Help w/issue?!
Question: Help w/issue!?
I am a senior in high school and graduate this june, will be going to college this fall!. I have people I talk to in most of my classes, I would/do consider them friends!. But I don't have any close friends (for ex!. eating at lunch everybody I talk to goes off into their little groups but I am left all alone)!. Am I doing something wrong!. I don't think this has affected me as much because when I first came to the us people made fun of my english and so I learned not to care what others thought about myself as long as I can be happy with who i am and what I accomplish (reason why i am not depressed)!. A lot of people respect my accomplishments and I get along with most!. At first I thought that people were that way bec!. I had made mostly (when I was a junior) senior and sophomore friends but very few people in my own class!. Another factor is that I feel torn in between two cultures, I cannot relate to so many things americans like, but the same goes for the other side!. Can I do anything!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
first of all, it's awesome that you are able to not let what people think affect you too much - definitely maintain that attitude!. If I were you, I would try joining a club or something, just because meeting with the people regularly can foster closer relationships and you'll automatically have something in common to talk about! I wish you the best of luck and I'm sure things will be easier in college!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i think u should invite a friend u casually talk 2 out somewhere or talk to them a bit more, thn they'll start to c u as more of a good/best friend an therefore hang out wit u more at lunch an stuff, if they ignore u because of who u r an were u come from thn ur better of not friends with them anyways so ther's no loss there, but u jus hav 2 make a bit of effort 2 be gud friends with people some tyms, often if u both share something in common lyk u go 2 the same dancing club or stuff lyk tht it makes it easier :) xxWww@Answer-Health@Com