I just turn 17, peer pressure said i must start having sex... is it okey??!


Question: I just turn 17, peer pressure said i must start having sex!.!.!. is it okey!?!?
my teammates said they already have sex!.!.you know boys stuff joking in the shower!.!.most of these guys i know since 4th grade as we are in basketball team!. im the only virgin and its kind of weird being the only person in the team still a virgin!. im not sure if there telling the truth but my best buddy already had sex and hes 17!. my GF since i was 14 both of us agreed that were not ready to have sex and its not the right time yet!. my older bro start having sex when he was 16!. i knew it coz sometimes the girl sneak into his room when our parents are away!. what should i do!.!.!.please advice!.!.!.thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Stop listening to your friends!. The truth is, until they're older, most teenage guys lie about their virginity, many guys say they've had sex many times when in fact they've never even kissed a girl!. I know it's going to be difficult, but just shrug it off and realize that while they'll never say it, they know you're the better guy for not rushing into it, lying about it, or causing issues with your girlfriend!.

As for your brother and even your best friend, if they actually did then they actually did, that doesn't mean anything about you!. It's really really important to wait until both you AND your girlfriend are ready!. Trust me, I know a lot of guys and a lot more girls who really regret their first time!. If you rush into it, if you do it when you're not ready, then either you and/or your girlfriend will regret it for many years to come!. Also, if you're not ready for it, it may cause serious serious problems in your relationship with your girlfriend!. Losing your virginity is not worth messing up a three year relationship or hurting another person or even yourself!.

Shrug everyone else off, wait until both you and your girlfriend are ready, make sure to practice safe sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Peer pressure is something you just have to deal with!.!.!.

No, you do not have to have sex if you yourself feel that you are not ready!.!.!. If you have sex at your age there are consequences!. For instance, what if you get that girl pregnant!?

Anyways!.!.!. it is not ok for you to start having sex, just because everyone else is telling to do so!.!.!. that would be like everyone else doing the same thing like jumping off a bridge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Think of your girlfriend!. She isn't ready!. So, just because 'the guys' are having sex, you feel like you should too!? That would put a lot of pressure on her, and I don't think any decent guy should do that!.

So wait until your both ready!. Who cares when that is, its only between you and her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are certainly old enough if you wanted to, but definitely dont do it just because!. Wait until its someone you actually care about!. If you give in to the peer pressure, you will definitely regret further in the futureWww@Answer-Health@Com

you are old enough to do it if you wanted to but i wouldn't do it just because all of your guy friends have already done it!.
even your girlfriend said shes not ready but if you do want to do it then discuss it with your girlfriend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lies, half your team is still virgins they just arnt admitting it trust me!.

dont do it if you or your gf arnt ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's better than okay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you have to question it your are not ready for it!. besides that the first time sucks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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