Question for guys - help, please?!


Question: Question for guys - help, please!?
okay this probably sounds like a dumb question BUT help is appreciated!. I always end up dating jerks!. I really really like smart, funny guys, and I always talk to them in my classes, but outside of school I always tend to gravitate toward guys that party because they act more interested in me than the guys in my classes!. I'm going off to college next year and I can't wait to get new friends that care about more than partying and their social lives!.!.!. but it would be nice to be able to date a guy that is smart and nice now! Thing is, it seems like they usually only like me as a friend!? I'm in all honors classes and I always have good conversations with the guys in them but they treat me more like just a friend!.!.!. am I doing something wrong!?
i'm not that ugly (not that looks should matter): http://i300!.photobucket!.com/albums/nn31/!.!.!.
and I have a good personality, I'm not catty or mean
so how can I attract good, smart guys instead of jerks!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
ask out one of those guys in ure classes!.!. and u are soo gorgeous : )Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just a little news-flash, In college the guys are just like in high school, just kick it up a notch, guys in high school are nothing compared to guys in college, In college there is fraternity houses and more parties & drinking!. (especially if you are going to a 4 year university)!.
You are doing nothing wrong, maybe they just don't realize that you are looking for someone like them!.
Just be yourself, and maybe ask one of them out on a date, sometimes you have to make the first move!.

P!.S!. you are pretty!. (not that looks should matter)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think the best answer i could give you is just be patient!. You are a beautiful young girl and obviously have a lot to offer!. So go and meet and have fun with a lot of different types of people!. But be very patient and even slow to commit to any type of a relationship!.because with time every ones true intentions or true self with be exposed!.One more thing don't ever sell yourself short and settle for any relationship!. You deserved to be treated well!. so don't settleWww@Answer-Health@Com

Looking at your pic, I would certainly be intimidated in asking you out!.

Several folks have suggested for you to be patient!. I think that's good adivce!. You have what it takes to attract a nice guy: intelligence, drive and looks!. You will attract the right guy, some day!. No worries!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

They probably are only treating you like "just a friend" because they are shy-ish!. Maybe they think you are above them!.

I would say find the guy that you really wanna date and persue him!.

Take the initiative and ask him out!. stuff like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

They could be intimidated that a girl is talking to them in the first place!. Just be straight them, ask him out on a date and see what happends!. You already know that he will be a gentelman with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow your hot!.Guys like to do that to pretty girls to make them think that their too good for them when actually their scared and think you will find someone better for in your case should be no problem:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well im a good, smart guy!.!. and i would feel really intimidated by you!.!. your hot!.!. will prolly just have to make the first move!.!. trust me they are interested!.!. Just don't think that they can show it!.!. Nobody wants to be "just Friends"Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, you are catty but thats because your a girl and your also pretty!.No, your not doing anything wrong!.Just be yourself and you will do fine!. You dont need to be in a hurry!.!.!.!.!.Kiss Kiss!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I wouldn't stress on it!. Worry about your classes and do your best!. As time goes on, you will meet the right person!. Let it come to you; don't press!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

um well try talking to smart guys or start friends with them and probably they'll start to notice you more!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow you are very very good looking!. im not trying to be mean or anything but probably most of the kids you talk to at school are nerds and are to afraid to ask you outWww@Answer-Health@Com

i kow how u feel!. its mostly cuz their really shy and have low self esteems!. u probably have to ask them outWww@Answer-Health@Com

You're a girl!. Girls at your age tend to like jerks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry!. But you just have to WAIT! stop rushing things! you're time will come sweetie!. Maybe you can try www!.lavalife!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

your hotWww@Answer-Health@Com

dang, you are pretty!!! Dang, just pick someone!.!.!.how could they say no!.!.!. WOW!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

by asking us on here you are hot babeWww@Answer-Health@Com

ur hotWww@Answer-Health@Com

hi bee
i don't think your doing anything wrong !. the guys in your class might not want to compete with you on the same level (you being smart as them or smarter ) it would be like you having to same car as the most popular jock in school hes not going to want to be around you and your car !.and jerks are everywhere some just hide it better then others so don't blame yourself oh the pic shows you to be very pretty just ask someone you like and think will be right for you out for a movie or something life is to short not to live it good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com





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