Life checkpoint for a 23 years old?!
Question: Life checkpoint for a 23 years old!?
Hi I'm turning 23 in a month!.
I have graduated from univerisity and just got my first job, I have a house, a car, I keep myself physcially active(kickboxing), and I take drawing lessons as well!.
however, I do not have a girlfriend, and it has been quite awhile since I had one!. I'ts not like I can't find girls that are attaracted to me, it's more like finding someone that I really like, or sometimes I just can't be bothered!.!.!.
I sometimes feel incomplete and frustrated, because all my friends are in pairs and happy!.!.
Now I know you are probably gonna say "when the time is right, the right person will show up" or " she will come alone when you are not looking"!.!. but !.!.the anxiety just kills me!.
Any word of wisedom or personal stories you'd like to share!?
Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have graduated from univerisity and just got my first job, I have a house, a car, I keep myself physcially active(kickboxing), and I take drawing lessons as well!.
however, I do not have a girlfriend, and it has been quite awhile since I had one!. I'ts not like I can't find girls that are attaracted to me, it's more like finding someone that I really like, or sometimes I just can't be bothered!.!.!.
I sometimes feel incomplete and frustrated, because all my friends are in pairs and happy!.!.
Now I know you are probably gonna say "when the time is right, the right person will show up" or " she will come alone when you are not looking"!.!. but !.!.the anxiety just kills me!.
Any word of wisedom or personal stories you'd like to share!?
Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I have found the most important thing is to keep doing all the things that you're passionate about and define you!. You seem the sort who wants a really like-minded girlfriend, not just a pretty girl to take to restaurants and movies!. So what makes you you!? Be the most you you can be and you will click with somebody!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You do need to get out to more social occasions and meet lots of people in order to make planty of friends and broaden the base from which to find potential dates!. And when you do you will meet some poepl who are just going to be good friends and others with whom there is enough mutual interest and attractioon to date!. Of course if it isn't working with one person after a few encounters be honest and move on!. But somehere on there you will find a suitable person and things will develop as they are intended!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, try going out with girls who you might not 'really like' and just have fun!. Don't wait around for 'the one' forever because it might be a while until she turns up, and you might find that someone you weren't crazy about originally has more under the surface then you realised!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get out there and make new friends!.!.!.male and female! I found that having a bunch of couples in my friends circle was hindering because it prevented us from going out and mate searching!. I'm not saying ditch your friends completely! Hang out with them to but find another crowd to hang out with and go club hopping with!.
When you got a group of singles all looking for prospectives you got better chances!.!.!.In my opinion anyway!.!.!.you help them out they help you, and more importantly you have a blast doing it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you got a group of singles all looking for prospectives you got better chances!.!.!.In my opinion anyway!.!.!.you help them out they help you, and more importantly you have a blast doing it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well done with all that you have achieved in 22 years!.
Now get off your butt and find someone, go to places where other young people go and find someone who has similar interests!.
What are your interests!?
You won't find anyone by just sitting thinking you are left behind by your mates, so get out there and find some company!.
RegardsWww@Answer-Health@Com
Now get off your butt and find someone, go to places where other young people go and find someone who has similar interests!.
What are your interests!?
You won't find anyone by just sitting thinking you are left behind by your mates, so get out there and find some company!.
RegardsWww@Answer-Health@Com