A deep insecurity about my privates can anyone help ?!
Question: A deep insecurity about my privates can anyone help !?
im 30 and im only just bit over 6 inches when my penis is erect - however the girth i dont feel is that thick, or not as thick as other men, plus the head on my penis is small in comparrison with other men!.
most other men have decent thickness, with a large, broad mushroomed shapen head that sits nicely on top!.
i dont, and i feel deeply ashamed and inferior as a white man as the most pictures i see alot of white guys have decent thickness and a big old penis head!.
but not me ( clenched teeth ) grrrarrrgh ! - this makes me really angry & depressed!.
plus when im not erect - my penis looks tiny and thin, the head looks no bigger than a grape!.
i feel so depressed about this!.
is any other guy like me can anyone advise !?
(oh, if you feel tempted to insult me or take the mick out of my question dont bother to answer as this is a serious question)
says alot about you doesnt it !? oh ill insult someone on yahoo answers try to make him feel bad about himself- shows what a waste you areWww@Answer-Health@Com
most other men have decent thickness, with a large, broad mushroomed shapen head that sits nicely on top!.
i dont, and i feel deeply ashamed and inferior as a white man as the most pictures i see alot of white guys have decent thickness and a big old penis head!.
but not me ( clenched teeth ) grrrarrrgh ! - this makes me really angry & depressed!.
plus when im not erect - my penis looks tiny and thin, the head looks no bigger than a grape!.
i feel so depressed about this!.
is any other guy like me can anyone advise !?
(oh, if you feel tempted to insult me or take the mick out of my question dont bother to answer as this is a serious question)
says alot about you doesnt it !? oh ill insult someone on yahoo answers try to make him feel bad about himself- shows what a waste you areWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I would say ignore the pictures you see on the internet as I imagine they'd be of porn stars, models etc!. They are almost always disproportionately big!.
As mentioned above, learn to love and make use of what you've got, you are probably the same size as hundreds and thousands of other men!. Believe me too big a penis and it just won't fit in!. On average a woman is around 5/6 inches deep so your size is perfect, when a penis is too long it hits the cervis and just plain hurts!.
See if you can find a site that has pictures of normal men and you'll see that they come in all shapes and sizes!. I know its easy to say but if it's doing the job then there's nothing to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As mentioned above, learn to love and make use of what you've got, you are probably the same size as hundreds and thousands of other men!. Believe me too big a penis and it just won't fit in!. On average a woman is around 5/6 inches deep so your size is perfect, when a penis is too long it hits the cervis and just plain hurts!.
See if you can find a site that has pictures of normal men and you'll see that they come in all shapes and sizes!. I know its easy to say but if it's doing the job then there's nothing to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am a woman, and I dont think it matters!. You sound normal sized to me, the pictures you see on the web are of porn stars, and porn stars are just part of a fantasy, just like the women all have perfect bodies, men are expected to be the same!.
In real life not all women have fake boobs, are easy and have a gaping ****** so dont worry about it!. Most girls are just interested in the foreplay and the experience as a whole, not solely focused on penis size!.
Everyone has insecurities about things, thats human nature, and I know it can play on your mind, but decent women wont have a problem with it - honest!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
In real life not all women have fake boobs, are easy and have a gaping ****** so dont worry about it!. Most girls are just interested in the foreplay and the experience as a whole, not solely focused on penis size!.
Everyone has insecurities about things, thats human nature, and I know it can play on your mind, but decent women wont have a problem with it - honest!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the average length is 5 inches!. not sure about girth!. but sounds to me like you're average, and have been compareing yourself to porn stars!. i think porn caused my boyfriend to think he was only average, and i was shocked to find out how big he was!. :X rest assured, you sound perfectly normal to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have an average size like millions of other men!.
I would not worry about it!.
Who are you comparing yourself to!? When you say pictures, I guess you mean on the web - like models, porn actors, etc - I would hardly say these guys reflect the average size of a guys c+ck!.
Chill out and stop worrying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would not worry about it!.
Who are you comparing yourself to!? When you say pictures, I guess you mean on the web - like models, porn actors, etc - I would hardly say these guys reflect the average size of a guys c+ck!.
