I suspect my boyfriend may be selling drugs?!


Question: I suspect my boyfriend may be selling drugs!?
I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, an we live together!. Lately he has been acting strangly an i suspect he is either selling or doing drugs, or both!. I found a small digitial scale in his truck consule with something white on it, He also has been very secretive and acts like he doesnt care about me anymore!. What are some SOLID things i cant prove to myself that he is useing or selling drugs!?
The scale in his truck is the most proof i have found, i havent confronted him about any of it yet!.
What do you think i should say!? What should i do!? I dont want to leave him because im in love with him, i rather help him with his problem then leave him!.

The stuff on the scale looked like powdered sugar or baking soda, it was very fine and kinda yellowish/white!. What was it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
First of all, if you are feeling the need to snoop, then there is something wrong!.!.!.with your relationship!.!.!.or with you!. From what it sounds like, it's the relationship!.!.!.if you guys even have one!. No offense!. Most couples don't even realize until it's too late how much the drugs have taken over!. You can't stick around to "help" him and expect him to change!. I know that it's going to be hard to leave him as well!. My advice to you!? I think you already know the answer if he is doing or selling drugs!.!.it is kinda sad that you have to ask the world, just because you don't trust yourself!. Or have faith in yourself!. I'm not going to tell you to leave him, I'm going to tell you to stay with him!.!.because sooner or later you will leave!. You will get sick of being broke with him, arguing with him, him taking off to go get high whenever you guys fight, and yes, oh yes, the cheating will start with women that share his common interest!. People CAN change, but it's a risk that you'd have to take!. That risk can leave not only him at rock bottom, but you as well!. If you stay with him, you will see what goes on, and how bad things can really get!. It will help you with your next boyfriend, as I'm sure you will be rather selective!. You seem intelligent, I mean, you can spell and so forth!.!.!.and there is no reason to doubt yourself like this ever again!. It was either crack, coke or meth!. Those are all very serious to be selling or doing!.!.!.don't you think!?!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Confront him point blank until you get an honest answer!. If he is doing and selling drugs, run don't walk from this relationship!. It can only get worse and he will shut you out of his life because all he will care about are the drugs!. It will not be easy for you, but you need to get out now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this must be hard for you!.!.!.
I understand!.!.
BUT you should take a sample of the "powder" you found in his truck!.

Take to someone who can know , or the police!.!.!.
If its drugs!.!.!.then the only way to help him is to tell him to quit selling!.!.because that is illegal and if he gets caught he will be in a huge trouble!.
About consuming it!.!.!.!.he might need therapy to stop his possible addiction


GOOD LUCK!!!
and just be strong!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe try talking about it to him in a gentle non accusing way!. tell him you've noticed his behavior and that its a little scary for you!. and that you'd like to know what is going on!.if hes not showing interest in you after you talk to him and the behavior continues!. dump him unless he proves to you hes not doing them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need more evidence cause why!?
the court would like to enter exibit A!.
the prosecution restst!.
how do you find the defendent!?

does it matter to you what narcotic it is!? fromt the sound of it i think not!. does he take chemistry by any chance!?
maybe he is selling baking powder to baking mothers with jars on stovetops!.

cut and run!. lol @ you dirty one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He is selling crack cocaine!. Crack cocaine is made by cooking cocaine with baking soda and it is often yellowish white in color!. Get the hell away from this guy!. Selling cocaine is like 10-15 years in prison!. If you are with him when he is stopped, you are going to be charged as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it might be cocaine and i wouldnt say anything!. Id get some help first because ive heard of stuff like that where the guy will get mad and hit you!. I would talk to a guidence counselor or something but if you really love him i would try to act normal and look for more clues for nowWww@Answer-Health@Com

first of all you dont have to be black you racis* *itc*!. The dude is cheating on you and Im glad he is doing it!. How can you be so racist and you put lol like everyone in the world is white yes white!. Scre* U
And yellowwhite is cocaineWww@Answer-Health@Com

Get out of there before you know it he will let you see every corner of your appartment and start hitting you:girl you won;t be the first nor the last one who stay with these no goods!.
SkyWww@Answer-Health@Com

i suspect it's coke and u need to puta lot of distance betweeen u andhim because u can be busted also and be assory get outWww@Answer-Health@Com

cocaine!. Yeahh hes probably selling drugs, why else would he have something like that!. you need to confront him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He could bring in good money!
Sorry, I shouldn't!.!.!.

Take a little of it and ask the police!.!.!. It is a matter for the police!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Smell his Breath! look through his bills!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

three words!.!.!.!.!.CUT AND RUN!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

umm cocane, crystal meth, lol get out of that house, he sounds crazy!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Scales are a pretty good indicator that he is selling!. Residue on the scales is enough to get him charged with possession of a controlled dangerous substance!. The scales can cause him to also be charged with possession of paraphernalia as well as possession with intent to distribute!.

If anything is found in the house, or if you are in the truck with him and he is pulled over, you can also be charged!. Remember, the police officers make the arrests; the courts decide who's responsible for the drugs and scales!.

Get out now !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

cocaine most likely and you cant live with a drug dealer i hope you understand that!. it could cost you a lot including your freedom or your life!. you could be held responsible for his actions when he gets caught and he will get caught trust me!. i get that you love him but you need to confront him about what is going on and you need to do it now!. you also need to set guidelines!. i understand you want to help him and be there for him and you can be once he agrees to get help!. otherwise your only helping him kill himself by enabling him!. if you really love him take action nowWww@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like he is doing both!. Especially if you found a scale in his truck!. Do you think that if he was only selling he would be acting secretive!? If he seems to be buying things more often there's one clue, unless he's his best customer!? its hard to say without knowing all the facts but what you need to do is ask him why hes acting weird!. You have been together long enough to be able to know whats really goin on!.!.!.tell him you found the scale when you went to the store!. Who cares if you were snooping hes not telling you something and so that gives you the right!. If he gets pissed that you were snooping then tell him he shouldn't be hiding anything from you in the first place!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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