Men...Help me understand something...?!
Question: Men!.!.!.Help me understand something!.!.!.!?
My husband says that if he sets at the computer, he will start looking up porn!. That he can't just sit at the computer and check his mail, or just do regular web surfing!. Why!?
I can sit here all day and not ever have the urge to do that!. Why can't he just sit here and not want to look up porn!?
Since he told me that, I don't leave the computer on!. Just incase he starts to get that urge to look up porn!.
Help me understand!. I ask him and he just tells me that "he doesn't know why, he just will"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can sit here all day and not ever have the urge to do that!. Why can't he just sit here and not want to look up porn!?
Since he told me that, I don't leave the computer on!. Just incase he starts to get that urge to look up porn!.
Help me understand!. I ask him and he just tells me that "he doesn't know why, he just will"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Heather,
Porn is very addicting it is like any other addiction but it is easily available!. My wife gets upset with me also but it is because she was raped when she was young and she feels that those women are not all doing it willingly!. I had a therapist that told me to look at it this way!. As part of my marriage vows he suggested that I think of it as I am coveting someone else's wife!. It did help!. I know a lot of guys will groan at this!. It helped me curb my desire to look at it!.
Thanks
TimWww@Answer-Health@Com
Porn is very addicting it is like any other addiction but it is easily available!. My wife gets upset with me also but it is because she was raped when she was young and she feels that those women are not all doing it willingly!. I had a therapist that told me to look at it this way!. As part of my marriage vows he suggested that I think of it as I am coveting someone else's wife!. It did help!. I know a lot of guys will groan at this!. It helped me curb my desire to look at it!.
Thanks
TimWww@Answer-Health@Com
This is a simple question, but you cannot understand the answer!. I cannot understand PMS!. Men have 50 times the testosterone in them that women do!. So, think back when you were really really horny!. Now multiply that by 50!. Do you think you could sit at a computer or do anything without thinking about sex!? Men have to learn to deal with this in puberty!.
When my wife started lifting weights, it is a known fact that even in women that lifting will spike a little testosterone!. She practically raped me afterwards!. So, I know that women would be no different given a chance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When my wife started lifting weights, it is a known fact that even in women that lifting will spike a little testosterone!. She practically raped me afterwards!. So, I know that women would be no different given a chance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if he cannot control himself he is addicted to it; it can escalate--such behavior tends to continue and he can start to act it out or seek it somewhere else!. speak with a therapist so he can get some self-control if not possible keep him off the computer or take the credit cards away from him!. Some guys have a weaker hold on reality and this might be what your husband is facing!. Men are in my personal opinion more sexual and tend to seek sex, porn and such more than a woman because we are more visual--we just see it and we get excited!. can he fight it sure but it will be difficult!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he probably has to much of the urge to look at porn,though it be better for you to simply just put a block on all porn sites then he can still surf the web without viewing porn!.
he more or likely looked at it at a young age causing him to have somewhat of a fetish causing him to be someway addicted to it!.So his way of dealing with it is not going to the computerWww@Answer-Health@Com
he more or likely looked at it at a young age causing him to have somewhat of a fetish causing him to be someway addicted to it!.So his way of dealing with it is not going to the computerWww@Answer-Health@Com
Read the link below on "how parents can block certain websites from children at home", especially the part on the "hosts" file!. It costs nothing to make these changes to your computer, and it is quite effective, unless your husband is a whiz at computers and knows about these things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Because he wants to visit the last porn site he was looking at and see the rest!. Or, he wants to see if there is any new content!.
As long as he's not doing it so much that it's affecting his general lifestyle and he's sharing his built up sexual urges with you, then he's fine!.
If you really want to pull him away, start being his center of attention ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
As long as he's not doing it so much that it's affecting his general lifestyle and he's sharing his built up sexual urges with you, then he's fine!.
If you really want to pull him away, start being his center of attention ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
its what I don't understand either and it makes me sick!. I want to know why so many men are addicted to looking at porn!. So much that they'll do it even if they don't want to!. I'm glad my husband isn't like this, but I had horrible past with it, when you find any valuable answers, let me know please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
porn, its hot, sexy and very addicting
but he is married, so its a problem
u should, like, block all the porn stuff on the computer!.!.!. at least hes honest with u!?!?!?
u should make a porn video for him! i bet that would ttly turn him on!. then u guys could go make love after or something
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but he is married, so its a problem
u should, like, block all the porn stuff on the computer!.!.!. at least hes honest with u!?!?!?
u should make a porn video for him! i bet that would ttly turn him on!. then u guys could go make love after or something
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It is simple!. He likes to look at porn!. It stimulates him!. To some men porn can become addictive and to others it will get boring!. He has an interest in porn and that is just the way he is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
to be truthful hes addicted he cant stop its like smoking the best thing to do is to get him away from a computer like take a vacation for a week go camping, do something funWww@Answer-Health@Com
either he's lying to you, or he has serious problems!. i look at porn, but it's not like some urge that i have whenever i'm on the computerWww@Answer-Health@Com
Men minds are somthing only men will undersyand!. Porn is to us gold, as make up ( if its true, as I dont under stand the female mind ) is a wemons gold!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no offence but r u ugly!? That might make him want to look at porn!. I can't sit at the computer and not look at porn either!. Porn is an addiction, that's probably why!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think its a guy thing, I like to look at porn, but my wife doesn't!. I think because it gets me excited!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well this is pretty normal cuz i no its happen to me a lot b4 its just cuz its so easy an if yu do it once yu almost always have to do it againWww@Answer-Health@Com
he probably started as a teen and after once or twice you just cant stop no matter what it is addicting as smokingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Because it's there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Porns da best! You should really get some!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he looks at porn cos he wants to *** -periodWww@Answer-Health@Com