Why does my boyfriend cumm so fast?!


Question: Why does my boyfriend cumm so fast!?
I have a live in boyfriend hes 21 whom ive been with for about 6 years now!.!.we have a 2 year old son!. I LOVE HIM! The thing is he cumms REALLY fast when we have sex!. Like last night he only lasted about 45 seconds after I got on top!.!.Whats the problem!? Does anyone know!? please let me know this is really frustrating!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
more than likely, he has a medical condition called premature ejaculation!. Try a cock ring or other sex toys that prolong ejaculation!. Or make him get you off before intercourse!. He could always go to a doctor and explain his problem!.!.!.!.!.of course that is an em brassing subject but he is not alone!. Good luck to you, and my suggestion is to go out and buy yourself a good vibrator!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should talk with him and see if there's something going on with him!. If there is or isn't just try to help him work it out!. If you get nowhere with that or just want a quick fix, try having him masturbate about ten or fifteen minutes before you have sex!. He should last longer!. Another idea is to get him to try and help you have an orgasm before he does!. Women can keep having sex after orgasm; men, as you may know, want to just fall asleep after orgasm!. Maybe suggest some oral on you first then the actual intercourse!. Just help him and let him know that you're not upset or disappointed in him for not being able to please you!. Hope this helps!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have you spoken to him about it!? Is he trying to last longer!? because if he's not trying you have no chance!.

If he's as concerned about it as you are try different sexual positions with him in an attempt to find one that is not quite so stimulating for him!.

Perhaps the 'you on top' position is just too good for him and it tips him over edge!.

As a last resort you could get him to wear a condom!. The condom will reduce his sensitivity and hopefully he will last longer!.

Otherwise!.!.!. practice!.!.!. practice!.!.!. practice!.!.!. the more sex you have the more used to it he will get!.

Don't give up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. When i'm having sex with my lady and i think i'm about to climax to early i try to shift my thoughts to something non sexual!. Anything to calm down for a bit!. That usually prolongs sex for about an extra 10-15 mins!.

2!.Masturbate first!. After a guy cums the first time its really hard to come again!. You can go for hours trying to *** again!.

Lastly!. Wear a condom!. Its cut down on sensation so it takes longer to ***!.

Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is what you do!. it dosent matter if its 45secs 5mins or and 1hr this will work!. First you have to get really aroused by masterbation of your self, then masterbation of him!. Then to increase your arousel give him head, Next he should lick you untill you *** and quickly jump on his dick!. This will make 45 secs fill like 30mins, most likely you sleep and 1hr or 2!. Four play dont just jump in itWww@Answer-Health@Com

You may not have a sex enough!. Tell him to try and think about other things while having sex!. He may also be very attracted to you!. Talk to him about it!. There could be many different reasons!. Also, try having sex more than once!. Then there is enough time for you both to be satisfied!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

He may have performance anxiety!. Though you've been together for 6 years, he may have some type of fear!. Try putting his mind to ease before making love so he won't be so focused on lasting!. I'm not sure this could be the problem, but it may be part of it!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Me and my husband have sex about 5or 6 times a week but at least twice a week he gets there and masturbates about 3 hrs before we go to bed then we hive lost of for play and i get my orgasm in lovely no halm in him try thisWww@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe his penis is very hmm, not just sensitive, but when he ejaculates, he cant stop!.!. is that what you mean, or do u mean like!.!. when your having sex it just happens, maybe it is his testes, that are very sensitive to sexual intercourse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my boyfriend is 23 and he says he cums fast cuz he really loves me!. i think that is sweeet!. i let him think that i buy that excuse but i know that he is a pre cummer, pre ejaculate !. (cums to faST)Www@Answer-Health@Com

could be premature ejaculation!. Take it slow!. Get him going then stop for a few seconds until he calms down then start back!. Some guys can hold the ejaculation for a while!. Maybe try kegal exercises daily!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

he can masterbate more and it makes the penis less sesitive so he wont *** as easy you can try!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Thats sucks!.!.!.!.make him wear a rubber!.!.!.!.!.less sensitive, lover sex!.

He can always wack one out then have sex with you, will last twice as long!.

Cock ring!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.last longer!.

That sucks though!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him to jerk off and c^m before he has sex with you!.
The first nut is always unpredictable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe you guys dont do enough foreplay before having sex!.!. Do you guys just hop right to it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe you're really hot!.
But I'd think twice about a six year old boyfriend!.
Your call, though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

the problem is you are to smoooking hot for himWww@Answer-Health@Com

Because you make him boiling hot!Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe he just sucks in the sackWww@Answer-Health@Com

ask him to take it slow!. that should helpWww@Answer-Health@Com

Typical case of premature ejaculation!. Premature ejaculation happens in many men!. Often the cause can be from not having sex for a long period of time!. Therapies and treatments are available; however, it should only be a concern if the problem is persistent!.

Causes
Experts are still trying to determine exactly what causes premature ejaculation!. While it was once thought to be only psychological, we now know premature ejaculation is more complicated and involves a complex interaction of both psychological and biological factors!.

Psychological causes
Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences may establish a pattern that can be difficult to change later in life such as:

Situations in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered
Guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters
Other factors that can play a role in causing premature ejaculation include:

Erectile dysfunction!. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate which can be difficult to change!.
Anxiety!. Many men with premature ejaculation also have problems with anxiety



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