This is becoming quite a problem?!


Question: This is becoming quite a problem!?
Lately whenever my girlfriend and I get intimate, we can have sex, but my problem is that I am not lasting as long as I know I can!. I don't seem to have any control over it!. It is becoming a problem because my girlfriend is starting to think it's her fault when its probably not!. I have lasted for hours before, but lately I just can't!. I will say though I do seem to last longer when I am on the top!. But when she is on the top is when I have no control over it!. I really feel horrible about it because I can finish but she never gets the chance to!. She thinks there is something wrong with her!. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated!. I would like to avoid going to a doctor about this if it can helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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you said that when you're on top you last longer, which may be true, but just so you know, since you also seem concerned about her 'finishing', the woman-on-top position is usually the best for women who want to orgasm because they have more control!. honestly, i feel like if your girlfriend was on top and she was really controlling the rate of sex, she could slow things down if you felt that you were 'finishing' before you wanted to!.
chances are you don't need to go to the doctor, btw!. you said you've been able to last a lot longer before!. the worst thing you could probably do for your problem is to stress about it too much!.
and hey, i'm a girl and wouldn't mind getting to *** more during sex, but for women that's usually not what sex is all about!.!.!.i once read that for the majority of women, penetration is the most pleasurable part of sex!. the emotional aspect is big for women too!. does your girlfriend know that you care so much about all this!? honestly, if my boyfriend were to express any sort of care in that area at all, i'd be thrilled!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This problem comes normally with age!. It's called erectile dysfunction!. There are many things that can cause it!. Disease, such as std's, postrate problems, prostrate cancer!. You should go to a doctor and have a series of blood gas tests ran to eliminate postrate cancer and std's!. if it's just age, there are some medications which may help, viagra, cialis, and levitra!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Usually men get more erect when they have a stronger blood flow to the penis (in your case, your on top = bigger size, she's on top = smaller size!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell her i can only last on topWww@Answer-Health@Com





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