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Be more assertive, My boyfriend doesnt stand up for himself or raise his voice when he needs to!. He's 22, pretty well build an kinda of intimdating when you look at him, but he has never onced raised his voice or stood up for himself!. For instance some asshole in a sporting good store the other day threw a football and it hit my boyfriend in the head an the guy ran past him to pick up the football and said something ignorant about his tattoo!. My boyfriend APPOLIGIZED for getting in there way, i was like What the hell!!! I said to the guy to keep his big *** mouth shut, i feel like im standing up for him!. How can i get him to be more assertive and stand up for himself and stop being so nice all the time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Sounds to me like your boyfriend is the one with the brains in your outfit!. Maybe he don't like makin a big scene in a store!. And maybe he is easy goin!.
I would like a guy like your boyfriend!. He probably has good friends too instead of hangout guys who wouldn't stand up for him!.
You need to think more!. And you need to think different too!. Seems your boyfriend will go a lot farther in life with his current disposition than if he got more aggressive!.
Think on this some!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would like a guy like your boyfriend!. He probably has good friends too instead of hangout guys who wouldn't stand up for him!.
You need to think more!. And you need to think different too!. Seems your boyfriend will go a lot farther in life with his current disposition than if he got more aggressive!.
Think on this some!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can make demands, but these are personality traits and they are not easily changed!. If he does change them for you, he's likely to resent it!. You have every right to tell him you think he needs to be more assertive (which is not all the same thing as being aggressive; he should at least have complained to the management), but he has every right to refuse!. Good luck on this one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well would u rather he go around and fight with people and get tossed in jail then you would be mad cause he is locked up!. Im a big guy shave my head, tattoos, goatee but im not an aggressive person!. When i was young i was quick to get mad but as i matured i smile and walk away from people!. Be happy he is calm and not a loud mouth jerk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think there is anything you can do, he has to do it himself if that's what he wants!. Maybe he just doesn't like confrontation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
be more mean to him!. call him a little ***** and just say things that get on his nerves!. eventually he will just be a meaner person, but then he might even be mean to you!. so if you really want that, you might change the way he treats you alsoWww@Answer-Health@Com
He is who he is, and you can't force someone to change!. All you can do is let him know what you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you can tell him no sex!.
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There's nothing that you can do!.!.!.he has to want to stand up for himself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm a pretty big guy myself and i'm a soft spoken person!. thats what he is soft spocken but yeah probbobly he didn't want to make a sceneWww@Answer-Health@Com
tell him that he shouldnt take sh*t from someone that he can whoop!.!.!.and just tell him to be meanerWww@Answer-Health@Com
i guess i woz pushy with guys!. oh wellWww@Answer-Health@Com
sound like he is sad or depressedWww@Answer-Health@Com
how tall is he!? ill change my answer laterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Okay, dear!. Stop kidding yourself!. You knew this when you met him!. His high wuss factor would assure your dominant personality control of the big guy but now you want him him to be the muscle behind your aggressive personality!. Well, you can't have your cake and eat it too in most cases!.!.!.!.
If you really want him to step it up, take him to the local boxing club and have him lace them up!. Have him spar and get knocked around a bit by someone who is not going to hurt him too bad!. You will have to reward him with the good stuff to get him to go back but make sure that when you do him, you let him know how much his action in the ring turns you on!. Then shut off the good stuff until he gets back in the ring and slugs it out some more!. Reward him handsomely with the good stuff and he will go back into the ring!. Continue with this until he develops some skills along with a desire to hit back (aggression is rewarded by good stuff from you)!. Pretty soon, your dog, I mean your man will be as ferocious as he appears!.
The downside to this is that you might also catch an occasional *** whipping yourself but you will have that aggressive man you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you really want him to step it up, take him to the local boxing club and have him lace them up!. Have him spar and get knocked around a bit by someone who is not going to hurt him too bad!. You will have to reward him with the good stuff to get him to go back but make sure that when you do him, you let him know how much his action in the ring turns you on!. Then shut off the good stuff until he gets back in the ring and slugs it out some more!. Reward him handsomely with the good stuff and he will go back into the ring!. Continue with this until he develops some skills along with a desire to hit back (aggression is rewarded by good stuff from you)!. Pretty soon, your dog, I mean your man will be as ferocious as he appears!.
The downside to this is that you might also catch an occasional *** whipping yourself but you will have that aggressive man you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com