professional counselor leads a few of us guys in discussions, and problem solving!. It's really good community - awkward at first, but well worth it!. If you can find something like that, maybe through your church, I would highly recommend it!. Also, here's a site of online helps and devotionals to keep you centered on your goals: http://www!.christianitytoday!.com/men/
You can do this man! Hang in there and keep trying!. You will be rewarded for your faithfulness to God and His ways!. You are His treasured creation and He really wants to help you, out of the great love which He has for you!. I know it's difficult, but when you're tempted, or even after you've succumbed to a temptation, talk to God about it - He's not embarrassed by it, because He already knows everything!. He just wants you to talk to Him, so He can help you!.
God bless man, and Take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
The road to quitting is hard, and it will never come instantly!. It is an ongoing process, and will require faith, trust, and patience!. I am currently part of a Men's Sexual Purity group, where a professional counselor leads a few of us guys in discussions, and problem solving!. It's really good community - awkward at first, but well worth it!. If you can find something like that, maybe through your church, I would highly recommend it!. Also, here's a site of online helps and devotionals to keep you centered on your goals: http://www!.christianitytoday!.com/men/
You can do this man! Hang in there and keep trying!. You will be rewarded for your faithfulness to God and His ways!. You are His treasured creation and He really wants to help you, out of the great love which He has for you!. I know it's difficult, but when you're tempted, or even after you've succumbed to a temptation, talk to God about it - He's not embarrassed by it, because He already knows everything!. He just wants you to talk to Him, so He can help you!.
God bless man, and Take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
A religious person should not have got into this situation in first place!. OK!.
It is seems you spend more to be alone which leads to such things!.
Mingle with people!. Have nice company!. Avoid being alone to over come this urge!.
Only self will power can help you in this regard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is seems you spend more to be alone which leads to such things!.
Mingle with people!. Have nice company!. Avoid being alone to over come this urge!.
Only self will power can help you in this regard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
theres no way to quit, im in the same boat man, the only thing you can do is cut backWww@Answer-Health@Com
im a religious person and iv been down that road b4!. theres not alot u can do!. i quit wen my parents caught me in the bathroom watching porn, cuz i was afraid id get caught again!. evr since then i havnt needed to watch porn!. 4 ur masturbation, u shuld find a hobby that u can do w/e u wanna masturbate!. i took up playing video games w/e i got the urge!. it helped me quit!. and after u quit masturbation, ull just stop watching porn as well since u wont really have any reson 2 watch it!. hope that helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
Its normal, but its wrong!? I believe most religions dont say it is wrong, but instead warn that you shouldn't let it control your life!.!.!. like being at a friend's house and leaving to go home because you want to masturbate, or spending all night downloading porn and masturbating, or in general being so lustful you lose sight of the things that really matter!.
You dont have to quit, just make sure it doesn't get out of control!.
"sex objects", dude, the sole purpose of porn is to arouse, which is FINE, so long you understand that and, like I said earlier, dont lose sight of what really matters!.
"Consuming your time", and this is how the guilt starts!.!.!. I could be getting closer to god, but instead I downloaded a porn video and masturbated, but you do PLENTY more things throughout the day that take time away from god!.!.!. this should be seen no differently the those IF it isn't out of control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You dont have to quit, just make sure it doesn't get out of control!.
"sex objects", dude, the sole purpose of porn is to arouse, which is FINE, so long you understand that and, like I said earlier, dont lose sight of what really matters!.
"Consuming your time", and this is how the guilt starts!.!.!. I could be getting closer to god, but instead I downloaded a porn video and masturbated, but you do PLENTY more things throughout the day that take time away from god!.!.!. this should be seen no differently the those IF it isn't out of control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, I think the key is in understanding what it is that you are doing with porn!.!.!.you are making people sex objects!. You are de-humanizing your outlook on people to the point that they are nothing but the sex that might go along with them, fantasy and/or reality!. The other problem is that this is consuming your time!. When you could be growing in your relationship with God, doing good, at least thinking good, reading the Bible, acquiring other knowledge, instead you are bringing sex to the forefront of your life!. Now, masturbation IS normal, there's nothing wrong with that at all, it's perfectly natural esp!. if you don't have a wife, so there is no reason to feel guilt over that issue, but the pornography is a real problem!. The "How to" is in removing it all from your reach!. Clear your computer, the saved favorites, the pictures, everything, delete it all!. If you have other more traditional porn like magazines etc throw it all away!. Removing it from your immediate ability to retrieve is the key, and the ACT of doing it should propel you in another direction!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Masturbation is not wrong!. In order to be a sin it must be mentioned in the bible as an act we should not do by a prophet, teacher, or God!. Masturbation is not mentioned in the bible any where any place!. So it is not a sin and it is not wrong!. So you should masturbate as often as you feel the need just so you do it in private and keep it personal!. Now porn is addictive and you need to stop the stuff!. It messes with your mind and you get so you need to see it in order to climax or get erections!. Set small goals for your self!. Stop looking for one day and then allow yourself one look!. When you do look do not masturbate or play with your penis!. Keep your pants on and let your erection happen but just go away slowly!. Then do two days, then 3 days with out looking etc!. Now it is important that you take some time during the day to masturbate!. Do it in private and take as long as you need!. Feel free to masturbate and if you do not have an orgasm that is okay!. Just masturbate until it is not comfortable then get up, wash your hands and face, and let your penis go soft!. Then if you feel like doing it later okay!. Find a private place etc!. and do it in comfort and piece!. It is okay and not sinful!. Porn is designed to appeal to mens genetic make up of being turn on by visual images!. Porn is not honest!. Most men are not that size, women do not like sex in the anus by several men, women do not like to covered in semen, and no man can last as long as they do!. Remember they are actors and the camera footage is edited later!. So help your self!. Put a block on your computer for porn sites!. Your body is filling with male hormones daily and you will need some relief and masturbation in private by yourself is the gift that God gave us so we can be responsible about our sexuality and keep our urges undercontrol!. So 1 keep masturbating!. 2 Give up porn!. I will be praying for you!. Write via answers if you need more suggestions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it's common and normal but you're right, it's wrong, some people don't believe it and some don't want to believe it, and some just don't care!. You can put an internet filter on your computer and even have someone else put the password in it so you don't know what it is!. I heard that most times when someone is raped it is after the person that raped them had been watching porn!. It really is wrong but people don't realize how bad it is!. I know a lot of people have been able to quit but it is hard!. I recently saw an article that said men are using chastity belts so they don't cheat on their wives, their wives have the key!. It showed that there was a website for it, it wouldn't seem normal of course but it could be worth getting one, you would basically be protecting yourself from yourself and it could bee worth it!. An important thing is to put your time to good use, go volunteer somewhere and put your mind on better uplifting thing, help people, serve people!. This website could help!.
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