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Question: Will someone help me(I know in wrong category)!?
I am in 7th grade and 12 years old!. I weigh about 180 and I get teased around at school about me being fat!. It has forced me in to I guess having low self esteem!. I am trying to loose weight but I know kids would find other things wrong with me!. Even my own friends (only about 3) make fun of me!. I am really depressed and I cry every other night

Will someone help me boost my self esteem!.!.!.

Thank You!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It is not good to have a low self-esteem!.!.!. but it is happening alot nowadays especially to young people!. When I was your age, I used to be fat too, but when I got to the 9th grade, my sister started losing all of her wheight and I guess that inspired me to lose my own wheight!. If you really want to lose wheight, when you are about 15 yrs!. old you will pay more attention to yourself!.!.!. and your looks!. Right now you don't have to worry about what others say!. People used to make fun of me too! but now I'm in the 10th grade and every1 says that I have changed!.!.!. it's good to hear it once in a while especially when you have worked hard for it!. LOL I used to have few friends too!!! :) but now I have opened myself more and I am challenging myself everday to do something new (except drugs & bad stuff) I have made new friends and I'm more talkitive!. Now, when people from the 6th, 7th, 8th, and even 9th grade look at me!.!. their jaws pop open!. Now I can raise my head up high because I know that they are NOT better than me!. I even sometimes feel pitty for some of them b/c they are doing drugs!.!.!. but that just goes to show that what goes around!.!.!. comes around!. I hope that this helped you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

School, especially middle school and high school, is an area that many people do not feel comfortable in!. Schools are supposed to be a safe fun environment, but really, they aren't!.

Your friends (3) that make fun of you, really aren't your friends!. They would not be making u sad if they were!. I would just go about your life, don't worry about them!. Because of this experience at school, you are likely to succeed more and farther than they ever will!. You will also be a safer driver (I am not sure where this statistic came from)!. You will probably get a higher education and maybe someday, you will be their boss!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just dont worry about what people think of you!. im im 22 years old and i too am overweight and have been since middle school!. i try to exercise and i eat good!. so im working on becoming healthy, but i do it to make myself feel better!. not because people tease me!. i just laugh at that now! but the one thing that always kept me up, was that these people that always teased me, are lower than i am!. they are the scum of the earth!. dont let it get to you!. just let them be immature and go on with your life!. and if you want to lose weight, great! but do it for you, not because people tease you!. you want to feel good about yourself!. dont worry what others think!. if you need help, feel free to email!. good luck kid!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dang dude when i was your age i felt the same way i was 200 pounds !.!.!. You know what i did i just stopped caring what people thought!.!.!.!.!. If you do lose wieght don't do it for those people do it for you!!! Then you will feel better about your self That what i did now i am a computer network technican married to a hot woman and having a baby life is great and i am only 20!.!.!. So do what is best for you and go get you some real friends that support you!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Awwh, see a counciller, tell a teacher, tell ur parents, act confident, show off and be proud of urself and then other people will also see these good aspects of you!.
dont let it get to u, and try eating healthy!.
i think u shud tell ur parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop worrying about what ppl think !.!.!.!.only reson they make fun of u is because they have nothing better to do with theor life!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.if ur friends makes fun of you then you shouldnt call them ur friends!.!.!.!.!.!.!.jus dont put urself down be happy and dont wrry bout wat other ppl say!.ur still a kid ur still growing up and maturing dont let other ppl get 2 uWww@Answer-Health@Com

I dont know much about you,
but thats sad/=
Your not the only one with problems though,
So when you think of you being sad,
think that theres always someone out there that has it worse than you!.
:]Www@Answer-Health@Com

work on losing weight!.!.!.accomplish something!.!.!.or at least get healthy!.!.!.make some goalss reach them and your gonna be a better person!.!.!.and say this every once in a while

Ilike myself, i love myself, i feed myself, i f*** myself =-) hope this helped!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok well just make ur self fitter and after tht tell them to F off bc if they r that way, you are a better person, you probably did nothing to deserve it!. im sorry they r tht way!. also, find better friendsWww@Answer-Health@Com

DONT LET ANYONE PUT YOU DOWN!!!

my advice to you is that, you should start working out those arms!.!. once your strong!.!. beat the $h*^ of of them for making fun of you!.!.!.

that will raise your self esteem =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

You'll most likely lose the weight when you grow up!.!. you could look totally different when youre older!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey me again! rememer!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

ur like me minus 10 poundsWww@Answer-Health@Com

RJ!.
You can count on one thing, whatever challenges arise in our life, you can bet someone else has had it worse than you and has gone on to bigger and better successes!.
Ask yourself who is the primary force that shapes your life!? Who does the majority of your thinking!? Who chooses to think what they wish to think on a daily basis!? The answer of course, is you!.
I believe we can improve our self esteem by making a genuine effort to focus on a sense of empowerment!. We can do this by making a commitment to spend time to understand who we really are as individuals!. Really make the commitment!. Not an half hearted attempt, or



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