Guys: would you consider this slutty or can a person change?!


Question: Guys: would you consider this slutty or can a person change!?
Question for guys (and girls I guess though you might be harsher):
1!. would you consider a girl a slut if she's slept with 7 or 8 guys!?
2!. what if she's different now and doesn't party too much or make stupid mistakes like that anymore!?
3!. would you really call her a slut if she's a good person!? Is it like once a slut always a slut or do you think someone can change!?
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I think girls can truly change (though--if the story was flopped---i don't think guys can change---girls though seem to wear their emotions on their sleeves and you can sometimes tell when their being 100% honest or not)!. I don't think sleeping with 7 or 8 guys is bad or considered a slut----but if you've changed like you said you have---then there's nothing to worry about!. It depends on what your significant other thinks---if he's open to multiple partners---then you're fine----if he's not---then you might not want to reveal the whole truth---just focus on your intimate relationship with them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is actually a GREAT question! You know, if a male has multiple lovers,he's a stud!. Why can't females have multiple lovers and not be a "slut"!? I think the reasons for having sex would make the female a "slut"!. But then the male that sleeps around is no better!. With all the illnesses around these days, "sluts" can be male and female!

If you are just sleeping around then I feel you are not being a very responsible person, male or female!. AND yes you can change if you want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. I would not call a girl a **** if she slept with twenty guys!. Some people are more active than others!. I guess it depends on your beliefs some people would say yes she is a ****!. But I would call her a **** if she slept with someone when is meant to be in a serious relationship!.
2!. Does the girl in question think it was a mistake!? What is her frame of mind!? People seek sex for all different reasons!.
3!. You do not have to be a bad person to be a ****!. If the girl is a good person and a friend what does it matter how many guys she has slept with!. If she is a bad person would she be your friend!? People can change and how many people you have slept with is your business and if you wish to share it then people are going to make their own judgements!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. Depends on what time they did it!. Like, all at around the same time, or was it over a certain ammount of years!? If it's like, within the year or something like that, I would say yes!.

2!. Then, she was one, isn't one anymore!. Everyone makes mistakes, some people dwell on them, and some move on!.

3!. I think someone can change!. Everyone can change in some way!. People have to move on, and not always think about the past!.!. like "Oh yeah, she was such a ****, and now she will always be a ****" I don't personally think that's fair!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well it dependes if that kinda bs happened overnite the change NOT AT ONCE !.!.!.no over a week ahhh yup !.a month iffy but the first guy messed w/ you head and you got enough brians to ask at any age ok well you will party agian and i dont know your age ,but ill tell you ive got a good idea w/ up i dont know you n wont pass judgement !.when you can make a better dicession that the one i feel your uptight abt YOU are moving foward GOOD !.!.!. now the slut BS ah ill bet ur not ,and dont like that word its close to the C word so dont consider your sielf as one and when it all calms down niether will them if thats the case !? just i hope you have someone to talk with abt your feelings its ok to open up !. YES YOU CAN CHANGE YOU WILL !.!.!.i aint no dr p!. but i hope you get a grip on yoursielf and slow down a bit youre young !.!.!. GUYS R SLUTS TOO best of life and turn it around ROC !.!.!.XXWww@Answer-Health@Com

I always say you are only a slut if you get paid for having sex or use people by using your pu!.!.well you get what I'm saying!. I don't think there is anything wrong with having sex with different people are long as you are safe!. However, people do change and choose to be with one person!. To each his/her own!. I don't do it, but I don't put anyone else down for getting their rocks off with various people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. personaly yes i would consider that slutty ,u dont respect urself
2!.if she changed u can take her back and forgive ,i would if i cared for her very much
3!.ofcourse people can change ,she was a slut but not anymore dont worry about it ,people always change , i told u if u realy care u take her backWww@Answer-Health@Com

well it depends!. did she screw these 7-8 people in a 2 week timeframe!? or in the span of 31 years!? you need to be more specific so that we may be more objective on it!.
i do believe people can change!. but i also believe that change must be PROVEN before change can be BELIEVED!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

GUESS I AM WAY TOO OPEN MINDED:MOST DUDES ARE THE WORST SL@TS EVER:THEY SCREW WHAT EVER MOVES!.
I WOULD NOT WORRY ABOUT THE PAST BUT FOCUS ON THE NOW!.
AND DO NOT LABEL YOURSELF!.
THAT IS RIDICULOUS:YOU WERE EXPERIMENTING,SO WHAT!?!?!?!?!?
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it is very difficut to accept a girl like that, but if a guy is really inlove with her, a guy can accept it!. its very very difficult thoughWww@Answer-Health@Com

I dont care about someones past!. GIrls can give the impression that they are slutty by the way they dress and act!. Its a bad word to describe someone who enjoys sexWww@Answer-Health@Com

no i wouldnt call her a slut infact i wouldnt label her anything i mean watever floats ur boat dude it aint any1 elses businessWww@Answer-Health@Com

1!.honestly!? yes if she's not serious with them and just play around
2!.then she respect herself now, good for her!
3!.no, good person will be called a good person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

someone can change and i wouldn consider people a slut if they have clamned down with partying and sleeping with guys soo what i mean is no i dontWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just 7-8 guyz lol,noway hosay try 500+ then come back and post the question,alwayz try before u buy,i mean who wants to get landed with a guy whoz crap in the sack!Www@Answer-Health@Com

it depends on her age and the period of time in which she slept with that many guys, and people can change!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't put labels on people!. I take people at face value as I'm no angel myself!Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah ppl can change!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but once u have a name its not easy 2 loseWww@Answer-Health@Com





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