How should i deal with a bully in school?!


Question: How should i deal with a bully in school!?
ok so im 14 and sometimes when i get into class (the kids in 2 of my classes) hell start running his mouth about how "im gay" and how im "afraid to fight him" and that crap!. how should i deal with him, he only talks around his friends and will never swing at me when i get in his face but he doesnt seem to stop either and id rather not have to resort to beating him up to get him to stop, id rather just not waste my time to hurt an immature child!. i confronted him once and he stopped for a while but then he wants to show off to his friends and try to look tough so started talking again, what should i doWww@Answer-Health@Com


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seriously just shake it off, you seem to be handling it well, don't let it get to you that is what he wants!. He wants you to get ticked off and react to it, if you don't let it hurt you, it will annoy him!. Think of his words being like poison, he is trying to give you the poison that is already within him, but if you choose not to take the poison, the poison will only harm him and not you!. you seem mature just don't beat him up, he deserves it but be the bigger man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

School sucks!.!.!.!.!.!.lol!. Bullying should be punished more severely!. Just know that most of those losers go downhill later in life, it's karma!. I'd say confront him when he's alone if you have the chance, and ask him why he has a problem with you!. He's trying to show off, but he wouldn't probably be so bada*s without his friends around!. Randomly look over at him in class & look at him all "crazy" like you're thinking of going psycho!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ask him what he's afraid of!.

There's something he sees or thinks he sees in you that he wants!. Or is jealous you have it and he doesn't!. Tell him that if he carries on being a tosser you will report him to both the principal and the police for harrassment!.

If push comes to shove, make sure you don't hit first AND you have someone who can back you up - i!.e!. a witness who isn't involved!. Then deck him with an upper cut!. And turn and walk away!.!.!. to the first aid cabinet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

he's probably the one being "gay" for even trying to act tough and whatnot!.
i swear, he just wants attention!. i'd ignore him because hes just a loser for even talking like that and good idea for not wasting your time on him!.
i bet your friends could back you up if you were to actually confront him though!.!.
but just don't waste your time, you've probably got better things to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He's probley gay and wishes you were or if you are gay he probley just wants you and is in the closet and needs to call you gay to make up for his own homosexuality
Ignore this loserWww@Answer-Health@Com

dude just stand up to him and dont fight him , try to beat him in something to make him submit(not fighting), maybe a match in karate or wrestling, that is what i did and ppl dont mess with meWww@Answer-Health@Com

you know what!? try to act cool!.!. like smoke some pot!.!.

try have a girlfriend

drink red bull or monster!

umm!.!. ignore people who are bulling you!.!.!.!.

and best of all try to get in fights like make someone angry!Www@Answer-Health@Com

he probably likes you
just say that and that he wouldnt care that much about you if he didntWww@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him you respect his life style but it would never work out because you are straight!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just tell a responsible adult or settle it out of schoolWww@Answer-Health@Com

You should fight him!. don't worry about gettin in trouble!. it's worth it to get rid of him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

stand ur ground & give it right back to him!. don't get yourself in trouble thoughWww@Answer-Health@Com

shoot the scumWww@Answer-Health@Com

Call him out on his bullshit, ask him if calling other people "gay" makes him feel better about himself, ask him if he's just covering up for the fact that he's really gay!.!.!.don't lose your temper, just screw with his head a little, pick on something embarrasing about him (maybe he's dumb or has acne, or a fat girlfriend)!.!.!.get him to want to fight you, and if he makes a move, for god's sake fight back, I'm not saying you should start a physical fight, but you must always defend yourself!.!.!.!.make sure to do this in school!.!.!.he'll be less likely to swing and it would get broken up real quick!. DO NOT meet him in the park or somewhere outside of school!.!.!.If he suggests that, then tell him "no," we can handle it right here, and call him a p*ssy if he's afraid to fight you in school!.!.!.You must never back down to him, and even if you lose a physical fight, you will maintain your respect, DON'T BE AFRAID, don't give him the pleasure of your fear or your temper!.!.!.be calm cool and a bit of jackass

Also, don't be afraid of penalty's from the school (unless you're a known trouble maker yourself), chances are the school knows this kid is bad news and it will all come down on him!.!.!.detention is well worth stopping this guy

remember NO FEAR!.!.!.getting hit is not that bad, its the anticipation that will kill you!.!.!.be proud of who you are and don't let little sh*ts like this walk all over youWww@Answer-Health@Com





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