Leaving the lights on?!


Question: Leaving the lights on!?
will my boyfriend thinks its slutty if i want to leave the lights on during sex!? ive never had other partners except him so idk but it seems like its better to leave like the bed side table lamp on for soft lighting!. But he always keeps them off so idk!. opinions!? :)Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
if your boyfriend thinks leaving the lights on is slutty of you, then he has definitely NOT met my ex girlfriend!.
i'ma give you some info that should be common sense!.

you have the pussy!.
you have the power!.
if you want the lights on put the lights on!.
if he says turn em off say you want em on
if he says no then be like fine use your hand and get off my bed!.
in the opposite order of course
you wouldnt want him to nut on your sheets and just leave!.
but you get the point!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, be considerate, he is obviously shy and not used to being together and having sex if it is not dark!. Compromise-turn off the lights during sex,but then turn them back on afterwards as you relish the afterglow, and maybe get him used to seeing himself and you in the light!. So many guys nowadays are taught that being nude is wrong, even touching their own penis is "wrong" so those indoctrinations are hard to overcome!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with you\

he might have problems of his own

in the first place he should never have called you slutty

that just lacks all respect

secondly

most people prefer soft lighting

in fact out on a beach
by yourselves in broad daylight is great

maybe he doesn't find you attractive

that is a possabiliyty

if that is the case

then maybe
you should confront
him with that

if he doesn't
he probably never will
\blow him off

and get a new one

by the sounds of it there are better ones aavailableWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hi Erin K
I think you are correct by leaving the light on!.It adds to the excitement and you can see more or how you both are making love!. Looking and seeing eachother a you make love is all part of the romance and enjoyment of it!. Maybe your boyfriend thinks his penis is to small and feel like hes not good in bed!. maybe he has sex issues where he thinks it dirty so if you leave the light on he thinks its gross !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you slut how could leave the lights on
everyone knows any slutl that leaves the lights on
is a slut!.!.lol jk
hes thinking bout what he wants!.!.!.id let you leave the water running if you wanted to feel like we were by a waterfall!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

slutty!? you need to learn some better adjectives and think of yourself more positively!. consider having this conversation with your bf as he will know the answer better than anyone else on Yahoo!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Buy yourself a night light, once your eyes adjust you will have a soft light that even he may be comfortable with!. I like you enjoy soft light!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what ever your both ok with!.!.!.we like lights on!.!.!.!.lol!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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