Guys - advice for me?!
Question: Guys - advice for me!?
okay this probably sounds like a dumb question BUT help is appreciated!. I always end up dating jerks!. I really really like smart, funny guys, and I always talk to them in my classes, but outside of school I always tend to gravitate toward guys that party because they act more interested in me than the guys in my classes!. I'm going off to college next year and I can't wait to get new friends that care about more than partying and their social lives!.!.!. but it would be nice to be able to date a guy that is smart and nice now! Thing is, it seems like they usually only like me as a friend!? I'm in all honors classes and I always have good conversations with the guys in them but they treat me more like just a friend!.!.!. am I doing something wrong!?
i'm not that ugly (not that looks should matter): http://i300!.photobucket!.com/albums/nn31/!.!.!.
and I have a good personality, I'm not catty or mean
so how can I attract good, smart guys instead of jerks!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm not that ugly (not that looks should matter): http://i300!.photobucket!.com/albums/nn31/!.!.!.
and I have a good personality, I'm not catty or mean
so how can I attract good, smart guys instead of jerks!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
wow I would be like perfect for you !. I'm smart and funny and nice but I'm not a nerd , I'm not a partier by choice and I watch lots of girls like you date these guys that dont care about anything than your looks!. Its good to see you are finally seeing the light in dating and experimenting with others rather than just the same old!. The only advice I can give you is since your so good looking then your gonna have to approach them as they may be intimidated but they wont be for long if you give them a chance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
umm, i think you're awesome just the way you are!. you are attractive!.!.!. wow!. I don't really know what to say except that don't give into the jerks especially since college is right around the corner!. Just wait and hang out with smart guys that you would find attractive and wait to see where things go from there!. There will always be jerks regardless if they're jocks or geeks!. You have to consider the "whole package" as well!. It's not that you're not attractive or not likable!. Whatever you're doing, I think it's not your fault and that you just can't control this "mystery" of yours!. I think it's just timing because you seem like a wonderful person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its not that the smart guys aren't in to you they are probably just a little intimidated by you!. The 'party guys' you refer to are more inclined to talk to the other sex!. So if you are not afraid to do so I suggest making the first move with one of the 'smarties'!. That might help them loosen up and know that you are approachable and attainable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your a beautiful girl!. Don't go towards dudes who you meet at parties!. They're usually trying to get some!. Meet people and hang out with them!. Go on dates!. You'll do fine!. Were are you going to school!? If it's a party school like were I'm going (The West Virginia University) than you'll have plenty of people to meet!. Take your time!. I guarantee you will find the right person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Simple, irrefutable and immutable Law of Attraction: what you focus on is what you get!. So if you are thinking Nice guy, friendly, easy to chat to BUT your feelings are going :"uh oh, hope he's not another dud" your FEELINGS will attract exactly that!.
As you have already proven several times!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As you have already proven several times!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ok where are you looking for guys in the first place!?!? YOu are very very pretty and im not just saying that to get the points or to be nice you are really really pretty!. your probably looking in the wrong place for guys!. keep looking theres a guy out there for you!. GOod Luck!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
1st of all im no dr!.Phil
lol ur avatar looks just like u
they r probably just shy(sometimes guys like that r ) u need 2 build up their self confidence with girls and flurt a little (its crucial) and if they like you youll definitly know (body language,if they check u out,or if they just ask u out)Www@Answer-Health@Com
lol ur avatar looks just like u
they r probably just shy(sometimes guys like that r ) u need 2 build up their self confidence with girls and flurt a little (its crucial) and if they like you youll definitly know (body language,if they check u out,or if they just ask u out)Www@Answer-Health@Com
just make it obvious to the kind of guys that you want to like you that you like them and if they are as smart as you say they are, they should pick up on your hints and make a move on you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are gonna have to control it!.!.!.i mean!.!.!.while they may treat you more like friends!.!.they may not be used to dating or what not!.!.!.take charge and make the first move!.!.!.and maybe even the second and third!.!.!.dont worry im sure you'll find someoneWww@Answer-Health@Com
put it to the partier dudes and say eff off ya jerk, i know how those dudes are, and see how they treat women its a wonder they get laid at all, stick with what you want not what they wantWww@Answer-Health@Com
It may be because the intelligent, funny guys are trying to graduate on time so, instead of taking up good study time messing around with a boy crazy girl, they keep their minds focused on what is important to them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Jocks can take away ur virginity, save it for marriage, don't be pressured to date!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
not that ugly
your a hotty
you probably go for the jerk guys coz the good guys are always geeks or ppl you dont want to hang around with
deep down you love the jerksWww@Answer-Health@Com
your a hotty
you probably go for the jerk guys coz the good guys are always geeks or ppl you dont want to hang around with
deep down you love the jerksWww@Answer-Health@Com
You are not ugly! I guess youre just sorounded by the wrong crowd! Enjoy life! If you were living here in Denmark i know you would attract many boys! heheWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well at that age most guys are only gonna care about your body but in the future dress more safisticated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
good smart guys are probably intimidated by your beauty so you might have to make the first moveWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just be yourself, and you'll find the RIGHT guy that clicks with your real personality!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
date a musicianWww@Answer-Health@Com
You're too pretty!. Yes, there is such a thing!.