Chill out and stop worrying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't feel upset!.!.!. where did u see the pics!? on porn websites!? everyone has sometthing to worry about when they visit such websites!.!.!. girls feel inferior about their bodies and boobs while guys feel inferior about their d*ck size!.!.!. because the thing up there on the net is not for real!.!.!. they are bloody cheaterssss!!! they mean to entertain the bored, young and never tried sex before youngsters who masturbate before the computers!.!.!. don't let it affect you!.!. i'm sure you're ok!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What & how much or little u have does not make who u r!. I m very sure u r worth much more!. Trust me, ask your friends around u! Life is not just about the size, discover your other qualities, there are lots and u will feel good about yourself!. Stop comparing, accept yourself for what u r!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
do not worry ,it will be better
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6 inches is very good and no reason to worry about the thickness of it ,you will be fine and no reason to worry at all you are perfect so stop worryingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Master the art of four play and oral sex! and work what you got trust me confidence about your body is sexy!.!.!.!.feel good and love your self the way you are my friend!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it ain't the meat it's the motion of the ocean that rocks the boat!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if u dont have girth!.!.!. u dont have have anything!.!.!.!.!. but thats y there are so many other things to do in life besides sex
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Learn how to use what you got!. Its as simple as it is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
awwwwwwww!.!. *sniffle*Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't worry about it mate! i know its a cliche but its true that its what you do with it that counts!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ive said before, and ill sayit again - 6 is a nice treat in this day and age!!! STOP worrying!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are not planning a career in porn are you!? If not then you are normal and you are fine!.
There are loads of men who come on here with insecurities about their penile size, many only ever see other men through porn as you do, many seem to never see other penises which I find a bit weird and unhealthy, look at the insecurity it creates!? On top of this, it leaves women to fantasioze and the man is not able to tell her some facts!.
So ignore porn, the rest of us are very average---if you lvie a life in which #ankedness is taboo, you'll just have to take our word for it!. Relax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are loads of men who come on here with insecurities about their penile size, many only ever see other men through porn as you do, many seem to never see other penises which I find a bit weird and unhealthy, look at the insecurity it creates!? On top of this, it leaves women to fantasioze and the man is not able to tell her some facts!.
So ignore porn, the rest of us are very average---if you lvie a life in which #ankedness is taboo, you'll just have to take our word for it!. Relax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have a common problem!. D**k size perfectly normal, ego size somewhat diminished!. You need to start feeling positive about yourself in other areas of your life!. Just how much time do people spend getting it on!. If you discount the liars it is about 0!.01% of your life!. How much time do men spend worrying about the size of their organ - 99!.99%!. It just don't make sense!.
Oh, and another thing, when you see those shaven headed 30 somethings in their big flash sports cars, and their bling, remember they have the same problem as you but they don't have the b*lls to own the problem!. Confucius say "the flashier the car the smaller the man's mind"
I hope I've not said anything out of place and now you're considering selling that red Mercedes ;-))
Relax my man, you are a good guy, you take responsibility and we all like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh, and another thing, when you see those shaven headed 30 somethings in their big flash sports cars, and their bling, remember they have the same problem as you but they don't have the b*lls to own the problem!. Confucius say "the flashier the car the smaller the man's mind"
I hope I've not said anything out of place and now you're considering selling that red Mercedes ;-))
Relax my man, you are a good guy, you take responsibility and we all like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't be ashamed, it's not the size or thickness of it, that girls go crazy about, well some girls but there sluts, basiclly!.!.!. it's on how you use it and if you know how to you use it!.!.!.!. for example my boyfriend that i've been with for 6months has a small penis but i don't care because he sure knows how to use it!. if it was all about size and all that other stuff do you think i would be with him if that was all i was interstead in, it is also about your presonality and how well you get along with that surtain someone!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well its hard to tell for sure but this reminds me of two things!.!.!. one a cartoon i saw on psychiatrist wall that showed a person using a magnifying glass to thus make their problem seem a lot larger than it actually is/was!.!.!. two!.!.!. a person i worked with who was obsessed with small almost invisible scarring he had!.!.!. was obsessed with how it looked said it was crippling his confidence etc!.!.!. until he pointed it out to me i had never even seen or noticed it of course!.!.!. and even then very difficult to see (maybe if i went up to him and looked at where it was with a microscope) !.!.!. also sex with girlfriend is so much more about intimacy and personal connection/resonance!.!.!. I too am none too pleased with what endowed with (though i too am probably adequate/average)(and if not then at least nearly so)(and not sure i would be comfortable with too much larger anyways)
