When my best buddy became GAY..i feel hurt coz i thought i was betrayed..?!
Question: When my best buddy became GAY!.!.i feel hurt coz i thought i was betrayed!.!.!?
were going to Indiana U to take up Aviation as we plan to be a commercial pilot someday, last week he told me he way gay and he's going to Fine Arts School as he really likes drawings and photograpy!. i kind of hard on him after he told me he was gay, i feel bad coz i look our friendship seems washed away!.!.i thought if he's gay then he will be like the gay character of Will and Grace, he promised to be my best man when i get married someday now he will probably my gf bridesmaid, how about if he get aids!.!.maybe he was gay all along just keep it to himself, maybe he join the basketball varsity coz i want him to but, or he just want to see naked boys in the shower, now i like to shout to my team mates guys "heres is a gay guy injoying your penis"!.!.well maybe im too hard on him!. its his 18th birthday this Sat i guess its the right time to talk to him!.!.what will i give him now that he's gay!. how about if our teammates and friends will know that he's gay!? i never told anyone yet any thoughts!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Why don't you just treat him like you've always treated him!? Just cause he is gay it doesn't mean he's turned into some kinda weird sex crazed freak who only hangs with you or joined the team to score!
As far as catching aids goes, in todays world, you stand an almost equal chance of getting it as he dose!
If you "out" him or ridicule him in front of others, then it's YOU who isn't the good friend!
I had a similar experience when I was much younger, and after my friend told me he was gay, the only thing that changed in our friendship was the fact that I KNEW he was gay!. We still hung out and did all the things we normally did, and never once did his being gay become an issue between us, in any shape or form!Www@Answer-Health@Com
As far as catching aids goes, in todays world, you stand an almost equal chance of getting it as he dose!
If you "out" him or ridicule him in front of others, then it's YOU who isn't the good friend!
I had a similar experience when I was much younger, and after my friend told me he was gay, the only thing that changed in our friendship was the fact that I KNEW he was gay!. We still hung out and did all the things we normally did, and never once did his being gay become an issue between us, in any shape or form!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If I found out my best friend was gay, sure I'll be shocked and surprised but I'd eventually get over it!. He would still be the same person I've known all my life!. This doesn't make him a sudden stranger or an alien from another planet!. The way you're reacting it seems like maybe you're one "betraying" him!. Seriously, you were probably the first person he came out to so you should be more supportive than that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you're being very selfish, you're just thinking about the things that will change in YOUR life!. Have you ever wondered what he feels when you make those comments, or reject him!? You're hurting him, and he though that you would support his decision, that's why he told you, he trusted you, and all you do is make him feel bad for something that he shouldn't feel bad for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
whatever u do don't kick him in the balls he'll enjoy it :) jks your being to hard on him, you need to losen up and stop being a prick he can't pick to be gay just like u cant pick to be straight, i bet you if he could pick to be straight he would!.!.!.you should apologise and don't look at him differently, he is still a human being not a gay alien from mars who wants to abduct ur penis, he wants to be your best mate and ur making it hardWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well everyone above me has answered pretty much the same as I would have!. You should feel privileged that he though enough of you to confide in you!. Don't betray his confidence in you!. Remember it would have been very hard for him!. Right now, he needs you bad!. Not sexually, but morally!. He needs you!. You can still be best buddies!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
firstly dont feel like ur betrayed or sumthin cuz ur not! be glad because ur best friend is honest about himself and to you, it would be betrayal if he continues to fool you around that he is "the macho man"!.!.!.
you cant find a true friend within a month but you can loose one in a single minute!. dont let that happen to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you cant find a true friend within a month but you can loose one in a single minute!. dont let that happen to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ypu are really hard on him!. What difference does it make to be Gay!. Is he not a human!. You are hyrting him a lot!. Had he been lusty for you he would have done smoething like watching you naked!. But he is your real friend(hopefully) and that's why he told you the truth!. You must say sorry to him for bad behaviour!. you'll feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Firstly he didn't just become gay, he just became okay enough with it to tell you!. Also he can still be a bestman/groomsman being gay doesn't make him a girl!. Don't tell others, let him choose who he tells and give yourself some time to adjust to this new info!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your overreacting its not a big deal and I doubt much will change except he will date girls instead of guys and if its that big of an issue for you well your the one with the problem not him and shows like will and grace are made to streotype peopleWww@Answer-Health@Com
Give him normal things act like he is kidding and he is not gay or then everyone will think he is wirde and he will have no friends, and even if a guy is gay he is still a guy so!.!.!.!.!. u know wat to do now do u!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think ur being a dick
if hes really ur best friend u will support him because im sure his parents and everybody else will give him a hard enuf time!.!.
n remember he didnt just wake up one morning and decide to b gay so he will b exacltly the same person but probly happier cos hes being himself''Www@Answer-Health@Com
if hes really ur best friend u will support him because im sure his parents and everybody else will give him a hard enuf time!.!.
n remember he didnt just wake up one morning and decide to b gay so he will b exacltly the same person but probly happier cos hes being himself''Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you're gay!.!.!.!.!.ha
"I planned on him being my best man at my wedding"
!.!.!.!.making wedding plans at 18, how gay are you!?! HAHAWww@Answer-Health@Com
"I planned on him being my best man at my wedding"
!.!.!.!.making wedding plans at 18, how gay are you!?! HAHAWww@Answer-Health@Com
STOP BEING SUCH A DUMBAS
YOU STUPID IGNORANT! SOBWww@Answer-Health@Com
YOU STUPID IGNORANT! SOBWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow!. I know it probably was a shock when he told u, I mean if a friend told me i dont know how i would react but I would try to remain calm!. I am sure he didnt play b-ball etc just to see the teammates naked or anything like that!. IMAGINE HOW DIFFICULT IF MUSTVE BEEN FOR HIM TO TELL U!. I think u should talk to him about it, tell him u were and are still in a shock over it but want to talk to him,!. tell him u feel betrayed and why, about school, being a pilot someday etc!. and just try to remain calm so he sees ur still his friend,Www@Answer-Health@Com