Sex Question Is It Normal????!


Question: Sex Question Is It Normal!?!?!?!?
Kinda a personal question!.!.!.!. but is it normal for a 24 yr old man to DEVELOPE premature ejaculation!?
Like litterally it starting happening about a year ago!.!.!. and has pregressivly gotten worse!.
And He wasnt DEFINALY not before!.

He swear that I'm not doing anything wrong ( of corse!.!.!. always my first thought ) That I just "feel too good" lol!.!.


And Yes I know!.!.!. if theres a possible problem!.!. he should go see a doc!.!.!. but he doesnt listen to me!.!.!. lol

kinda wanted to know if there could be a REAL problem so I can give him motivation to go see someone ya know!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Yeah, definitely, and once it starts it can become a vicious circle!.

A big part of this is stress/pressure!. For most of human evolution, we were out in nature!. Stress equalled danger!. So if you're having sex, and there's danger, what would be reasonable alternatives!? Either lose erection and run, or fininsh immediately and run!. Men are still wired that way!. Impotence and premature ejaculation may seem opposites, but they are both hard-wired responses to stress!.

So !.!.!. if he's having problems with P!.E!. and is worried about it, that tends to make his PE _worse_!. And the cycle progresses!.

So the question is, how can you let him know you want him to deal with this, without him feeling more pressure!? I'd bring it up outside of the bedroom!. Let him know you'd like to get to a point where he can last longer!. Let him know that you still have fun now, and from what you understand, the 'work' to get to that point should be pretty fun for both of you!.

Find somewhere, download, or buy an instruction book on dealing with P!.E!. If you cannot find one, instructions on 'male multiple orgasm' are virtually the same thing!. Essentially, your partner can learn to put off his orgasm via a combination of awareness of excitement level, breathing control, and pressure (often via PCG muscle i!.e!. kegel flexes)!. It takes reading, practicing those techniques, and practicing those technique during sex!.

Other things to help:
- get him off first!. If you want to have sex, unzip and jerk him off fast 30 minutes before hand!. This can certainly help him last longer during sex!.
- have sex more often!. If you're having sex weekly, have sex every other day!. Or daily!. More sex will do many things - it will lower his sex drive, and make him a little less excited!. It will give him opportunity to practice!. It will take some pressure off him because even if he 'blows it' today, he can try again tomorrow!. There's less pressure on each sex act!.
- initiate sex!. IF he initiates, he's probably been fantasizing about nailing you for the last hour!. He's allready 2/3 of the way to orgasm!. Turn it around, jump him when you're allready halfway there and he has a cold start!.
- figure out what you're going to do when he cums fast, because its going to keep happening for a while!. If he knows he can still satisfy you, perhaps not in the 'ideal' way, but in some way, that helps him feel less pressure!.

Good luck!. Practice, practice, practice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

try starting off slower in a sense, and when he feels the sensation have him pull out just before ejaculation and don't touch him!!! some will come out but he wont have the full orgasm, continue after a minute and repeat this until the sessions get longer in between the needs of pulling out, also in between your love sessions let him have a break put some numb cream on him give him 5Min's to work on you while this stuff sets in and you will have the time of your life and he will regain the mental strength again plus its fun, and lasts longer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

!.!.!.!. I think that if I was married!.!. and still having some sex I would be pretty happy!. Its far better than suffering ED, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters [1]!. I would say that if the little guy can't hold his load then get a script for Viagra!.!. then it won't matter (unless he tries to roll over and go to sleep)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Minimise foreplay!. You may be getting him to worked up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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