Is this what i have to pay for having a gay best friend?!
Question: Is this what i have to pay for having a gay best friend!?
since he told me 3 wks ago that he's gay i kind of very hard on him on his 18 birthday lastweek i made peace with him and talk to him heart to heart in his room!. he drinks but i didn't since im still 17 and he got drunk telling me all his frustrations in life, on how hard for him to come out to me, words that i heard first time from him and he cried so hard!.!.seems i don't know him anymore!. i thoughts he will go back to his senses when he's sober again!. yesterday he called me to his room and he told me he inserted ladies deodorant in his anus while masturbating and it won't come out and painful when he stand!. he got rattled that he'll be busted as gay!. i drove him to the emergency hospital in the next city since he don't like somebody to know in our city most especially that my mom is doctor and his godmother!. the deodorant bottle was removed without anybody knowing and me lying to my parents and his to cover up!. is this the price i have to pay for having a gay best friend!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i know i shouldnt laugh at that but i cant help but let out a chuckle when i read the words "deodorant in anus"!.
i guess it kinda is the price you pay!. but we all have a friend like that in one way or another!. not always gay, mabe theyre bipolar and you have to help them when they have a manic episode!. or maybe they're a drug addict and you have to help them when they're fiending!. everyone has a price to pay for our friends behavior!. but at the end of the day we love the friend regardless of their faults!.
it doesnt matter that hes gay!. you should actually think of it as sort of an honor!. he thinks highly enough of you to come to you in such an extremely embarassing situation!. you should be proud, not thinking of it as a burden!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i guess it kinda is the price you pay!. but we all have a friend like that in one way or another!. not always gay, mabe theyre bipolar and you have to help them when they have a manic episode!. or maybe they're a drug addict and you have to help them when they're fiending!. everyone has a price to pay for our friends behavior!. but at the end of the day we love the friend regardless of their faults!.
it doesnt matter that hes gay!. you should actually think of it as sort of an honor!. he thinks highly enough of you to come to you in such an extremely embarassing situation!. you should be proud, not thinking of it as a burden!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't have to be gay to be his friend that is your choice!. Some people may think you are also gay by association, That is something you have to work out with yourself!. If you are not gay then your friend should never approach you in a sexual way,if he is a true friend!. It will get out eventually will you be ready to deal with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not exactly what i would use as an EXAMPLE for some1 to keep their gay best friend, but if you're willing to be his friend and u know he's going through a rough time right now so that could be the drinking reason!. but yeah, if you're willing to do all that then it doesnt matter what you have to do jus as long as he doesnt betray u or someting, yes, it is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I guess you and your friend are both in your teens ; a time when many boys have temporary homosexual experiences !. I think your friend may be wrong when drunk to classify himself as homosexual !.
To answer your question , yes , that is the price you have to pay ; you did very well to drive him to emergency !. You are a good and practical friend !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
To answer your question , yes , that is the price you have to pay ; you did very well to drive him to emergency !. You are a good and practical friend !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW(flavor flav voice)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be there and keep a list of AA places in your mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well he shouldnt stick things up his ****, if hes your friend then i guess thats all that matters!.!.!. right!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't buy this story!. How thick was the deodorant can!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're getting a little too involved with your friend and his issues--he's starting to rely on you as his parent instead of his real parents!. His mom should know about his orientation, it is a private family matter!.
I would try to cultivate other friendships yet this year, and enjoy the friendships with many other people!. Don't get too drawn into one friendship!. There's a lot of drama there that you don't need all on your shoulders!.
You can always remain a friend, but no one should have to play the role of a counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would try to cultivate other friendships yet this year, and enjoy the friendships with many other people!. Don't get too drawn into one friendship!. There's a lot of drama there that you don't need all on your shoulders!.
You can always remain a friend, but no one should have to play the role of a counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him next time to try for cock - it's a lot easier than deodorant!. What was he trying to do - make his bum smell nice!?!?
You can understand that he has been holding on to his emotions for a very long time, and let it out (the floodgates opened) when he did!. But that doesn't mean you have to be responsible for HIS problems (I'm sure you got enough of your own to worry about), so tell him that whilst you are happy to be his friend, you are NOT his shoulder to cry on, lie or cover up for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can understand that he has been holding on to his emotions for a very long time, and let it out (the floodgates opened) when he did!. But that doesn't mean you have to be responsible for HIS problems (I'm sure you got enough of your own to worry about), so tell him that whilst you are happy to be his friend, you are NOT his shoulder to cry on, lie or cover up for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
u have 2 support ur friend, but that doesnt and shouldnt involve lying for him!. its good of u to take him 2 the hospital, u r a true friend, but he shouldnt expect u to lie to his family!. be firm with him and tell him that u will stay his friend and support him through this time, but u will no longer lie for him, tell him that he has 2 tell his parents sooner rather than later its best to deal with it now rather then 10 years down the track!.Www@Answer-Health@Com