A MAN's orgasm. How do i get him to?!
Question: A MAN's orgasm!. How do i get him to!?
Me an my boyfriend have been together for about 2 1/2 years, an we are both adults and practice safe sex, but!.!.!.Theres a problem!.!.
I orgasm alot faster then him then after i orgasm im not as wet as i was and its kinda painfull for me, so he stops!. He never orgasms, i honestly think he does maybe once a month and we have sex about 8-10 times a month!. An i can give him oral sex for hours and he wont orgasm, i think thats from like a mental block though because i dont like him to come on my mouth because i dont like the taste of it!. What do i do!?!!!? Has any other woman had this problem!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I orgasm alot faster then him then after i orgasm im not as wet as i was and its kinda painfull for me, so he stops!. He never orgasms, i honestly think he does maybe once a month and we have sex about 8-10 times a month!. An i can give him oral sex for hours and he wont orgasm, i think thats from like a mental block though because i dont like him to come on my mouth because i dont like the taste of it!. What do i do!?!!!? Has any other woman had this problem!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
There is a growing number of women these days who are able to get off well before their partner, sometimes even two or three times before their partner so in that aspect you have nothing to worry about, it's completely normal!.
After you orgasm I suggest you use some form of personal lubricant so that way you don't get hurt and he can keep going!. First of all make sure it's a water-based lube because other types of lubrication will erode away at condoms!. Personally I recommend Astroglide, it lasts longer than most other lubes, it's not nearly as thick and sticky as some lubes, and finally it works as a vaginal moisturizer which is always a nice thing!.
As for your man, it's definitely possible that he has a mental block with oral sex if you don't like the taste!. For that option either have him eat one apple or pineapple everyday because the natural sugars in the fruit will give his ejaculate a sweeter taste!. If you don't want to try that however may I recommend doing other things besides oral to try and get him to get off!? Simple things like a hand job or even oral followed by a hand job can do wonders and when using your hands use the lube because it feels a lot better on him!. Other than that you can try stimulating his perineum (the spot between his testicles and anus), by simply rubbing it you apply outward pressure on the prostate gland!. The prostate also occasionally called the male g-spot is particularly sensitive and many guys straight and gay really enjoy it and it results in a stronger and more intense orgasm!.
If none of the above works, may I suggest just sitting down and talking to him!? Communication in a relationship is key, even during sex!. It's very possible that he has some performance anxiety which can be helped simply by talking or he may have a mental block and think that he can't get off with you (this has nothing to do with you, some guys are just difficult to get off and after enough time of not getting off they assume they can't, of course making it true since it's a self fulfilling prophecy)!. If he has a mental block and isn't aware of it then talking will definitely help, I know a lot of guys including myself who used to think that no one would get them off, then with their partner they got off once, realized it was possible and it became 10times easier in the future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
After you orgasm I suggest you use some form of personal lubricant so that way you don't get hurt and he can keep going!. First of all make sure it's a water-based lube because other types of lubrication will erode away at condoms!. Personally I recommend Astroglide, it lasts longer than most other lubes, it's not nearly as thick and sticky as some lubes, and finally it works as a vaginal moisturizer which is always a nice thing!.
As for your man, it's definitely possible that he has a mental block with oral sex if you don't like the taste!. For that option either have him eat one apple or pineapple everyday because the natural sugars in the fruit will give his ejaculate a sweeter taste!. If you don't want to try that however may I recommend doing other things besides oral to try and get him to get off!? Simple things like a hand job or even oral followed by a hand job can do wonders and when using your hands use the lube because it feels a lot better on him!. Other than that you can try stimulating his perineum (the spot between his testicles and anus), by simply rubbing it you apply outward pressure on the prostate gland!. The prostate also occasionally called the male g-spot is particularly sensitive and many guys straight and gay really enjoy it and it results in a stronger and more intense orgasm!.
If none of the above works, may I suggest just sitting down and talking to him!? Communication in a relationship is key, even during sex!. It's very possible that he has some performance anxiety which can be helped simply by talking or he may have a mental block and think that he can't get off with you (this has nothing to do with you, some guys are just difficult to get off and after enough time of not getting off they assume they can't, of course making it true since it's a self fulfilling prophecy)!. If he has a mental block and isn't aware of it then talking will definitely help, I know a lot of guys including myself who used to think that no one would get them off, then with their partner they got off once, realized it was possible and it became 10times easier in the future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It takes me days sometimes, a combination of low testosterone and advanced age!. I wouldn't imagine that his problem is a mental block, probably physiological!. Time for a check-up!.
Of course, an easy solution to the dryness is to use an artificial lubricant!. And to the taste, is to swallow while he's ejaculating, since the taste buds affected by semen are all in the front of your mouth!. A change in his diet may improve the taste as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Of course, an easy solution to the dryness is to use an artificial lubricant!. And to the taste, is to swallow while he's ejaculating, since the taste buds affected by semen are all in the front of your mouth!. A change in his diet may improve the taste as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
how quickly he orgasms is his issue, orgasm happens in the brain and is not your responsibility, it is his!. As for the dryness you experience, it's quite simple, just get some KY jelly or astroglide lubrication and use it so it isn't uncomfortable for you!. Also, intense foreplay before sex can bring him to the edge prior to intercourse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My wife orgasms two or three times before I even get the feeling!. Some guys just last longer!. On the occassions where she gets dry you can use KY Jelly on yourself so he can fininsh, you can use your hand, you can stimulate other parts of his body while he uses his hand and let him finish on your B****, You can start him with your mouth or hands and tease him before you two make love so he is already started!.
Experiment it is fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Experiment it is fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if he's having problem having reaching an orgasm, he may be experiencing
Performance Anxiety
Hormonal changes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Performance Anxiety
Hormonal changes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I sure don't understand this!. He needs to see a professional right away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think since sex and oral haven't worked you should try something else like a handjob but don't just grab it and go on a wack attack , take your time and find out how he likes it and try some new things on him, i'm 30 and sometimes i don't orgasm with my gf because of the same thing , so thats what we do!. That or you could start things by giving he a BJ then have sex that way he's already worked up and i'm sure he'll shoot for you if you take your time with him in such a way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com