How do you tell a man what you want sexually?!
Question: How do you tell a man what you want sexually!?
My husband and I have been together for about a year, and I want more foreplay and more talk, and just lots of different things in the bedroom but how do you talk to a man about sex without him getting his ego hurt!? It seems like if I even start to say anything he takes it like I'm telling him He's no good and doesn't know how to just listen to me and do as I ask!?
From the men out there, what would you respond best too!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
From the men out there, what would you respond best too!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
i asnwered this in the other question but just in case you don't see it I'm posting it here too!.
Maybe you could play some kind of game!.!.!.
wear a sexy silky bathrobe and when he wants to go straight into his thing, tell him you need him to do some things to you first!.!.!. then tell him that you would like for him to lick/kiss/caress any exposed skin under your robe!. Then open just the upper chest area, then one breast, then the other etc!.!.!. then you can re-robe yourself, turn around and slowly let the robe fall off your shoulders so you can slowly reveal your back all the way down to your butt and have him do those things!. then at the end turn around to reveal where you would like it most!.!.!. if ya know what I mean :D
as he is kissing/licking/caressing you all over let him know you love it with moans and comments ("oh!.!.!.that feels so good!.!." etc!.!.)and heavy breathing etc!.!.!.
then tell him you want him so bad and let him at it! LOL
afterwards make sure to let him know how much you enjoyed and how turned on it made you!.
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another thing you can do is wear some sexy lingerie holding a very light sheer scarf/veil (without his knowlege) and enter into a room where he is sitting somewhere (the couch, bed etc!.!.) and announce that you are in his imagination, his fantasy, and sway the scarf/veil about as you walk toward him!.!.!. then if he doesn't get it after you walk up to him, walk away and tell him his imagination/fantasy is fading away if he doesn't voice what he would like his fantasy woman to do!.!.!. (hopefully he gets it and instructs you to do things to yourself that will get you both hot) :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you could play some kind of game!.!.!.
wear a sexy silky bathrobe and when he wants to go straight into his thing, tell him you need him to do some things to you first!.!.!. then tell him that you would like for him to lick/kiss/caress any exposed skin under your robe!. Then open just the upper chest area, then one breast, then the other etc!.!.!. then you can re-robe yourself, turn around and slowly let the robe fall off your shoulders so you can slowly reveal your back all the way down to your butt and have him do those things!. then at the end turn around to reveal where you would like it most!.!.!. if ya know what I mean :D
as he is kissing/licking/caressing you all over let him know you love it with moans and comments ("oh!.!.!.that feels so good!.!." etc!.!.)and heavy breathing etc!.!.!.
then tell him you want him so bad and let him at it! LOL
afterwards make sure to let him know how much you enjoyed and how turned on it made you!.
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another thing you can do is wear some sexy lingerie holding a very light sheer scarf/veil (without his knowlege) and enter into a room where he is sitting somewhere (the couch, bed etc!.!.) and announce that you are in his imagination, his fantasy, and sway the scarf/veil about as you walk toward him!.!.!. then if he doesn't get it after you walk up to him, walk away and tell him his imagination/fantasy is fading away if he doesn't voice what he would like his fantasy woman to do!.!.!. (hopefully he gets it and instructs you to do things to yourself that will get you both hot) :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him either during or right after sex and be creative about it!.!.don't say !.!.you really suck I want this!.!.!.try "I was reading a magazine and they said ayda yada yada, wanna try that" or I saw a porn vid on the internet and they did this!.!.can we try that!?!? Or show him sone porn related to what you want!.!.if he is a REAL MAN!.!.!.his goal should be to please his woman!.!.
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell him the truth, sit down in a non sexual moment and say honey can we talk, you are a wonderful lover but I need a little more, tell him during sex you are going to give him a little more direction ie touch here, rub here, more pressure!. Also tell him you want him to direct you also to make sex more pleasurable for him also!. Be safe, be happyWww@Answer-Health@Com
just start doing it during foreplay, he'll catch onWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe ask him if he would change anything about how you currently do things in the bedroom and maybe that will start a dialogue!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
honey tonight I'm your sex slave I'll do anything You like, but tomorrow u has to be mine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I always respond best to these conversations when conducted Your sex life has become ho-hum!. Try making a night like a date and seduce HIM!. He will love it unless he has already found greener pastures!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
say, Darling look at this question on Yahoo answers!.!.!. I have been a bit shy totell you but!.!.!.!.!.
Then he will hopefully whisk you off to the bedroom/kitchen/study/garage (your choice) for a good lovemaking session!.
TALKING is essential!. Your marriage will be happier if you can be honest about your wants and needs!.
Tip: One day do all the things he wants (so long as you agree to them) but he has to ASK for each,
The following day you do all the asking!.!.!.!.
Its all about communicating your wants and needs!.
TALK TAlk and Talk some more!.!.!.!.!.
Enjoy! xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Then he will hopefully whisk you off to the bedroom/kitchen/study/garage (your choice) for a good lovemaking session!.
TALKING is essential!. Your marriage will be happier if you can be honest about your wants and needs!.
Tip: One day do all the things he wants (so long as you agree to them) but he has to ASK for each,
The following day you do all the asking!.!.!.!.
Its all about communicating your wants and needs!.
TALK TAlk and Talk some more!.!.!.!.!.
Enjoy! xWww@Answer-Health@Com