Boyfriend's fantasy (MEN 20+) Is this strange?!
Question: Boyfriend's fantasy (MEN 20+) Is this strange!?
First off, I know this isn't the best category, but I thought I'd get a lot of answers from men here!. So sorry in advance =)
My boyfriend and I talk about sex and what we like and what we don't like a lot!. Well yesterday he told me one of his fantasies that he wanted!. Idk how to say this without sounding explicit, but he said he wanted to cuff my hands (not new for us) and hold a knife by my throat!. (VERY newfor me) Now, we're kind of into the more rough stuff, and we're big into foreplay, but this is really new to me!. I don't think I'd mind it, I'm still not sure!. Men, do you think this is an abnormal fantasy!?
Please, serious answers only!. Preferably from 20+ men!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My boyfriend and I talk about sex and what we like and what we don't like a lot!. Well yesterday he told me one of his fantasies that he wanted!. Idk how to say this without sounding explicit, but he said he wanted to cuff my hands (not new for us) and hold a knife by my throat!. (VERY newfor me) Now, we're kind of into the more rough stuff, and we're big into foreplay, but this is really new to me!. I don't think I'd mind it, I'm still not sure!. Men, do you think this is an abnormal fantasy!?
Please, serious answers only!. Preferably from 20+ men!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
To be honest it seems like a relatively normal fantasy to me!. I am quite the opposite of him, I like it when a lady is kind of forceful, and I love the trust and control games!. I am careful regarding weapon play though!. If I do not trust the person I am with 110% I won't even consider it!. I recommend safety words during weapon play!. There have been a few times that I have been nervous and the safety word stopped it right there!. With a safety word in place it is much easier to role play the victim without having to choose words!. Be sure your safety word is really weird to hear during intercourse!. I use the word mustard!.
Hails,
SilenceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hails,
SilenceWww@Answer-Health@Com
this fantasy probably relates to an adrenaline rush, or some kind of wild excitement!. Or, perhaps, maybe the urge for him to feel the need to be completely in control and have you at his mercy!. Either way, I doubt it is healthy!. If you think you guys are having TOO much sex and it gets boring, then cut it down and maybe just normal sex will be exciting enough!. If it's the latter need to feel in control, then a therapist might be best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would have to say "yes"!. I have a pretty wild imagination, but this seems outside the norm!. It also depends on how close you are with your boyfriend!. I would not feel comfortable with anyone holding a knife to my throat!.!.!.not even my mother!. Accidents do happen and both of you may get into a sexual moment and something could go wrong!.
In my opinion, if you did want to move forward with this scene, make it a fake knife!.
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In my opinion, if you did want to move forward with this scene, make it a fake knife!.
-C-Www@Answer-Health@Com
What ever happened to the "two girls at the same time" fantasy!? I think I would try to talk him out of the knife part if I was you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
um i think its kinda over the line with the knife!.!. espically if its a real knife!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your boyfriend is a weirdo!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its madness , don't talk to him againWww@Answer-Health@Com
ur boyfriend is psychoWww@Answer-Health@Com
What the F!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO WAY!!! it sounds like he wants to become some crazy raper!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think you should do it, that's the way serial killers set up their victims!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
kinda weird for me!.!.!.
but !.!.!.if it doesnt hurt you!.!.!.then go ahead!.!.
its weird!.!.yeah!
but U decide to do it or notWww@Answer-Health@Com
but !.!.!.if it doesnt hurt you!.!.!.then go ahead!.!.
its weird!.!.yeah!
but U decide to do it or notWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should find a new boyfriend as soon as possible!. The one you have now is not realizing a fantasy about sex but about control!.
He could be a very dangerous individual!. Once he has you constrained!. He could actually kill you!. This is not normal and is psychological deviant!. Don't do it!. Get and stay as far away from him as possible!. By him expressing this to you means he needs serious mental help!. As a retired police officer who handled people such as your boyfriend, I can tell you with one hundred percent certainty, your boyfriend is dangerous!. Criminal minds such as rapists need and seek to control others!. This is not sexual!. Don't become a statistic where we read your story in the crime pages of your newspaper!. Get out now!Www@Answer-Health@Com
He could be a very dangerous individual!. Once he has you constrained!. He could actually kill you!. This is not normal and is psychological deviant!. Don't do it!. Get and stay as far away from him as possible!. By him expressing this to you means he needs serious mental help!. As a retired police officer who handled people such as your boyfriend, I can tell you with one hundred percent certainty, your boyfriend is dangerous!. Criminal minds such as rapists need and seek to control others!. This is not sexual!. Don't become a statistic where we read your story in the crime pages of your newspaper!. Get out now!Www@Answer-Health@Com