It destroys the confidence of a decent guy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It destroys the confidence of a decent guy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
date a nerd he will start changing when you date him and nerds are all funny or just call me at9053471004Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe they like you from inside, but you just think they don't like you!.!. and your not ugly, your hot hahahahaWww@Answer-Health@Com
bc ur hot reg guys are intimidated by u!.!. only dumb as jerks are brave enough!.!. ulll have to pick out and hit on a guy!.!. instead of going for the guys who hit on u!.!.!.!.
unless u wanted a sex guy like me!.!.!. lulz!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
unless u wanted a sex guy like me!.!.!. lulz!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
idk just give it time and keep on talking to the guys you likeWww@Answer-Health@Com
date a jock or football player !!!!!!!! Love ur hair!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur hotWww@Answer-Health@Com
okay heres why you end up dating jerks!. you like guys that party but one of the main reasons guys go to partys is to get laid as wrong as it is they only act interested in you to see how far they can get and brag about later!. trust me im 16 and sadly i see this happen to girls all the time!. if you want to get a guy that really likes you for who you are and not how much theyll get out of you i doubt you will find it in college either judging how you look for them, its pretty much the same mind state there to!. now saying all of that it wont be that hard for you to find someone who likes you for who you are, look for the guys that only like you as a freind i can almost bet that over 90% of them wouldnt mind dating you, personally i only date girls who are as you described yourself they have to be smart and nice!. and you arent "not that ugly" either id say your pretty hot myself!. but just dont go looking for guys at partys plz, you will be at the same place at the end of college as you are now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
they might be treating you like just a friend because they actually respect you!. often at parties like that males and females are only looking for some ***!. from my experience, being friends with somebody and letting that friendship grow into a relationship is the way to goWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, chances are that maybe you have the wrong image of the smart, nice guys that are in your classes!. There are different ways for people to express that they like you, so maybe they do like you and they are too shy to tell you upfront!. If one of these "nice" guys is constantly telling you or doing nice things to you, chances are they like you!. Its just that jerks are more likely to be more upfront and aggressive when they like somebody, instead nice guys are usually have more subtle ways to express their love for you!. Usually smart, funny guys tend to be a little more shy than jerks ((take me for example)) So be more open-minded, more aware of those little details that these nice guys do for you, you will notice that they were there all along and that maybe you just werent paying much attention to them!. They may not say it, but im sure that most of them enjoy your company!. Once they get to know you, they will probably feel more open and relaxed towards you!. Look for ways to break the ice!.!.!. and im sure they will respond!.
Well Hope this Advice Helps You!!!
Good Luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well Hope this Advice Helps You!!!
Good Luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
haha you sound exactly like my best friend turned girl friend!.
You have to quit being so attracted to "meat-head-jerk-party guys" before any smart guy is going to talk to you!.!.!.Try picking a certain guy and putting a little effort into making something happen!.!.!.don't put it all on him or you mise well go back to the party guys!.
If your lucky you can find a smart, funny guy that likes to party but isn't all about it all the time!.!.!.but you don't live close to me, so probably not!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to quit being so attracted to "meat-head-jerk-party guys" before any smart guy is going to talk to you!.!.!.Try picking a certain guy and putting a little effort into making something happen!.!.!.don't put it all on him or you mise well go back to the party guys!.
If your lucky you can find a smart, funny guy that likes to party but isn't all about it all the time!.!.!.but you don't live close to me, so probably not!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com