girlfriends i have had have not ever minded in the sense that our deep connection so outweighed such an issue (though once again average or close to anyways) Still somehow this hasn't totally cured my neurosis on this point nevertheless I am not prone to public nudity in any way (even showers at gym)(because feel smaller than others etc) !.!.!.but do know from these experiences that size etc of sex organ is such a small issue in comparison with heart love and deep connection!.!.!. with nude women i for one like all shapes and sizes (of say breasts for instance)!.!.!. and when i see something that is different as you maintain your shape is, i am most (probably always) often much more sexually attracted than normal(maybe not only the novelty but also that she too may be insecure because of difference)(may have this psychological dimension too i am therefore more secure with her and want to appreciate and make her more secure with herself as well)!.!.!. don't have to be religious at all to appreciate serenity prayer with instances like this (and i speak for self here too!. need to accept that which cannot change!.!.!. One step beyond even acceptance would be learning to love and appreciate it exactly as it is (your penis deserves this and this is what you/it are looking for!.!.!. nothing short of this will do)(pardon any inadevertent pun)!.!.!. certainly best to recognize biology and genetics and not blame self for having to adjust to what "just happened" (biologically) From my perspective we are so much more than our mere bodies and genetics (heart/mind/soul/spirit) i think go for deep intimacy with love partners and this should matter little!.!.!.otherwise with sex partner try exposure method!.!.!. go for it with mature lusty sexual someone you know will appreciate your sex organ for what it is and show it a marvelous good time (treat it with utter respect, acceptance and love) this "exposure" will probably do wonders for your acceptance of your penis as is!.!.!.reminds me of book The vagina dialogues where all of these women speak of their shame of their privates (engendered by culture we live in)(esp!. older generation i think) remember one woman who was healed of her shame by going with a guy who wanted to look at (closely) and deeply appreciate her "vagina"!.!.!. this helped her to do the same apparently!.!.!. might be worth while to get this short book from library and hear/find how not alone you are even in terms of the opposite sex!.!.!.good luck to both of us in resolving or at least learning to better live with (accept) this issue!.,Www@Answer-Health@Com
girlfriends i have had have not ever minded in the sense that our deep connection so outweighed such an issue (though once again average or close to anyways) Still somehow this hasn't totally cured my neurosis on this point nevertheless I am not prone to public nudity in any way (even showers at gym)(because feel smaller than others etc) !.!.!.but do know from these experiences that size etc of sex organ is such a small issue in comparison with heart love and deep connection!.!.!. with nude women i for one like all shapes and sizes (of say breasts for instance)!.!.!. and when i see something that is different as you maintain your shape is, i am most (probably always) often much more sexually attracted than normal(maybe not only the novelty but also that she too may be insecure because of difference)(may have this psychological dimension too i am therefore more secure with her and want to appreciate and make her more secure with herself as well)!.!.!. don't have to be religious at all to appreciate serenity prayer with instances like this (and i speak for self here too!. need to accept that which cannot change!.!.!. One step beyond even acceptance would be learning to love and appreciate it exactly as it is (your penis deserves this and this is what you/it are looking for!.!.!. nothing short of this will do)(pardon any inadevertent pun)!.!.!. certainly best to recognize biology and genetics and not blame self for having to adjust to what "just happened" (biologically) From my perspective we are so much more than our mere bodies and genetics (heart/mind/soul/spirit) i think go for deep intimacy with love partners and this should matter little!.!.!.otherwise with sex partner try exposure method!.!.!. go for it with mature lusty sexual someone you know will appreciate your sex organ for what it is and show it a marvelous good time (treat it with utter respect, acceptance and love) this "exposure" will probably do wonders for your acceptance of your penis as is!.!.!.reminds me of book The vagina dialogues where all of these women speak of their shame of their privates (engendered by culture we live in)(esp!. older generation i think) remember one woman who was healed of her shame by going with a guy who wanted to look at (closely) and deeply appreciate her "vagina"!.!.!. this helped her to do the same apparently!.!.!. might be worth while to get this short book from library and hear/find how not alone you are even in terms of the opposite sex!.!.!.good luck to both of us in resolving or at least learning to better live with (accept) this issue!.,Www@Answer-Health@Com