My husband needs to see a doctor, but what do I do until then??!
Question: My husband needs to see a doctor, but what do I do until then!?!?
My fiance and I have been together for a little over 6 months!. He's 27 and I'm 22!. Up until his last relationship/roommateship (which lasted 4 years) he's been VERY sexually active and able to keep an erection for a long time!. He had many partners on a regular basis!. But ever since he's become regularly sexually active again (those past 4 years he wasn't intimate much, if ever) he has been having difficulty keeping it going (ED) and its become a real problem because we both have very strong and healthy sex drives!. I am 6 months pregnant, so my needs have changed a little!. We're currently on a 'break' in the bedroom in hopes that pent up hormones will make the difference!. But I really think that he has frequent Erectile dysfunction and that its caused by something physical!. (either lifestyle, diet, fitness, or old health concerns such as kidney stones 2 years ago)!. He thinks he's not big enough or good enough anymore!. I love him very much, how do I get him to feel better about himself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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you answered your own question!.
Your 6 months pregnant!!!!. It was hard for me when my wife was pregnant!. I really was not interested in having sex with her (and my wife is a hotty) It has alot to do with your pregnancy!. Not the weigh gain, or the over eating , or the hormones!. Is just that when i though of my wife at the time, i felt like i was corrupting her and the baby for some reason and i couldnt consintrate!. This happends to alot of men!. Its not the wife or anything physical, but its us as men!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your 6 months pregnant!!!!. It was hard for me when my wife was pregnant!. I really was not interested in having sex with her (and my wife is a hotty) It has alot to do with your pregnancy!. Not the weigh gain, or the over eating , or the hormones!. Is just that when i though of my wife at the time, i felt like i was corrupting her and the baby for some reason and i couldnt consintrate!. This happends to alot of men!. Its not the wife or anything physical, but its us as men!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You might try the herb
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Horney goat weed
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And maybe some stimulation CD's
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I had the same problem and the VA hospital urologist gave me a couple of web sites to get some helper outers
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Adam and Eve is the best we the wife and I found out
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I had Limp Dick for a long time till I decided to get helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Horney goat weed
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And maybe some stimulation CD's
!.!. !. !.!.
I had the same problem and the VA hospital urologist gave me a couple of web sites to get some helper outers
!.!. !. !.!.
Adam and Eve is the best we the wife and I found out
!.!. !. !.!.
I had Limp Dick for a long time till I decided to get helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
i Dont know in witch Country U stay But let me tell U in South Africa we have Adult shops that sell of the best tablets with no side effects that will change his hole sex life!. So if U dont want to see a doctor just go to a shop and get what U needWww@Answer-Health@Com
You can only suggest him to see a urologist and tell him that this probllem will not solve itself:does he want to spend the rest of his life like this!?And tell him you have needs too!.
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You can only suggest!. It's up to him to fix the problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, what is your question!?
How to change your fiances mindset!? Spice things up!? Fixing of his E!.D!. problem!.
You raise a lot of issues!.
No offense, but maybe he is not turned on by you RIGHT now!. being pregnant and all!.!.!. (I personally find pregnant women very hot!.) Perhaps he is seeing you as the mother of his child and not his lover/partner!. I can see how this could change a mans view on sex and cause ED!. This all seems to call for the need for a sex therapist, or perhaps just a regular pyschologist or what about a clergy member!. Avoid "sex" talk with the clergy though!. But, you know, someone he can trust to give him an outside look on things!. We all need someone to talk to about our problems that can give us an unbiased view and opinion!.
ED drugs may help, but that wont change his mindset!. He may need anti-depressants!. Drugs are not the only answer!. How long has your "break" been!? May be time to end that break!. Noone says you have to do it everyday!. But men get funny when they dont get sex!. You dont want it because you are pregnant and tired and fat, and all that!. But wait until the baby comes!. You will be sore!. You will be even more tired!. So will he, if he helps with the late night feedings!. You need to reignite the intimacy before it gets too far away!. And intimacy does not have to mean intercourse!. "Heavy petting", fellatio, mutual masturbation!. Whatever, just get close with him!. Light candles, put on some nice perfume, buy a sexy nightie: seduce him! Let him know that his is still important in your life and that you will never stop loving him!.
Get into his head and convince him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How to change your fiances mindset!? Spice things up!? Fixing of his E!.D!. problem!.
You raise a lot of issues!.
No offense, but maybe he is not turned on by you RIGHT now!. being pregnant and all!.!.!. (I personally find pregnant women very hot!.) Perhaps he is seeing you as the mother of his child and not his lover/partner!. I can see how this could change a mans view on sex and cause ED!. This all seems to call for the need for a sex therapist, or perhaps just a regular pyschologist or what about a clergy member!. Avoid "sex" talk with the clergy though!. But, you know, someone he can trust to give him an outside look on things!. We all need someone to talk to about our problems that can give us an unbiased view and opinion!.
ED drugs may help, but that wont change his mindset!. He may need anti-depressants!. Drugs are not the only answer!. How long has your "break" been!? May be time to end that break!. Noone says you have to do it everyday!. But men get funny when they dont get sex!. You dont want it because you are pregnant and tired and fat, and all that!. But wait until the baby comes!. You will be sore!. You will be even more tired!. So will he, if he helps with the late night feedings!. You need to reignite the intimacy before it gets too far away!. And intimacy does not have to mean intercourse!. "Heavy petting", fellatio, mutual masturbation!. Whatever, just get close with him!. Light candles, put on some nice perfume, buy a sexy nightie: seduce him! Let him know that his is still important in your life and that you will never stop loving him!.
Get into his head and convince him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You might try giving him a b****** every couple of hours!. Just walk over, undo his pants, and have at it!.!.!.hard or not!. He won't care if he's hard or soft as long as his d*** is in your mouth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
HAve his Testosterone checked-Also, sounds more like he's got emotional issues about his abilities!. That can really trash a male's "bedtime"!. If he has all those doubts about himself like you listed, I'd say it's more in his head than physical!.
And you being pregnant might make him not want to be in you!. Many males don't know how to have sex with a pregnant woman!. I did with my wife up to the 8th month-then it was getting a bit too "cramped" in there! LOL!!!
But he needs to be re-assured, altho to me it sounds like it's past that point and he might need to get some real professional counciling!. It wouldn't hurt him to if he can't beat his own demeaning thots down and see he's a good lover!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
And you being pregnant might make him not want to be in you!. Many males don't know how to have sex with a pregnant woman!. I did with my wife up to the 8th month-then it was getting a bit too "cramped" in there! LOL!!!
But he needs to be re-assured, altho to me it sounds like it's past that point and he might need to get some real professional counciling!. It wouldn't hurt him to if he can't beat his own demeaning thots down and see he's a good lover!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com