I'm having trouble keeping my dick hard/ maintaining erection any advice?!
Question: I'm having trouble keeping my dick hard/ maintaining erection any advice!?
I'm 18 and I'm goin out with a 28 year old woman!. We get along great, there's tons of sexual attraction, there's lots of fun outside of intimacy but the problem is, I have trouble keeping my dick hard during sex!. I have no trouble getting hard in the first place, and we usually mess around A LOT before sex, but once we start making love, if we switch positions, for some reason I can't keep my dick hard through it!. She'll try to help me out but once the time comes, I either can't keep my dick hard enough to go in or it sometimes loses some of its hardness in the course of the sex!.
Please help! I don't know what to do!. I smoke occasionally, and I know about the blood vessels and such but this has never been a problem for me!. I'm a former high school football player in great shape and I still exercise regularly!. I eat a decent diet, but it irkes me cause I've never had sex problems even when I was smoking a lot and eating poorly!. Please help! I want to make her climax through vaginal sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
Please help! I don't know what to do!. I smoke occasionally, and I know about the blood vessels and such but this has never been a problem for me!. I'm a former high school football player in great shape and I still exercise regularly!. I eat a decent diet, but it irkes me cause I've never had sex problems even when I was smoking a lot and eating poorly!. Please help! I want to make her climax through vaginal sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Erectile Dysfunction is not necessarily physical brotha!. You need to understand that if you can get hard in other situations, but not during intercourse, then it IS E!.D!. Temporary or not, it is still E!.D (psychological form)!.
I'll tell ya what I think, it is performance anxiety!. The first time you have sex with someone you might "mess things up," ejaculate too early, get nervous and not stay hard, ect ect!. The first time unfortunately sets the bar!. Each time you have sex with her after that, you might be thinking "oh no, i must do better, i must do better!.!.!.please, don't change positions, i'll lose my erection!" And now you are in an unhealthy mindset that will only snowball unless you work really really hard to fix it!.
A penis' rigidity and erection strength comes from your brain!. Your brain tells it to get hard and then some physical things happen with blood flow!. If you are not relaxed, your mind is not going to be willing to send those signals to the penis!.
I am 22, and I just got out of a relationship with a 30 year old!. The same problem existed for me as it does for you!. I was never able to get over it with her!. I got to the point where there was no longer any physical attraction in my eyes!. If you don't fix the problem right now, it will only snowball!. Now it affects me in other relationships!. "OH no, I hope I don't lose my erection like I did with her!." You have to relax; have her give you a backrub!. Try lights out!. Candles!. Music you enjoy!. Then when you start having sex, keep your mind ON sex, but not on your performance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'll tell ya what I think, it is performance anxiety!. The first time you have sex with someone you might "mess things up," ejaculate too early, get nervous and not stay hard, ect ect!. The first time unfortunately sets the bar!. Each time you have sex with her after that, you might be thinking "oh no, i must do better, i must do better!.!.!.please, don't change positions, i'll lose my erection!" And now you are in an unhealthy mindset that will only snowball unless you work really really hard to fix it!.
A penis' rigidity and erection strength comes from your brain!. Your brain tells it to get hard and then some physical things happen with blood flow!. If you are not relaxed, your mind is not going to be willing to send those signals to the penis!.
I am 22, and I just got out of a relationship with a 30 year old!. The same problem existed for me as it does for you!. I was never able to get over it with her!. I got to the point where there was no longer any physical attraction in my eyes!. If you don't fix the problem right now, it will only snowball!. Now it affects me in other relationships!. "OH no, I hope I don't lose my erection like I did with her!." You have to relax; have her give you a backrub!. Try lights out!. Candles!. Music you enjoy!. Then when you start having sex, keep your mind ON sex, but not on your performance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she fools around during sex!.!.and then is a carrot during sex that might be the cause of it!. If not you have perivously been sexualy plesured and it becomes the only true way for you to get up!. I would say try and stop fooling around for a while, like 3 days at least or a week and see if maybe youve been over used haha!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hmm either you're wacking off too much in between sex or you have ED!. Try to score some viagra or just take it up with your Doc if you're not too embarrassed!. And a good way to get it back up in the middle of sex is to add more lube and have her stroke it good!. Always works for me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
they have some stuff through pure romance called Time in a bottle!.!.!. you put it on and it basically numbs your penis,!.!.!. only problem is you have to wait like 10 minutes before you enter her or she will go numb too!.!.!. it is only like $15 and lasts a long time!.!.!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think is more like a psicologycal problem!.!.!. if you are 18 you shouldnt have any problems!.!.!. I am guessing the more you think about the more affraid you are!? is that right!? You will see that once you overcome that fear it should be ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to your local sex shop or internet shop!. They sell some pills called Weekend Tice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you're way to young to start having those problems now!.!.!. thats a fair age gap dude i reckon try it with someone younger, your probably not that attracted to her even though you think you might beWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to see a urologist about this:you might suffer from ED!.
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